What is the attitude of a mother-in-law as a daughter-in-law?

Early in the morning, I was awakened by the quarrel downstairs.

Listen carefully, it turns out that the son of the neighbor downstairs wants to throw away the waste that the old lady and the old man have worked so hard to collect. It aroused the opposition of the old couple and made a scene.

Her son meant to blame the old lady for picking up Xiao Mu stools, cupboards, discarded thermos bottles, plastic foam, boards, ropes, paper shells and some bottles and cans that others didn't want. There is a lot of waste on the balcony, which is unsanitary and takes up space. With children at home, it is easy to breed bacteria.

Finally, the old couple compromised. He said he would sell it this morning and never come for it again.

In fact, I can understand the feelings of the old lady's son. Nobody wants their parents to go out and pick up garbage. After all, there is no shortage of money at home. Why do the old people turn over the garbage cans in the community one by one in the big sun every day?

My mother-in-law is no exception. She likes to pick up things and go home.

Scrap copper and iron on the construction site, rice bowls discarded by others, paper-shell paper bags discarded at home, etc. As long as she sees something that can sell money, she will pick it up.

A series of discarded filling bottles, such as detergent bottles, laundry liquid bottles, beverage bottles, seasoning bottles and beer bottles, are all packed in snakeskin bags and placed on the balcony.

There are also those household appliances packaging paper shells, express cartons and so on. , all piled up in the indoor garden, thinking about waiting for the price of paper shells to rise before selling.

As a result, the price of paper shells dropped from more than one piece to 56 cents a catty from last year to this year.

One day, I went to clean my parents' rooms and found all kinds of bottles and cardboard stuffed under the bed and desk, which made my head grow big.

I can understand the habits of my parents-in-law, but I don't agree. After all, it is really unsanitary.

As a daughter-in-law, I can't tell them directly in person, I can only let my husband handle it. The communication effect is good. Two days ago, the old couple cleaned up everything and sold it.

Bottles, cans and waste paper shells piled up for two years sold for 5 1 yuan.

This money is very heavy in your hand.

Because I know that the night before, my mother-in-law cut her palm with a knife in order to peel off the rubber skin wrapped on the surface of aluminum wire.

When I put a band-aid on her, I blamed her for not selling it directly and peeling off the rubber skin. She said leather can't sell at a good price!

I am heartbroken. ...

At least one of the ten old people likes to pick up junk. Why? What is the psychology of those old people who love to pick up waste?

0 1 insecure, afraid of loneliness.

Old people tend to feel insecure when they are old, and they will have various physical problems. Generally, old people are considerate of their children, and try not to disturb big and small issues, but choose to find a solution by themselves. For example, by picking up garbage, make some money for yourself to buy medicine.

I can't stay at home, I always want to find something to do.

Living in the city every day, the elderly will feel very lonely. They enrich their daily life by collecting waste products. Usually, children are too busy to take care of. They go out to pick up some junk, on the one hand, they can find something to do, on the other hand, they can earn some pocket money and reduce the burden.

Many old people who love to pick up junk have been suffering all their lives.

We young people have never experienced the hard life of the elderly and don't understand their sufferings. Some people think that it is a shame for the old man to go out and pick up waste products, and he can't stand other people's strange eyes and bad words.

Personally, I don't think it's a bad thing for old people to pick up junk. It is said that the old lady and grandfather downstairs can also collect more than 3000 yuan every month, and they can find valuable waste products every day, which is cheerful.

? Nowadays, many old people prefer to live in the countryside rather than live in a bustling city with their children. Do you know why?

Because living in the city, the doors are closed from door to door, and everyone is closed after entering the house. Neighbors don't know each other and rarely deal with each other, and the kindness in the countryside is even less. Old people prefer to walk around every day and find something to kill time, and they don't want to be a burden to their children.

So, try to understand them. They are old, the road of life has gone more than half, and the time we can spend with them is getting shorter and shorter. In the remaining days, don't care too much about the elderly. People live in the world, don't take face too seriously!

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