Why can't dirty toys that children are particularly obsessed with be thrown away and washed?

From the child's point of view, because this dirty toy is his inseparable companion, it will be different after washing, and it will no longer be the toy he plays with all day. You can't wash it, let alone throw it away. This shows that the child has a very strong attachment to this dirty toy.

Generally speaking, such children are relatively insecure. Elders at home, especially parents, should reflect on themselves, whether they give their children too little sense of security, which leads to the transfer of their attachment to their parents to toys that they often accompany. Try it, spend more time with your children and give them more love.

Let the children build up a sense of security and tell them to go to work at ordinary times and come back to accompany him after work. Tell the child that mom and dad are always there, and no matter what happens, mom and dad will come back to accompany him immediately, so that the child should not be afraid that mom and dad will not accompany him for the time being.

On weekends, you should put down your work, accompany your children wholeheartedly and give them high-quality companionship. For example, take him to the zoo, take him to the playground, take him to the seaside, take him to climb mountains, take him to parent-child activities, and communicate more in parent-child interaction to enhance feelings. At this time, children will definitely forget the dirty toys they once liked.

In fact, he cares more about his parents than dirty toys, but his parents are not around at ordinary times, or they don't love enough. Toys are just substitutes for parents. When he realizes the happiness of his parents' company, the next time he takes him out to play, talk it over with him and tell him that toys like to be clean. If they are always so dirty, they will get sick. They need to take a bath and bask in the sun, so that they can always live healthily and spend more time with him.

Another way is to buy more fresh and interesting toys for children. Children generally like the new and hate the old, and new toys will definitely distract them. It will be much easier to deal with long-term toys.