Long-distance love and transnational love, what supports you to persist?

My husband and I talked about a long-distance relationship for four years. Instead of being separated because of being together, we walked into marriage together. It is not only that belief that sustains us, but also my own unwillingness.

In fact, my meeting with him was particularly romantic. From the day I met him, I was sure that he was my type. Since fate let us know each other because he came to Xi 'an for the first time, I cherish it even more. We haven't seen each other for a long time since then. Of course, it took about half a year to establish a relationship. Although we all know that this road is very difficult, we still go on because of the enthusiasm and despair when we were young.

The days with him are numbered. After all, the distance between different places is a bit far, Xi and Shanghai. We don't have a stack of train tickets a few years later like other long-distance lovers, and we can meet too few times. But the phone call every day has become the only way for us to communicate. Even if I changed my new skirt, he cut his hair again and again, and he could only tell each other by phone, so it was difficult to see each other's faces.

Anyway, I still love him, and I look forward to the annual winter and summer vacation. I can go to Shanghai to find him. I always go to see him because of his work, but I never tire of it. I cherish this feeling of being better because of distance. At first, the talks went smoothly. Although there is nothing vigorous, you are jealous of me, but your feelings remain undiminished. Suddenly, the intrusion of a strange woman interrupted the peace of my life.

A girl called me and said that I was a third party and wanted a boyfriend. I was stumped by a phone call and was speechless. Later, my boyfriend called me and said that if a girl called me. He said it was his ex-girlfriend whom he hadn't contacted in three years. He didn't know why she suddenly appeared. As for how she knows my phone number, I don't know and I don't want to ask. No matter what attitude he has towards his predecessor, I always feel cheated by them.

In fact, if I am now, I don't think I will continue to maintain this relationship because of my initial unwillingness. But I don't regret my choice. In recent years, I have devoted too much effort to him. After all, I have never been in love, and I have mortgaged all my beauty and expectations to him. Because of this change, I didn't suppress my slightest belief. Instead, I feel that only persistence and courage can give those monsters the most painful counterattack.

So I love more than before, so let's take a gamble! Because of my firm attitude, my boyfriend completely killed his ex-girlfriend and told her to go back as she came. Later, I gradually forgot, only knowing that it was right to insist on not wanting. Since then, our will has become stronger and our goals have become clearer.

I am also here for those lovers who are as far away as I used to be. Whether I can go on is not because there are many temptations from outside. It is easy for people around you to steal the wall without a partner. The more you do this, the more determined you are. If you compare your partner with the person in front of you, you have lost half. Don't give anyone a chance. If you loosen the screw a little, the bridge will be close to the water. Of course, don't insist because I don't want to. What if I miscalculated at first? That will bring me immeasurable pain. Endure loneliness, endure loneliness, trust each other and trust yourself. I believe you can do it.