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The ancients said that people are addicted and can't make friends. It means that a person without hobbies is not worth socializing with, because most of them are fickle and disloyal, don't attach much importance to feelings, and it is difficult to communicate with others.

Indeed, in real life, people with hobbies are naturally willing to invest time and energy in what they like, and they are often not utilitarian about their hobbies, but simply like them, but don't expect to be rewarded.

Such people, when interacting with others, can always show their true feelings, and are willing to give their true feelings to others without asking others for anything in return.

There are two kinds of people who have no hobbies: one is boring, their attitude towards life is negative, nothing can arouse their interest, and they don't want to spend time on interpersonal communication, because in their eyes, everything is meaningless; One kind of person is very utilitarian. Such people are often fickle and disloyal. They are only interested in their own goals, and they are very utilitarian. They asked for something in return. It is probably difficult for such a person to confide in others.

No matter who has no hobbies, no matter what kind of people mentioned above, it is not worth associating with: the first kind of people will only bring you negative thoughts, and the second kind will only bring you hypocrisy.

Therefore, people you don't like are fickle, so remember not to be intimate.

There is a kind of person who has no hobbies and is bored. They are not born uninterested in anything, but they are likely to become negative and depressed after failure, and no longer have the courage to face life directly.

I once received a letter from a reader in his sixties. In the letter, he said that his son was in his thirties this year, but he became frustrated because of a business failure. He did nothing all day, just shut himself in the house and slept.

The reader said that many friends would come to see his son at first, but after a long time, no one would come to see his son anymore. He is very worried about his son's state and is afraid that his son will be out of touch with society from now on.

In fact, the reader's son is a fickle person, because he only thinks of his own failure, but he doesn't think of his elderly parents and friends who care about him. He did nothing by himself, leaving only heavy burdens and pressures for his parents.

There is a reason why his friends are gradually moving away from him. The so-called God helps those who help themselves, a self-indulgent person who is unwilling to cheer up, is hopeless. When friends talk to him, they can only feel his negative thoughts. In the long run, no one wants to be his "emotional trash can".

Therefore, bored people are mostly frustrated people. If they don't want to stand up and only think about negative thoughts, such people are not worth socializing with.

The second kind of addicts are those who are too utilitarian. They can give up their hobbies and social activities for their own utilitarian purposes. In their eyes, hobbies and social activities are not worth wasting time.

This kind of person will not associate with others easily. Once they decide to associate with someone, they must have a certain purpose. They hope that the people they associate with can bring them some benefits.

The ancients said that people who benefit from contacts will be scattered when their interests are exhausted. When you can bring them some benefits, they will treat you as a guest and hold you high, but once you are no longer useful in their eyes, they will throw you away without looking back, because they think it is just a waste of time to associate with you again.

People who are too utilitarian often have no hobbies and will not put their true feelings into any personnel. In their eyes, everything is an available tool. As the saying goes, when people around you know their nature, no one wants to associate with them.

This kind of non-addicts have a strong utilitarian heart and will not be willing to pay sincere attention when interacting with people. When you meet such people, remember not to be intimate.

The ancients said that people are addicted and can't make friends. This sentence is very reasonable.

When we choose friends, we all like to associate with people with true temperament. When you are proud, they will add icing on the cake for you, and when you are frustrated, they will give you timely help. This is the true feeling between people.

And those boring people who are not interested in anything can only bring you negative thoughts. Utilitarians who think that doing anything is a waste of time can only betray and hurt your feelings.

Therefore, people who are not addicted are fickle, so remember not to be intimate.