Do you know the 13 truth taught by Ode to Joy?

During this period, the discussion about the five girls in Ode to Joy occupied the screen for a long time.

Most girls are ordinary people like Qiu Yingying or Xiao Guan, hoping to live like Andy or Qu Xiaoyu, but in the end they find that even if they try their best, they can only live better than Fan Sheng. This is not only a TV series, but also a naked life. So I wrote down my feelings while chasing the drama.

1, no one has the obligation to pay for your bad mood.

Only children's distress can be understood and forgiven. The world of adults is not easy for everyone, and no one has the obligation to pay for your bad temper. Qiu Yingying is a typical example. When he is lovelorn and sad, he loses his temper with the people around him. Think of the person you care about as an emotional trash can and a place to vent bad emotions. Know how to manage your emotions, and never leave your worst temper to the person who loves you the most.

2. Being good-looking is really an advantage.

Guan Yuer complained to Andy, "Sure enough, the world depends on the face, beautiful women are everywhere, and ugly women are everywhere." Yan value is like a magnifying glass, which can expand your advantage. Sometimes, your emotional failure is not that you are not good enough for him, not that you have a personality problem, but that you are not good enough! We must admit that this world of looking at faces. Only by acknowledging the cruelty of reality can we know how to improve our core competitiveness through other aspects.

3. Seemingly beautiful love may not stand the test of interests.

Xiao Qu put a piece of paper on the white gauze cloth. Andy accused Xiaoqu of going too far, but Mei Sheng, a fan, said calmly, "One is a rich girl who looks like a leprechaun, and the other is an ordinary-looking girl from other places, a city insider, which is very practical." . Don't forgive Bai Jian, love rat is love rat. It's just that this sentence reminds me: Can love really stand the test of interests? It's romantic for young couples to drink porridge by the roadside. Is it romantic to drink porridge every day?

4. If you don't act, chicken soup will always be chicken soup.

Qiu Yingying watched her success at home, and Andy told her "it doesn't make sense". Qiu Yingying not only refused to listen, but also accused Andy of being overbearing and looking down on her. Not to mention a lot of chicken soup mixed with a lot of arsenic on the market. What unemployed Qiu Yingying should do most is to find a job instead of drinking chicken soup all day.

Not everything needs help.

Xiao Guan, who didn't know how to refuse, felt wronged because he was scolded by the manager for helping his colleagues. Andy said that if I were your boss, I would scold you. You signed this document in the end, and it must be your responsibility to make a mistake. It doesn't matter whether you helped others or not. Sometimes in life, there will be the idea that "it's all for others anyway, there's no need to be so serious". But your boss will only see that this is your achievement and work, and no one will care if it is your help. So either refuse to help or take it seriously as your own business.

You may not have seen the world, but please keep calm.

Andy takes Xiao Guan and Qiu Yingying to a luxury restaurant for dinner. Andy asked everyone politely if they were full. Xiao Guan said he was full, but Qiu Yingying said he was not full and wanted to try Andy's piece. When we went to the villa, although everyone was enjoying the beautiful scenery and luxurious decoration of the villa, only Qiu Yingying was eager to visit and ate candy in the toilet.

Many people can't help looking around when they go to luxury occasions, but they can't let others look down on themselves because of their exaggerated behavior. You may not have seen the world, but you must keep calm.

7. Be good at learning from excellent people.

Unlike Qiu Yingying who masturbated spiritually by watching successful research, Guan Juer knew how to learn from excellent people. She regards Andy as an idol. When Qu Xiaoyu asked Andy to help translate English, Guan Yuer also took the initiative. She said, "After listening to Andy all night, I feel I have learned a lot." The biggest advantage of taking Andy's car to work every day is not that you don't have to squeeze the subway, but that you can learn a lot of dry goods through communication with Andy!

Instead of handing out chicken soup in a circle of friends all day, it is better to find a good person around you, find ways to get close to him, and learn from each other's strengths and good habits.

8. Children talk about right and wrong, while adults talk about rules.

After publicly exposing Bai's suspension, he felt particularly puzzled and felt that he had done nothing wrong, so why should he be punished? Fan told her that "the people who hate most in Jianghu are those who don't know the rules".

The workplace is like a battlefield, and people who don't know the rules can't stand. On the periphery, we don't have much qualification to question its correctness, so we can only follow it.

9. Never give up your job for love.

Qiu Yingying is a typical example. He is not serious in accounting class, and only knows how to fall in love. I never leave my eyes when I work; Look at Andy again. Love never affects work. Many girls ignore love when they talk about it, and they can't hold anything but their sweetheart. But don't forget, love is to be talked about and work is to be done. The male ticket will leave halfway, but the accumulated knowledge will not leave.

10, don't overestimate your interpersonal relationship.

Manager Fan thinks he knows many people who are willing to help him. When I needed money, I made a phone call, only to find that no one wanted to talk to her. Just listen to the phrase "everyone is a friend, just say it when you need it" on the wine table. Don't take it seriously. Instead of expanding your social circle, it is better to manage a few real friends with your heart!

1 1. To survive in society, one has never been competing alone.

Andy is the queen, Qu Xiaoyu is the princess, and Fan is more like a Cinderella pretending to be a princess. Each of us has a family, and a family is a person's destiny. We can ignore the opinions of people around us, but we can't ignore the feelings of our families. You have to give up going to your favorite city for your family, and you can't be yourself completely for your family. You must consider your family when you study, work, fall in love, get married and settle down. We live in a society, which is never a person, but a family.

12, don't look at a person with a label.

Before Andy joined the company, everyone thought that as such a young and beautiful executive, she must have climbed from the top, but when Andy finished the meeting, everyone was impressed by her intelligence. At first, Qu Xiaoyu looked down on Fan, a "fisherman", thinking that she just wanted to get ahead by men and gain fame and fortune. Later, after seeing her family, she began to understand her situation and confusion. Qu Xiaoyu's serious efforts at work have changed our view on the failure of the second generation.

13, ugly people should read more books.

As soon as Andy appeared, he accurately and quickly stated the standard of disturbing the people in Shanghai, which made everyone exclaim that this woman is not easy to mess with. Accurate analysis of the market makes subordinates feel that the boss is not easy to fool; In the face of Fan's menacing debtors, Andy saw at a glance that the other party was making fake money and let the other party run away.

In today's society, sometimes solving problems requires not only fists and saliva, but also knowledge! Ugly people should read more books. Andy is so beautiful that he is reading a book. How dare we not study?