Friends rely on mutual tolerance and accommodation.

Friends can become friends because of fate and similar interests. After becoming friends, mutual accommodation is the guarantee of long-term friendship.

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? I have a high school classmate, slightly fat, average-looking, and the young lady has a big temper. At first, no matter who makes friends with her, it feels good, but as long as time goes by, conflicts will begin to arise around her temper, and over time, naturally, no friends will be made. Later, few people in the class wanted to be friends with her.

? Later, several of us discussed her. Although it is not appropriate to talk about people behind their backs, no one says anything behind their backs. Finally, her personality leads her to be too self-centered, and often such people are seldom willing to be friends with her. No one wants to accommodate a person for a long time, and people need to respond. I give in to you and you have to respond to me. Give in to each other to ensure the long-term friendship.

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? To this day, the friendship story between Zhong Ziqi and Boya is still circulating. Zhong Ziqi is good at playing, while Boya is good at appreciating. When they met, they hit it off. But it is not only a hit-it-off, but friendship can last. It is said that it is easier to fight the mountains than to defend them. If you have established a friendship, you have to find ways to maintain it. Naturally, it depends on mutual accommodation and tolerance between two people! Later, when Boya died, Zhong Ziqi put down the piano and vowed never to play again. Why is Boya so embarrassed just because she is a bosom friend? Losing a good friend is more heartache. A bosom friend is hard to find, and a true friend is even harder to find than a bosom friend.

No one is perfect. We human beings are always trying to get close to perfection and pursue perfection, but no one can achieve real perfection. When two imperfect people become friends, they naturally need to tolerate each other's shortcomings and each other's shortcomings. Why can Excellence only be used for things and not for people? That's because you are too hard on your friend and want her/him to be better, but she/he asks you in turn, and contradictions will continue to appear. After a long time, no problem will become a problem, small problems will become big problems, and big problems will not be solved. Well, this friendship is probably over.

Returning to the theme, I want to say that friendship depends on mutual accommodation and tolerance. If you want to be friends with a better and more perfect person, you can't ask your friends to be better. If he/she is so good, why should he/she be friends with you? But you can make yourself better, you become more perfect, and naturally everyone you meet will be more perfect, so that you can make friends with them. But friends rely on two people to tolerate and accommodate each other, and everyone takes a step back, so that the space between two people is wider and the friendship can be better maintained.