Classic quotations from a childless mother-in-law (there is a kind of happiness that tells her mother-in-law not to help her with her baby)

Nowadays, it is very common for the elderly to take care of their children, especially in large and medium-sized cities. Because young people live faster and even have to work overtime to earn money to support their families, they often give their children to the elderly, but not all the elderly want to take care of their children, and many are forced to help young people. Of course, in reality, some mothers-in-law will decisively refuse to take care of their children. They just want their old age to be a little easier. Some daughter-in-law kept complaining about her mother-in-law, and even threatened not to help the elderly if they didn't take care of their children. In fact, it is not always a bad thing for a mother-in-law not to bring a baby, but sometimes it is a kind of happiness, such as the following netizen's statement.

@ You and My Dream: I am free to take care of my baby. I don't have to bother telling my mother-in-law what to do and what not to do. Of course, I don't have to worry about making my mother-in-law angry. So in my opinion, it is a happy thing that my mother-in-law doesn't help with the baby.

@ Baby is growing up: Even if the mother-in-law is willing to help with the baby, there must be a limit. Nowadays, many old people spoil their babies, which is very unfavorable to their personality development and future development. If you take care of your baby, no matter how hard it is, you can personally witness all the details of your baby's growth. This is undoubtedly a very happy thing.

There is little conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law when they treat their children.

People of different ages may have different views and practices on things. Perhaps the mother-in-law thinks that the daughter-in-law's parenting style is inappropriate, and the daughter-in-law may also think that the mother-in-law's parenting style is too old, and the two sides are prone to conflicts. At this time, my husband may be at a loss in the middle and feel very embarrassed. If you take care of your baby in person, you can avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and you can also discuss it together when educating your child, which is more handy.

Test whether the husband really loves himself.

I believe many women have heard that if you want to test whether your husband really loves you, you can basically tell if you have given birth to a child. If the mother-in-law doesn't help with the baby, the general daughter-in-law will not only take the baby, but also do housework, which will be beyond her power. Some husbands personally help with housework and even learn to cook, so that they can test whether their husbands really love themselves.

Bring all kinds of help to children's growth

With the progress of the times, the concept of parenting is constantly upgrading, and many elderly people's parenting methods may no longer be suitable. For example, when they see a child taking a toy apart, they think that the child is sabotaging it and will stop it in various ways, which kills their curiosity. And now many parents can come into contact with many new things at work. If the elderly take care of children, they may have less contact, which is not conducive to the development of children's personality and hinders children's vision.

Conclusion: Therefore, there are many advantages for the elderly without babies. I hope all young couples will stop complaining about the old people because of this. What do you think of this?