A passage from ignorance to maturity

1. When I was a child, I never understood why my parents could get up so early. When I grew up, I realized that it was not the alarm clock that woke them up, but their life and responsibilities. How can there be such a quiet time? Someone is carrying the load for you.

2. Only after experiencing many things can we understand the wind. No one is anyone's, and no one can become anyone's. The only eternal truth is to take care of yourself and don't long for others.

3. Don’t expect everyone to understand you, everyone has their own stories and legends; don’t expect everyone to love you, no matter how beautiful the flower is, there are meaningless onlookers. Live your own life and follow your own path.

4. Don’t lose yourself in order to please someone. People who really like you will like everything about you. People who understand you will naturally know your original appearance.

5. When you see someone clearly without exposing them, you understand the meaning of forgiveness; when you hate someone without falling out, you understand the ultimate respect. In life, there are always people you can't stand, and there are people who can't stand you.

6. If a person cannot control his own emotions, even if he gives you the whole world, you will destroy everything sooner or later. If you cannot be the master of your mentality, you will inevitably become a slave of your emotions. Remember: your temper should never be greater than your ability.

7. Instead of racking your brains to please others, why not work hard to improve your own cultivation! Birds of a feather flock together and people divide into groups. Only when you are excellent can you be qualified to match other outstanding people!

8. You will keep meeting some people, and you will keep saying goodbye to some people, from strangers to familiars, from familiarity to strangers again, from being familiar with each other to parting ways, and from being late to each other. It's better not to see you.

9. Growth is to doubt over and over again what you believed in before, and then overthrow yourself one stage after another, growing new wisdom and temperament, with countless confusions and uncertainties, and firmness. To move towards the next stage of yourself.

10. There are too many uncertainties in life. Every time you say goodbye, it's best to be a little more forceful. One more word may be the last one; one more look may be the last look.

11. Don’t be too self-righteous in life, after all, no one belongs to anyone else; don’t be too arbitrary in doing things, after all, everyone has a temper; there is no one in this world who cannot live without someone, only someone who does not cherish them who.

12. Don’t contact people you haven’t contacted for a long time. They work hard and live their own lives, and there is no intersection. What should stay in the past, let it stay in the past. If we are destined, we will meet again. If there is no chance, it is better not to meet. That's it.

13. Time does not matter how long it is. With a clock, there is a length. There is no such thing as bitterness or joy in life. When there is desire, there is bitterness and joy.

14. Life is full of ups and downs, cliffs, ups and downs, bad people teach you how to grow, and good people tell you the direction. In this materialistic society, money plays a decisive role.

15. I have an apple and I will give you half of it. This is friendship. I only take one bite and leave the rest to you. This is love. I didn't eat a bite and gave it all to you. Those are your parents. I hide and tell others that I am hungry too, this is society.

16. Life is crazy sometimes. We always chase what we can’t have and give up what we need most.

17. Don’t easily squander a love that seems easy to get, and don’t easily hurt a heart that gives silently. There is no do-over in life, and life cannot be rewinded. Just do it and cherish it.

18. The more right you do, the more people will talk about you behind your back; the better your life, the more people will ridicule you behind your back; the stronger you become, the more people will attack you behind your back. . But what does it matter? As long as you live an open life, it is enough for you and your family to be happy every day. We don't live to please others.

19. Any shortcomings you have will be said to be your characteristics the moment you succeed. So, stick to being yourself, rather than being modified beyond recognition by others along the way.

20. When the water is extremely clear, there are no fish, and when people are extremely careful, there are no disciples. Therefore, it is rare to be confused, which is the highest state. Remember what needs to be remembered and forget what needs to be forgotten. Change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed.

21. When you are alive, you don’t need to fight to understand everything, because you are too tired. Compete with your family, and if you lose, the family ties are gone; compete with your lover, and if you lose, the relationship fades; compete with friends, and if you lose, the friendship is gone.

What we fight is reason, what we lose is love, and what we hurt is ourselves.