How can I find a balance between raising children and working?

First of all, you are such a good mother.

I want to spend more time with my children, but I have to work and don’t have time. I can feel your feelings very well, I am also the father of a child. Life is stressful, and it is not very realistic to stay at home and look after the children without working. If you just want to take care of your children at home full-time, you can consider micro-business, part-time work, or live streaming and self-media. However, these are very energy-consuming in the early stage, and it does not mean that everyone can do it well. It is best to hire someone to get started quickly. The method I’m talking about here is high-quality companionship. Why do you need high-quality companionship? How can companionship be of high quality?

Why do you need high-quality companionship? If you just look after your children, anyone can do it, as long as they sleep well, eat well, and are clothed warmly. Mother is different, she will put all her love and attention on her children. Does she know what the child needs most?

What constitutes high-quality companionship? Mothers can think about it while working, what stage is my child at now? What does he need most? For example, is he going to have teeth? Would it be better to buy him teething biscuits? If he doesn't sleep well, buy him a pacifier. Read him a short story before going to bed, and interact with your child more when he gets home from work.

You can focus on resting time and do more parent-child activities and communication. Summary: Therefore, the best thing about spending time with your children is not the length of time, but the quality of the time. The above is my answer, I hope it can help you.

First of all, find a job that is relatively stable, easy, not stressful, and allows you to commute to work on time. This way you can get home from get off work on time to spend time with your children.

Secondly, you cannot accompany your child during working hours. You must communicate with your child well and let him understand that his mother cannot accompany him all the time. Provide high-quality companionship when accompanying your baby, so that he can happily do his own things even when his mother is not with him.

Finally, Mom and Dad can take the child to where he wants to go on weekends and play personal games together, which can enhance the relationship between the child and his parents.