Philosophical copy of Buddhism's understanding of life

1. Many things in buddha said life are hard to find. Those that are deliberately forced can't be obtained, and those that can't be obtained often come unexpectedly. Therefore, we should have a carefree heart, and let everything go with the flow, without resentment, impatience, excessiveness, compulsion, pessimism, rigidity, confusion, ecstasy, joy in things and sadness in ourselves. ...

People can really live, but don't be too serious. There is no fish in clear water, and there is no disciple when people look at it. The greatest sorrow of perfectionists is that they live unreal. In the real world, there are joys and sorrows. The greatest pleasure of living is to find happiness from pain. Pursuing everything is a positive thought, but it is not the best way of life. You are easy-going and life is easy-going.

3. Buddha said that what we said, what we did, the road we walked, and the people we met, every moment is our future memory. Don't cherish yesterday, don't look forward to tomorrow, just live every day carefully. Say what you can, do what you can, take the right path and meet the people you want to meet. Down-to-earth, don't ignore, don't waste time, fate has no chance, everything goes with fate, keep a good mood, even if you are heartbroken, you must have the most beautiful posture.

There are no assumptions in life, and the present is everything. Put it down if you can't move your back; If you can't afford to get hurt, look down; Think impassability, don't want to; I hate it, but it has healed. Life is a process of self-cultivation. Why use this uneven heart to humiliate yourself and hurt the years? In life, you may wish to develop "can have, very good; No, it doesn't matter. Habit can turn pain into happiness. Living is a kind of practice.

5. Leave some space for others and yourself. "the benefits are not available, the blessings are not available, and the situation is inexhaustible." This world is not anyone's world, but everyone's world, so everything should leave room. "The belly is wide and there are often ferry boats." More tolerance and more understanding; The kinder, the more hopeful. Convenient for others, convenient for yourself.

6. Some things are destined to miss you, and persistence will eventually leave you; Some people can only be passers-by in your life If you linger on, all your expectations will eventually come to nothing. Give up what doesn't belong to you. If you want to catch anything, you can only catch nothing in the end. Don't let endless desires bury the original happiness and happiness.

7. It is better to be angry than to live up to expectations. Stupid people only get angry, and smart people know how to fight for it. Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. Learning not to be angry is another realm of life. Angry, hurtful and sad, hurtful and hurtful Learn not to get angry. Being less angry is a kind of maturity and wisdom.

8. There are three kinds of bitterness in life: you can't get it, so you suffer; If you get it, but only that, you will feel pain; Give up easily, only to find that it is so important in your life, so you feel pain. Since you can't get it, it will be painful to give up. Why not underestimate the gains and losses of life, keep a normal heart, and the pain will be alleviated? Look at the gains and losses with a normal heart, life is not bitter at all.

9. The breadth of your thoughts determines the pattern of your destiny. As much as you can bear. Everything is open-minded, thoughtful, affordable, and open-minded. Learn to forbear temperament, know how to restrain desires, retreat from time to time, and be generous when humble, and your world will be magnificent and distant; Only when you arrive in Xiu De in advance can you control your anger, delete minor details, get rid of distractions and selfishness, be more flexible, and don't care about comparison, so that life can go downstream and become a big landscape.

10. The faint days passed so indifferently. Life is like water, life is like tea. No matter how good the tea is, it will fade over time. Perhaps it is flat edges and corners, perhaps it is mature and steady, the pace is getting more and more practical, and the days are getting more and more dull. Life has entered another realm-indifference. Gain and loss, success and failure, meeting or parting, although they are equally eager for everything to be good, they can also accept that everything is not good. Indifference is a growth of life.

1 1. There is no real despair in life. Trees put down their fallen leaves in autumn, which hurts their hearts, but all winter, they let their hearts accumulate strength in peace. Spring has come, and youth is still there. As long as life is in your palm, there is no despair in life. A moment's success or failure is just a lifetime's little cold. Let the heart rest when it is tired, and the repair of the soul is the hope that life will never be exhausted.

12. As long as there is pain, life will grow. A beautiful butterfly becomes an adult after molting many times in its life, and then becomes a butterfly after spending a long loneliness in the pupa. Learning from mistakes, life growth is accompanied by deep or shallow wounds. Pain is not terrible. If you dare to face it, it is a good medicine. I am most afraid that you will finally endure the pain and collapse on the edge of victory. The most beautiful smile never blooms at the end of pain.

13. Fate comes and goes, and there is no chance. That's the way things are in the world. What should come will come naturally, and hopes and demands that should not come are useless. Fate, do not push, miss, don't ask. Come, welcome, go and see. Everything is fate, let it be. Things in the world can't be satisfied after all, and it is bound to be sweet to stick to it. What we can do is to try our best to be ourselves, let nature take its course and try our best to have no regrets.

14. Don't argue with others easily. When someone has an insignificant argument with you, you let him win because you have nothing to lose. In fact, the happiness of life, half to strive for, half to follow. Struggle is not with others, but with suffering. With, not go with the flow, but Zhi Zhi. I am most afraid of time and always struggle in pain. Let it be, let it be.

15. cherish what comes and let go of what goes. Life is a journey, not everyone will go to the same place. Meeting on the road is always beautiful, and the post station of breaking up is always bleak. No matter happy or sad, what should be gone is gone, and what should come will come eventually. The journey of life is mostly lonely. Know how to cherish, everything comes from beauty; Willing to let go, walking is not a burden. Let go of the past; Cherish the present; Believe in the future.

16. We are all time travelers. Life comes empty-handed and returns empty-handed. At the end of your life, everything will become a cloud. So, when you have it, you should cherish it; After losing it, be willing to let it go. After I lost it, I still pursued it, and finally I recovered only endless loneliness and sadness. What you can have, even if it is unbearable, is better than what you will lose. Only those who know how to cherish and are willing to let go can meet better and better people.

17. Put it down for better progress. The good and the bad are gone, and the good and the bad are gone. The fate of life, like the rain outside the window, has been soaked, wet, gone and far away. Once beautiful in my heart, once sad behind my back, I don't love or hate. The past is always the past, that person, that thing, that feeling, whatever you want, is a thing of the past. Learn to let go, life always moves from farewell to tomorrow.

18. Life is like tea, with bitterness and sweetness. Warm water can't make good tea, and greenhouse can't raise good children. No matter how good the quality of tea is, the water temperature is not enough and there is no fragrance. Life, like tea, can only be repeatedly soaked in boiling water, in order to force out the inherent potential and create long-term and stable happiness for yourself. Every trauma is a kind of maturity; Every maturity is a sign of happiness.

19. Nothing can be achieved without giving up. A person, only he can seize hope, and only he can give up hope. Resentment and jealousy will only make you lose more. Regardless of success or failure, we have reason to cheer for ourselves! It doesn't matter if you fall and lose it. Get up and continue to share joys and sorrows, singing and walking. Keep your eyes open and don't let your confusion confuse you. If you have a shore in your heart, you will have a ferry, a boat and a tomorrow.

20. To be a man, you must be able to suffer losses. Not alive, not dead. Instead, they will give up everything and often lose more. Really smart people don't care about superficial losses, they value substantial "welfare", because those who can bear losses are often safe and happy all their lives. Being able to suffer losses is a state of being a man, and being able to suffer losses is a kind of wisdom. Buddha said: if you suffer, you will never lose it, but if you cherish your blessings, you will get them!