I found the correct way to deal with involution.

involution was a hot word last year. Let's comb the word again.

The answer of a friend on Zhihu is particularly easy to understand. ta said this: In order to get a better view of the movie, a person first stood up to watch it, and the person who was blocked by him had to stand up. Finally, everyone had to stand up to watch the movie, only the people in the first row sat.

To play games, in order to have better entertainment, one person first pays money to hang others, and those who are abused by him have to pay money. In the end, everyone either pays money hard or is hanged, and only the administrator can hang everyone without paying money.

Chasing girls, in order to better express his mind, one man's diamond has been passed down forever, and others have to follow it forever. Everyone has spent more money, and only the diamond seller has earned it.

In order to grab a train ticket, one person first used the ticketing software, forcing others to use the ticketing software, because the number of tickets did not increase, and finally everyone returned to the starting line, but the person who developed the ticketing software made a profit.

When children go to school, one child goes to the remedial class, forcing everyone to go to the remedial class. In the end, the ranking remains unchanged, but the person who runs the remedial class earns money.

originally, everyone worked eight hours, and some people started to work overtime. Finally, everyone was forced to work overtime, and everyone still earned that little money, but the boss's 3 series was changed to 5 series.

after that, let me talk about a book I've been reading recently, Top Students in Friends Circle. The author Ma Xiaosong, a top student in his circle of friends, has to talk about Li Jiaobeast.

Li Jing is the author of "Li Jiaoshou" in WeChat official account. In July 215, Beijing Educated Information Technology Co., Ltd. was founded.

In December 216, Baidu acquired Beijing Educated Information Technology Co., Ltd. wholly, and its founder Li Jing joined Baidu with his team as the vice president of Baidu.

Ma Xiaosong said that he has met many wonderful people over the years. According to his observation, these people's abilities generally come from two aspects:

The first one is obtained through continuous practice, experience, learning plans and learning from others, which is more practical learning; The second kind is obtained by reading books and learning theories.

Li Jiaoshou almost belongs to the second category, that is, all his things are "read" by reading.

The reading habits in his youth at least enabled Li Jiaoshou to establish two important basic principles and ideals in his life as early as possible:

First, he gained good results in his early implementation by combining theory with practice, which made him firmly confident in his theory. Second, I established my ideal of life early. When I was in junior high school, I made a speech about my hope to become the CEO of a multinational company.

I read his story, and I think one of the most valuable theories he has practiced for a long time is "Strategy", that is, from the perspective of strategy, cultivating the competitiveness of long-term differences is the basis of any strategy, no enterprise is an exception, and so are individuals.

So, while students are looking for various internships and getting more internship experiences and certificates, Li Jiaoshou has no time to do these things. He took a differentiated road, so he had a competitive advantage that others did not have.

It is precisely because of his competitive advantage that others do not have. His company was acquired by Baidu in 216.

When Ma Xiaosong asks, "What advice do you have for young people who want to make some achievements?"

He replied:

If you want to gain any kind of influence, or any kind of ability beyond others, it must be to shape a differentiated competitiveness, and if you want to make differentiation, what is the biggest obstacle? The biggest obstacle is your heart and experience, because it is against instinct to cultivate differentiation.

Although "Top Students in Friends Circle" was published in September 217, she undoubtedly correctly answered the coping style under "involution".

? Reflections on the internal volume of education?

"My daughter is unstoppable to become an ordinary person" is a speech by Liu Yu, a professor in Tsinghua. I have listened to it several times.

What impressed me most was that, for example, she mentioned the phenomenon that all children are learning the piano now. She said, Think about it, there may be more than 3 million children learning the piano in Beijing, and there are four or five upstairs and downstairs. Under such circumstances, if you want to learn the piano, isn't it suicide? It is better to let children learn the history of ancient Greece and Rome. Because her husband studied the history of ancient Greece and Rome.

I quite agree with Teacher Liu Yu's point of view:

Know yourself. This may be more important than knowing the world and acquiring all kinds of knowledge and skills.

The goal of our current education is to let children acquire more skills, the better. But children are rarely encouraged to think-who am I? What am I best suited for? What can I do? What do I like best? Children are rarely encouraged to explore and discover themselves.

in my practice, I always discuss some ideas with my children.

"You once wrote a flower of life. What do you think is your inspiration?" I asked the child.

"When I was folding the starry paper, I found that I had folded a petal, so I tried to fold it. Later, I found that it was a flower, and you thought of flower of life again."

"Then what do you think you live for?"

"I think to live is to live brilliantly. Duncan's life is as splendid as her stage performance, and she should live happily."

I always communicate with my children, help them to output their own opinions and help them find their unique hobbies and interests.