Inspirational talk about making your heart strong: 1. 1. The interesting thing about life is that it is an open process full of many uncertainties. Among them, there is the pain of failure, the joy of success, the stimulation of adventure and the profundity of thinking. Imagine, when our life lacks these, is it still worth pursuing and struggling? ? 2. Trust between people is mutual, and the stronger party must be the first to extend an olive branch to the other party. This kind of trust only reflects the essence of trust, because trust is not surrender. ? 3. To communicate and cooperate with others, you should learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes. First of all, we must have a broad mind. When misunderstood by others, don't argue for yourself and get emotional, but prove yourself with practical actions. Secondly, we should have a sense of the overall situation, consider the problem from the other side's point of view, and accept criticism actively and sincerely; Thirdly, we should have the courage of self-criticism; At the same time, we should be good at frank and open communication and enhance mutual understanding. ? If you want to win the favor of others, you need to like others first. If you want to like others, you must see the advantages of each other. ? Let others know that you have the same interests as them, which is very important for maintaining a good relationship. If you always talk big in conversation, you will be hated; If we are talking about topics of mutual interest, it will be much easier to narrow the distance between us. ? 6. People who are often surrounded by people with ulterior motives value sincere feelings and care between people more than people with humble status. ? 7. Work for yourself, and you will go it alone; If you work for others, dozens or hundreds of people will help you. The basis of cooperation lies in * * * winning. ? 8. When a person concentrates on doing things, he will forget himself and forget too many right and wrong things attached to himself. And the habit of caring too much about your own interests will become an obstacle to your career. ? 9. Remember these two points when dealing with people: First, others are important; Second, you are also very important? Looking at others from an equal perspective will help you to do things calmly. ? 10, the best way to overcome strong self-awareness is to pay more attention to others, their interests, wishes and actions, so as to temporarily forget themselves. ? 1 1. Criticism is like a dog. When it sees that you are afraid of it, it will chase you and threaten you more and more. But if you turn around and face him bravely, he will wag his tail for you to touch instead of yelling? How to deal with criticism and insult reflects a person's quality and philosophy of life. ? 12. Imagine that ten most prestigious painters get together, sit around the round table and draw an apple in the middle of the round table. What will happen? Everyone must draw apples differently, because everyone looks at apples from different angles? Stubbornly think that your view of things is correct, and adopt a closed attitude towards others' views, which can only limit yourself? Therefore, listening more is more important than speaking more. ? 13, when a person is afraid that others will look down on what you have done, he wants to brag most. At this time, you want to attract others' attention by exaggerating the facts, and when you talk nonsense, it often leads to ridicule. ? 14, when you want to brag, think about how much you hate others to brag, then you won't do such a stupid thing. ? 15, what will be done is far more important than what has been done. The value of the past is that it will help you in the future. ? 16, habitual resentment can lead to self-pity, and self-pity is the worst emotional habit a person can develop. When these habits are deeply rooted, it will be wrong not to feel sorry for yourself. Some psychological studies have found that such people only feel good in tragic situations. ? 17, there are many reasons for insecurity, not because our wisdom and ability are really insufficient, but because we use the wrong scale and always take our own actual standards and ideals, perfect and pure? Ideal self? Compare it. ? 18, if a person really deserves everyone's praise, there is no need to be arrogant, otherwise it is shallow. Bragging, conceit, boasting, arrogance, etc. In fact, it is a cover-up for the mentality of failure or complete failure. On the contrary, humility shows a person's confidence in success. ? 19, you should have a few books that you know best, just as you should have a few closest friends. We should cultivate a wide range of reading interests. Only in this way can we broaden our horizons, deepen our outlook on life and cultivate an open attitude. ? 20. When you are awake, let yourself read some books that need to be absorbed to understand. When you are tired, read some light books that don't need too much thinking. ? 2 1, exchange an apple and get an apple; Exchange an idea and get an idea. Choose a person with different talent and personality, who can make up for your shortcomings. ? 22. Smart leaders are good at knowing people and employing people, not acting on personal likes and dislikes. They have a profound understanding of human nature, and skillfully guide and use it, so that people with different personalities are placed in appropriate positions. ? 23. Don't think that the value you get by working hard alone is greater than the reasonable command of your subordinates' work. Third, don't think that you have to be in a very high position to give full play to your organization and command ability. Learn to cooperate with people around you first, and gradually, you can manage a larger organization. ? 24. Successors trained within the organization generally come from the grassroots level of the organization step by step. They are well versed in industry operation, have sufficient industry resources, and have close relations with external organizations. So as to better mobilize all aspects of resources, lead the development of the organization and shape the competitiveness of the organization. ? 25. people who can shoulder heavy responsibilities are often people who are willing to help him? Because he knows how to get help from others when he is in trouble. Know how to assign tasks to others. And he only does what others can't help him. ? 26. You must have accurate judgment and brave spirit of adventure. Only by combining the two perfectly can you succeed. It is difficult to succeed if both are indispensable. Only adventurous spirit without judgment can only be said to be reckless; If you have good judgment, but don't take risks and dare not take risks and consequences, then his success is mostly imaginary. ? 27. Everyone has a certain safety zone. If you want to surpass your present achievements, don't limit yourself. Dare to accept challenges and enrich yourself, then you will certainly develop better than you think. ? 28. Being able to concentrate on thinking and be interested in what you are doing is not born, but acquired through exercise. There is a secret here, that is, always let yourself think about what you are interested in, and you will gradually develop the habit of concentration. ? 29. Being able to concentrate on thinking and be interested in what you are doing is not born, but acquired through exercise. There is a secret here, that is, always let yourself think about what you are interested in, and you will gradually develop the habit of concentration. ? 30. It is a bad habit for efficient people to concentrate on one thing instead of performing multiple tasks and trying to do several things at once. ? 3 1. The secret of keeping yourself absorbed is to be interested in what you are doing. ? The Ducker effect of psychology tells us that ignorance is easier to build self-confidence than knowledge, that is, we can not only use the ducker effect to avoid blind actions caused by lack of knowledge and information, but also use it to start new challenges? Simplify the problem and act immediately. ? 33. Turning vague difficulties into precise and concrete forms is a very important thinking ability. When you don't know the answer to a question, it's often because you haven't made it clear. You should study it and try to express it in different ways; Or, if faced with a complex problem, divide the complex problem into several simple problems until these problems are solved. ? 34. Train your brain in a positive way. Rule 1: Don't give up easily until you have tried all the solutions. Moreover, I am convinced that every problem can be solved. ? 35. Train your brain in a positive way. Principle 2: The best way to train your wit is to think carefully afterwards and see if there are any other ways to solve this problem. But don't regret it at this time, and don't blame yourself. You can think of it as a problem-solving exercise so that you can do better in the future. ? 36, 30 seconds personality charm training: ① smile; 2 don't talk about heavy topics; 3 respond when listening; 4 Make a few impressive expressions; ⑤ Don't lean on the chair; 6 pairs of eyes? Triangle? Wandering; ⑦ Let the other party talk more; Don't reveal too many personal details; Pet-name ruby reduce gestures when speaking; Attending don't hide your own defects or mistakes; Reduce your spoken language when you speak. ? 37. Asking questions can lead you to modest study and rational analysis, and can also lead you to arrogant criticism. ? 38. The only secret of acquiring knowledge from others is to make others feel that you sincerely acknowledge and admire their profound knowledge. Therefore, the best attitude to ask questions should be: on the one hand, admit your ignorance; Admit that there are still many places worth learning; Admit that you know less than you don't know, and learn what you don't know with humility. ? 39. You can't have all the answers to your questions. But as long as you keep asking, one day, he will lead you to the most important question. But we should also pay attention to the art of asking questions, including occasions, objects and methods. ? 40. In life and work, if you should be impatient and angry about trivial things, at this time, you'd better have a rest first, or go out for a while, go to a place with elegant environment, or find out the reason for your impatience and try to relieve it or remedy it. ? 4 1. Being impatient because of trivial matters is actually looking for a way to vent. Subconsciously, I think this will help calm my emotions and keep my energy for the future. ? 42. Even if you argue rationally, you can't really eliminate the anger of others. We need to find ingenious ways to vent other people's anger, and these methods even include laughing. ? When others are angry, you should calm down, which will help your situation. The effective way to achieve this goal is to think about what effect being angered by others will have on you, and then think about the reasons or motives of others' anger. But anger is not used to suppress, but can be used? Remember a principle, when you are angry, you should be angry with a purpose. ? 44. Anger is, to some extent, admitting one's mistakes to others, or feeling powerless about events. Only calm, nothing can overcome anger like calm. ? 45. Another bigger mistake when covering up mistakes? Never hide your shortcomings, you'd better accept and admit them humbly. People who dare not admit that they have made mistakes lose the opportunity to learn valuable experience from them, and he will make bigger mistakes in the future. ? 46. Luck comes without warning, and sometimes it often gives people the illusion. Some things seem to be a misfortune, but there may be opportunities hidden in the middle. There is no luck or misfortune. In fact, it all depends on your coping style. To deal with these, first of all, you need a calm and objective analysis, and second, you need to make all preparations. ? For many young people, when you talk to them about personal development opportunities, they always say: Is there no chance in this country? . But if they broaden their horizons and broaden their thinking, they may find that every step they take has crossed an opportunity.
? ? Inspirational talk about making yourself strong inside 2: 1, ordinary steps can also complete a great journey. ? No matter how unhappy life is, learn to be warm and comforting, and give yourself more appreciation and encouragement. Life is a fairy tale, as long as the heart is beautiful, the ending will be beautiful. ? The name of the bystander will never climb on the scoreboard of the game. ? 4. A firm belief will win strong people and then make them stronger. ? As long as we can dream, we can realize it. ? 6. Every successful person has a beginning. Only when you have the courage to start can you find the way to success. ? 7. People who give up on themselves can't afford it, but people who are constantly striving for self-improvement can't beat it. ? 8. Don't make excuses for failure, just make excuses for success. Don't look for the cause of failure, look for the way to succeed? 9. A few more minutes of preparation last night saved hours of trouble today. ? 10, as long as the road is right, it is not afraid of the road length. ? 1 1. No matter how you feel, no matter how you are today, no matter where you are, please remember? Smile. There is no rehearsal in life, only live broadcast, so try your best to do everything! ? 12, if you don't stand up, the world will have nothing. There are many ways to make money, but if you can't find the seeds to make money, you can't become an entrepreneur. Success has been tried since ancient times. ? 13, conquering difficulties is glory. ? 14, don't give up a love just because of a little flaw. After all, in love, what is needed is truth, not perfection. Many times, we regard it as an unforgettable memory, but others have long forgotten it. It's better to overlook it than to dwell on it. ? 15, your love for one day may bring gratitude to others for a lifetime. ? We can't choose what will happen in life, but at least, we can choose how to face it. The so-called happiness is that a fool meets a fool, attracting the envy of countless people, and the ups and downs together are unremarkable. ? 17, only after tempering can it become good steel. ? 18, the amount of things in your mind is related to your future. If you want to master eternity, then you must control the present. ? 19, rather than rushing and making mistakes, it is better to take your time; It's better to be stupid than to be too smart to fail. ? 20. The skill of doing comes from the process of doing. ? 2 1, is your face to present the most precious gift God has given to mankind? Smile, be sure to be the greatest wealth of your work. ? 22. The firmness of goal is one of the most necessary sources of strength in personality and one of the sharp tools for success. Without it, genius will be in vain in the maze of uncertain contradictions. ? 23. All who should come and all who should go. Don't resist, don't stay, don't be greedy, don't give up, don't worry. Learning to look down on some things is the best protection for yourself. ? 24. The trouble in life lies in knowing too much and doing too little. ? 25. Nine times out of ten, those who can seize the opportunity to stay ahead will succeed. ? 26. Sometimes we can't let go, not because of loss, but because of our own efforts. The advantage of forgetting is that you may regret it, you may be sad, but your heart won't hurt any more. I couldn't stand it once, but now I just smile indifferently. Maturity is not to see through, but to look down. ? 27. The quickest and most reliable way to overcome fear and build self-confidence is to do what you are afraid of until you gain a successful experience. ? 28. Among thousands of people, meet the people you meet; Among thousands of people, in the boundless wilderness of time, I happened to catch up, neither earlier nor later. ? 29, life is not a race, life is a journey, you should know how to appreciate each section of the scenery. Do not, for one repulse, give up the purpose that you resolved to achieve. ? 30. If a person has no integrity, even if he is smart, he will always be a dangerous person. ? 3 1, knowledge gives people weight, and achievement gives people glory. Most people just see the glory and don't weigh it. ? 32. Scratches in life will become unforgettable memories. Silence doesn't mean you have nothing to say. Leaving doesn't mean you are smart. Being happy doesn't mean not being sad. Happiness doesn't mean you haven't experienced pain? ? 33. The most important thing is not to see what is vague in the distance, but to do what is clear in front of you. ? Those who try to do something and fail are much better than those who succeed without trying anything. ? Doing the right thing is more important than doing it right. ? 36. Nothing shows a person's character better than what he laughs at. ? 37. The most effective capital is our reputation, which works for us all the time. ? 38. Overcoming yourself is the most tragic failure, and defeating yourself is the most precious victory. ? 39. As long as enthusiasm is still there, even if youth disappears. ? 40. Can you understand this impossibility? I am possible. ? 4 1, let's turn our worries into our thinking and planning beforehand! ? 42. People sometimes wonder that they like to shed tears on people who don't love themselves and spend money on things they don't need. Sometimes, I just want someone to hold me tight until my mood really gets better. ? 43. You may forget the people you laughed with; But you will never forget the people you cried with. Some things may be better if you keep them in your heart. Over time, it will become a story. ? 44. Time is like this. Wandering among them is still very slow. When you turn around, you can snap your fingers. Life is so short, the world is so chaotic, I don't want to quarrel, I don't want to have a cold war, and I don't want to have a second regret with you. ? 45. There is only one way to choose? That's the way to give up; There's only one way not to say no? This is the way to grow up. ? 46. Fate always comes to those who are prepared. ? 47. The integrity of life lies in forgiveness, tolerance, waiting and love. Without all this, having everything is nothing. Life is so short, why should unimportant people affect their important moods? ? 48. The perfection of personality is the foundation, and the establishment of wealth is the goal. ? 49. Life always likes to tease us. When you are desperate, a spark of hope flashes for you, so that you can't give up; When you are calm, you will suddenly get hit and make you unhappy. No one is perfect, and happiness is not 100%. Why ask for so much when you know you can't have so much at once? ? 50. No matter how hard life is, in the end, you will find someone who makes you want to be stupid. Don't forget what others say when they are angry, because that is often the truth! ? 5 1, people must stand up to lies, perfunctory, cheating, forgetting promises and letting go of everything. What you lost, in fact, never really belonged to you, and you don't have to regret it. ? 52. In one's life, there are some unspeakable secrets, irreparable regrets, unrealized dreams and unforgettable love. Be lenient with others, and you won't be disappointed all the time; Be strict with yourself and you won't be depressed all the time. ? What really changes our destiny is not our opportunity, but our attitude. I always feel that waiting is a beautiful state, because it contains countless possibilities. The threshold of life is a door when you pass, but it is a threshold when you pass. ? 54. Sometimes, the question is complicated, but the answer is simple. Play hard, don't be too serious, anyway, no one can leave the game alive in the end. Life is like a stage. You didn't know how great you were until the curtain call. ? 55. Every encounter in life is fate, and there is no right or wrong. Every morning in life, we should work hard and not delay. Life is always a dilemma, no matter how persistent and unwilling, but we should learn to accept those that are no longer pure. From crying and complaining to smiling, in the final analysis, this is just a carefree situation.