I feel like my colleagues around me treat me like a thief. They should be careful about me even if I carry a bag or a mobile phone.

Hello:

I would like to share my opinion on your question. Hope it helps!

First, we all know that people's words can be scary. Since people's words are scary, I suggest that you don't need to worry about this little thing.

Second, you and them are colleagues. As the saying goes, you are not afraid of being used, you are just afraid of not being used. My point of view is that under normal circumstances, you and your colleagues are always in a real conflict of interest in competition, promotion, and salary increase. When you do a good job but are not familiar with other colleagues personally, some people will naturally find ways to attack those who are more capable. This is one of the things that has been passed down in Chinese culture for more than 5,000 years, namely: internal friction. If you are just the target of being hit, it must have caused other people's resentment and discomfort in some aspects. This discomfort may be that others don't like the person being hit. Secondly, there is a relatively obvious competitive relationship between them.

Once any of the above situations occurs, it is normal to be squeezed out and hit. If you are not hit, it is a good thing, but it is not common sense.

Of course, my opinion may be different from yours or even make no sense. But who would say who is right and wrong without any reason? Unless someone is in danger to him or has offended him. Therefore, it is very dangerous to get along with colleagues. Of course, this danger depends on how we deal with it and the people around us. Being strict with yourself does not mean that others will accept your strictness with yourself. Others, on the other hand, often do not readily admit their own mistakes but treat others' faults harshly. If this person is exactly the person he wants to attack, then the sad side of human nature will be revealed.

Please don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying you did anything wrong. This is just my opinion.

Maybe you didn’t do anything wrong, maybe it’s because some colleagues think you have hurt their personal interests. It may also be that your unconscious words in the past handling of certain matters and work have hurt others. It may be that you are too capable! Others want to attack you!

Suggestion 1: When dealing with colleagues, take the initiative to enhance personal relationships with them. .

Suggestion 2: Pay more attention to the feelings of your colleagues when dealing with work matters.

Suggestion 3: Observe who likes to talk about other people’s rights and wrongs in the relationship between colleagues, and handle the relationship with him well (it is only a relationship between colleagues, not friends).

Suggestion 4: Take the initiative to say good things about B in front of A in the work environment, and say good things about A in front of B, and try to change the relationship atmosphere of the entire working environment.

Suggestion 5: Leave this work environment that has made you sad so that you can be relieved. At least such an environment will have long-term benefits for your personal future, not short-term benefits. Of course, this depends on your own choice and planning. Such an environment can exercise your own will and ability, but it may also make you suffer a blow every day.

Suggestion 6: If you do nothing, do everything. If you are calm, you will not be attacked by bad words. The only relationship between you is work. All contacts and exchanges should be based on the smooth completion of work as the first and only goal. Do not use personal relationships to compete with work rules, and do not talk too much to others about things that have nothing to do with work. ! Unless the relationship is determined to be reliable (but even with such a relationship, you can't say everything! Maybe you and him are both candidates for promotion one day, what will you do?) Unless there is a strong backing. Sun Wukong is not as powerful as the Jade Emperor, will the Dragon King take advantage of him?

Suggestion 7: All actions are only for the smooth development of work. This is certainly important, but we are a society of interpersonal relationships. In other words, if we look down on someone and unintentionally hurt them because of this thought. So even if you feel that you have no grudge against him, he will take revenge! Unless you didn't hurt him, it will be. There are no good people or bad people around us.

There are only good and not bad people! When others hurt us, we treat them as bad people, and vice versa! Therefore, the most important thing is to improve your interpersonal relationships. Didn't Liu Bang rely on winning people's hearts to conquer the world? Learn to be patient! Be content with patience and die with complaints!

Suggestion 8: Take the initiative to clarify this matter and explain that it was not you who did it, and you are very sorry that they doubted you. It is a pity that the working environment here has changed, so I am writing a resignation letter in this way. In this way, the worst thing is that the leader agrees to resign, and the best thing is that the leader will handle the matter based on this letter, that is, the reason for your resignation (if the leader is responsible, the premise is that he trusts you as a person!! ! ) If others don’t know about it, they will be ostracized by everyone!

Suggestion 9: Say nothing, resign and leave. According to Chinese cultural thinking, they will generally think that you have a guilty conscience! In this case, the friends you meet at work may also stay away from contact with you. After all, people who don't know you will think you have a guilty conscience.

Suggestion 10: Since they don’t understand you, let’s use time to prove it. After all, the occurrence of things is as bad as a person’s behavior! In other words, if someone does something that makes you wronged, he will definitely take risks because of his greed for profit and behavior. He is not afraid of people telling lies, but afraid of people doing evil things. Be patient, the truth will be revealed one day!