What do you mean, it's not a surprise, it's a shock

This is not a surprise, but a shock. This sentence is often used to describe that the expected result turned out to be a shocking ending. Usually this happens in some important occasions, such as exams, work, love and so on. People are always looking forward to the development of a good thing while worrying, but the result is often unexpected and frustrating. This situation is very common in real life, which also reminds us not to be too optimistic about expectations and to be psychologically prepared for possible results.

The difference between surprise and shock lies in people's attitude towards the event itself, as well as the differences in feelings and emotions caused by the event. Surprise usually means that people have experienced an unexpected good result, which makes people feel happy, excited and happy. Fear refers to a sudden and frightening event that causes anxiety, fear and anxiety. The enlightenment of these two situations is that when good things happen or terrorist events come, we need to keep calm and have the ability to cope, and avoid impulsive behavior because of being too emotional.

Dealing with situations that are not surprises or scares requires us to actively adjust our mentality and ask ourselves. We need to carefully examine our words and deeds, find out the problems and take corresponding measures to correct them. At the same time, we need to learn to bear ups and downs and setbacks, relax ourselves in time, find the positive significance of things, and see the gains and growth in all the processes. Most importantly, we need to make plans for the future, set clear goals and be ready to put them into action in order to overcome every difficulty in life.