Listen to your children’s educational experiences

When we are inspired and have such opportunities, we should record them carefully so that we can keep updating and iterating our ideas. So do you know how to write your experience? The following is the educational experience of listening to children that I compiled for you. You are welcome to share it. Listening to Children’s Voices and Educational Experience Part 1

We often complain that our children are disobedient and are troubled by this. In fact, we should listen more to our children. < /p>

My son has been learning Latin dance for the past two years. He is very interested and looks at it seriously.

But when the movie ended, he seemed to be in a heavy mood, with a sad face, and didn't answer any questions. He lay on the bed glumly, and fell asleep after a while.

When it was almost time for dance class, I woke him up softly and changed his clothes. He suddenly said: "Mom, I don’t want to learn to dance anymore!"

"Why? Are you feeling too bitter and tired?" I asked softly, suppressing the surprise and eagerness in my heart.

He shook his head and actually shed tears, as if he didn't want to go. Seeing that the time was approaching, I was very anxious, but when I thought about it, he never said he wouldn't go. There must be a reason for today. I patiently coaxed and persuaded, and finally got to school, but it was already too late.

He blended into the team silently, and his movements were a bit mechanical at first, but fortunately he became active after a while and started doing them attentively.

During the break, he seemed to have forgotten everything, laughing and playing with his classmates, running around happily, and I was relieved.

Mom, dancing will kill you

After school, as usual, he smiled and said "goodbye" to his classmates and teachers. At this time, I asked: "Son, aren't you happy dancing?"

He said: "Happy!"

"Then why didn't you want to come just now? Mom wanted to If you know the reason, you can tell your mother now!"

He thought for a while and said sheepishly: "Mom, you will die if you dance, just like the teacher on TV!" < /p>

Oh! I suddenly realized that in the "Latin Life" we watched, there was a teacher Li who taught dance. At the last moment of his life, he was still teaching people to dance. My son must have mistakenly believed that dancing can cause death.

I chuckled and said: "Silly boy, dancing is a healthy exercise, how can you die? Teacher Li is already sick, but he loves dancing too much. Dancing is actually his He would not be happy without dance, so he would dance even if he died. This shows his extreme love for dance and his strong and unyielding spirit. Dance will not make people die. Teacher Li is. He died because of illness."

My son listened with wide eyes, and then he became cheerful with relief. He hugged me and said, "Mom, I also love dancing, let's go home!"

Personal Thoughts

Just imagine, if I don’t listen to any of his opinions and get angry and scold him because he doesn’t dance, what will the result be like?

Therefore, we must carefully observe changes in children’s applications and patiently listen to their true inner thoughts. If a child is disobedient, there must be a reason. We might as well listen to what he has to say first, then provide explanations and guidance, and then take corresponding measures. Instead of taking out the parent's advice as soon as we see the child being rebellious, stubborn, and willful. It is not advisable to lose your temper in a simple and crude way.

When a child is disobedient, it is a good time for us to communicate, indicating that the child has different ideas, or that our proposal does not make sense and he cannot accept it. At this time, we must listen carefully to the child's words, so that we can understand his true thoughts and inner changes, improve the parent-child relationship, and bring each other closer.

Therefore, listen more to your children! The key to the door to the depths of his heart is in your hand. If you slowly insert and twist it, it will open smoothly. Remember: Don’t knock or stomp on the door. Otherwise, it will not be easy to repair.

Listening to Children’s Voices of Educational Experience Part 2

At the beginning of the school year, the teacher came to me to talk to Little A, saying that his aunt and uncle were also teachers in elementary school, and asked if he had any antagonism with the junior high school teachers. When I heard this, I was very surprised. Because Little A is a student who is passionate about his teacher, he will always say hello and say goodbye to his teacher every time he meets or after school. He never had any conflicts with others during the semester last year, and he also listens to the teacher's teachings seriously. I completed my homework, listened carefully in class, and when I first entered junior high school, I was very active and willing to perform in class. Although his parents were busy and did not have time to take care of Little A, Little A was very strong-willed and left an impression on the teacher that he was aggressive, optimistic and cheerful. How could things change drastically after just one winter vacation?

Little A did not arrive at school on the morning of registration, but his mother did. He said that Little A was hiding under the covers and refused to come to school unless he changed classes. Changing classes? It’s not a trivial matter. There is no room for a student to change whenever he wants. Wouldn’t the school be in chaos? What makes me even more puzzled is how can a positive and optimistic student not want to come to school? With these Mysterious, I found Little A’s house. He was still lying in bed watching TV. He didn't seem embarrassed when he saw me, but he was at least a little embarrassed. I asked him softly why he didn't come to school, and he said he didn't want to go. I said, well, tell the teacher why. Because I know that he is willing to communicate with teachers. I said again, but let's turn off the TV first, okay? This will help him focus on the topic he is talking about. He felt that practicing pen calligraphy was too tiring and said that he would never be able to write well in his life. Oh, it turns out it’s winter vacation homework to practice calligraphy. He told me: When he was in the fifth grade of elementary school, the teacher said that his handwriting was not good and asked him to rewrite his homework seven or eight times but he still couldn't write well, so he started to give up. That's it, but you are only fourteen or fifteen years old, how can you spend your whole life? Children, we cannot stop our progress because of setbacks on the road. I asked again, don't you want to go to school? He immediately denied it. He said that it was not necessary to change classes. He was very affectionate towards his classmates and thought Teacher Zhao was very good, but he was too in charge and a bit wordy. After listening, I laughed. It seems that I am very old. He said that the reason why he wanted to change classes was because others said our class was a garbage class, so he wanted to go to a good class. After figuring out the whole story, I asked him to report in and get his books in the afternoon.

After school started, I didn’t look for him any more and asked him to continue his work as group leader. Just during the class meeting, I read some articles to the whole class, such as "Relying on Yourself in Everything", "Determined to Be Determined from a Childhood" and so on. In addition, in the class, I emphasized: Don't look down on yourself, and have a class collective concept of honoring me when the class is up, and being ashamed when the class is failing. He is also a smart child. He has not failed in his studies and is very active in class, raising his hands and answering questions. I didn’t say anything about his homework, but I just helped them practice writing one or two words when I had free time. Regarding the Chinese translation of English phrases, I started the day by asking a student to write on the blackboard, and he was also "intentionally" called to write. But I don’t think I need to say more, he wrote more correctly than before. Listening to Children’s Voices Educational Experience Chapter 3

I once saw this passage: If you are with children every day and listen to them every minute, what will happen? It's a very interesting process, and you can get a lot of things that surprise you and make you think deeply. Think about it, there are so many topics about children that are lingering in your ears all day long. Have you really listened and understood them? In many cases, when a child raises an inappropriate topic, the teacher simply ignores it and rarely really explores what the child is thinking. What does he want to express? What thoughts are there in his mind?

Respecting a child’s emotional needs means respecting his personality development. Do not obliterate or suppress the expression of his true nature, thereby creating for him the maximum potential for self-development. Tang Zhe from my class turned the small chair around and sat down. When I first saw it, I told him to put the little chair away, but he ignored the teacher's words. When I saw him for the second time, he turned over the other person's chair, so I quietly hid aside to see what he was playing. It turned out that he was playing a game of driving a train.

When a child behaves differently or beyond the ordinary, before criticizing or performing a performance, it is best to ask the child why instead of denying his performance first. Listen more to what the child has to say, and maybe just watch what they do. , respect their opinions, and give timely evaluations, the children will be psychologically satisfied, see their own shining points, and thus taste the joy of being recognized and self-expressed.

Children come to kindergarten to receive knowledge every day. We cannot force them to learn anything or do this or that, but they must acquire some new knowledge to change themselves.

But this requires teachers to create a good, relaxed and pleasant atmosphere for children, integrate the feelings between teachers and children, and learn more about the individual differences between children of different ages, so as to learn more about children needs and hobbies, focus on understanding the issues that arise in their development, and support the recognition of their meaningful practices and ideas. Sometimes it is a happy thing to be a listener to your children, which can relieve your own mood and dissatisfaction. Educational experience of listening to children's voices Part 4

Although children are small, they also have their own circle of activities, which will lead to their own joys, sorrows and joys. He needs to have his own person to talk to. No matter how busy parents are at work, they still have to spend a certain amount of time with their children every day. Don't watch TV, read newspapers, or listen to music. Concentrate on communicating with your children, listen to their voices, relieve their doubts, and provide timely guidance. This may be difficult for busy working parents, but it should be done as much as possible, even if it takes just a few minutes before bed. For example, ask your child how they studied during the day at school; what did you do during the day? What progress has been made? A few short sentences are enough for children to realize their parents' concern, thereby enhancing communication between adults and children. In addition, many parents often buy clothes and toys for their children, but rarely subscribe to newspapers and magazines for their children. Books are the ladder of human progress. Cultivating children's reading habits from an early age will benefit them throughout their lives. Children who keep reading will never stop learning. Many parents like to play the role of teachers and often teach their children to learn things from textbooks. I think it would be better to spend some time doing some useful reading with your children. Maybe some parents will say: "We have bought a lot of books for our children, but what should we do if our children don't read them?" In fact, parents' education of their children can only be subtle. A parent who plays mahjong day and night, he keeps calling Children learn, learn, can children learn? Parents are reading books and newspapers, and their children will also read. They read books with their children and communicate with them about the characters in the story, which characters should be learned, and which characters are annoying. Children have their own ideas in their hearts. If he can express his true thoughts and get the approval of his parents, he will gradually like to read and will soon get tired of playing with toys. Giving children useful knowledge for a lifetime is something that many parents lack. Awareness, buy a map, if possible, buy a globe and put it at home. Whenever the news reports a place, find that place with your children. There are joys and sorrows in the news reports, and the differences between regions are also very big, which makes Children know what life is like for children in the war-torn Iraq. They also let children know how wealthy Japan and the United States are. Their prosperity depends on high technology and knowledge. If they don’t have knowledge, they are still backward. Let children understand that they should Be diligent in learning knowledge.

Parents always educate their children to respect their elders, brothers and sisters. This is impeccable, but have parents ever thought about respecting their children as well? A child's heart is pure and cannot tolerate any contamination. It can range from scolding to beating or scolding, which can easily cause psychological trauma to children and lead to low self-esteem. Those parents who are superstitious about sticks should reflect on it. In fact, respecting children requires doing every little thing at home. This is very important for cultivating children. It is very important for children to have a sound personality. Therefore, criticism should be like spring rain, which nourishes the branches and leaves without damaging the roots. In life, it is not difficult to find that the more often children are beaten, the more mistakes they make, because there is already a subconscious resistance force in their psychology, and this force cannot be changed by your stick. So if you want to change your children, you must start from the heart. Don't give orders at home, but solve problems through heart-to-heart talks and suggestions. Establish a family democratic life meeting system. Every Saturday and Sunday during the day, we clean the room, do laundry, and review homework for the week together.

In the evening, the family of three sat together to discuss the things they had encountered during the week and the children's progress and regression this week. Whoever had the problem was responsible for it, and whoever did it wrong should correct it next week. Listening to Children’s Voices Educational Experience Part 5

Every child in the class has his or her own personality and characteristics. We treat every child equally, get along with them equally, and discover their shining points in a timely manner. When a child makes a mistake, carefully understand the reason and guide patiently; when the child makes progress, give encouragement and praise to give the child confidence. Yingying was a little timid and wanted to communicate with the teacher, but she couldn't boast of taking this step. At the same time, we also found that during class, she usually did not raise her hand to answer questions. We will use our usual observations and performance in class to communicate with parents during parent visits and parent-teacher meetings. We used our spare time to chat with Yingying. Especially when we saw her expectant look in her eyes, we took the initiative to ask her. She also asked her to answer simple questions during class, and each session was conducted in a very relaxed atmosphere. At first, she was always nervous when she saw us and hesitated to speak. But as time went by, she would take the initiative to come to us when she had something to do, and she became more proactive in answering questions. She also took the initiative to tell the teacher about other people's problems. We are very happy to see her change. Just because of our active attention and careful understanding, she changed from not taking the initiative to taking the initiative. Why not do it? Paying more attention to the children, listening to the children's voices, and being children's good friends also makes the relationship between our teachers and students more harmonious and closer. Listening to Children’s Voices and Educational Experience Chapter 6

That day we were still doing imaginary painting activities for young children. Zhang Tian’s mother came to pick her up. Tiantian showed off her paintings to her mother: “Mom, hurry up. Look! This is the doll I designed!" But Tiantian's mother didn't express her approval or praise, but said, "What did you design? Look at how well Liu Jiaqian and Zhang Yuhan designed it!" Tiantian's face suddenly changed. Became unhappy. So I invited my mother to sit down in the classroom and said to her: "This is the super flying doll designed by Zhang Tian. Although the doll's face looks similar to ours, it has many superhuman abilities! Come on, introduce it to my mother Let's do it!" After saying that, Zhang Tian happily pointed to the dot on the doll's head and said, "This is a switch. When it rains, you can open the umbrella by pressing it. These are wings. There is no need for a bridge to cross the river. ...". I asked Tian Tian to read books next to me, and took the opportunity to have a brief exchange with my mother: Drawing is a manifestation of children's emotions and knowledge, and it can cultivate children's imagination and creativity. Following his wishes or imitating can certainly cultivate their observation. , memory, but as children in the top class, what they need more is some ideas and understanding of themselves. We cannot always restrict and demand with our ideas. We must not only give them space to create and imagine in life and study, You also need to calm down and listen to your child’s own explanations and voices. Mom nodded and smiled and took Tiantian away. Watching Tiantian jump up and down, I also smiled.

An art educator sincerely lamented the beauty of children's paintings - "Children are all artists." This is the highest, most authentic and sincere recognition of children's paintings. Children's ideas are the most primitive. They are not subject to too many restrictions or techniques. They draw what they think and what they see. For them, painting has no purpose, but is an expression of emotion and an extension of language. A line, a circle, some inexplicable symbols, etc. are all a way for them to express their self-understanding and a way to vent their self-emotions. It's their own language - a language called graffiti. We can often accept and recognize the graffiti of children. Even if they cannot understand the works at all, they will recognize that they are drawing and be pleased with the children's innocent expressions. However, as children grow up day by day, people's recognition often changes: they begin to measure children's "works" with the same perspective as adults' paintings, often only looking at whether the pictures are beautiful and whether the images are accurate, and for paintings The inner world of children expressed in them is often ignored. In fact, painting is just a form, and its purpose is to inspire children to imagine, express, and acquire creative abilities, rather than to hone their proficient painting skills or hope that their children can become painters.

Have you heard the child’s voice? Listening to Children’s Voices Educational Experience Part 7

In your free time, chat with the children about daily life, listen to their little secrets, and share the same happiness.

After lunch, I went under the wisteria trellis with the children, either bathing in the warm sunshine in winter, or enjoying the gentle breeze in spring. This period of time is the most pleasant. Children gather together in twos and threes, some holding their favorite toys to share, and some holding newly bought crayons to doodle happily. At this time, there are always a few children around. Be by my side and chat with me "no matter how big or small".

Haohao, who has always been sunny, has been looking sad these days and has stopped playing games with his friends. I pulled him to sit next to me, held his little hand and asked him why he was unhappy. The precocious Haohao hesitated to speak. Finally, he whispered into my ear the reason. Then, he asked me worriedly, "Teacher, when my dad and the new mom get married, my mom won't be able to come back, right?" "Teacher, if my dad and the new mom have a little brother, will he not like me anymore?" "Teacher, I still hope that my parents can remarry." Listening to the child's anxious confession, I know that his biggest wish now is that his parents can get back together. I thought, this is really a sad secret, and I hope that my listening can share some of Haohao's depression.

Once, Wenwen, who was like a "little adult", touched my hand and said sweetly, "Teacher, you are as white as milk!" Listening to this advertisement-like compliment, I She immediately couldn't help laughing and said to her, "You are quite fair too!" "No, I am not fair at all. My father is as black as ink (her father is a driving school instructor and is exposed to the wind and sun every day), so I am not white either. It's white. My mother said it would be nice if I could be whiter!" Wenwen said with some anger but also hope. It turns out that the little girl’s wish is to have fair skin like the princess in the fairy tale! I think this is really a lovely and beautiful secret, and I sincerely hope with her that this secret will slowly come true.

These clips are actually from a few years ago, but they impressed me deeply. It is impossible for teachers to chat with children about these daily chores during group activities and regional games. And use these free times to have a good chat with your children, and you will see many pictures that you cannot see on ordinary days, hear words that you cannot hear on ordinary days, and discover "secrets" that are not easily discovered in ordinary times - having children There are children's worries, children's wishes, children's preferences, and children's innermost thoughts. Chatting with children, listening to their "little secrets", sharing their happiness and their sorrows will help us understand and understand them better, and bring our hearts closer.