Sad to say, some words must be hard for you to hold back, right?

You must have a hard time hiding something, right?

You might as well spit it out gracefully.

Please be like the following people.

Empty your body first,

for a better life

When you are in pain.

There is a feeling that I feel worse than you.

It was none other than Lan, the glib and eccentric child in my story, my little daughter who just had her sixth birthday.

One day after school, Lan cried again. There is no special reason, just because she asked me to carry another bag of pants that she got wet.

When she walked out of the classroom door, I found her schoolbag hanging stiffly behind her. I tentatively lifted the backpack strap, which was too heavy. I wonder what's in this bag. I asked: The schoolbag is so heavy, is there another child in the class giving a present for his birthday? The chicken looked at me, embarrassed. Then took my hand and walked out. I saw that the trousers she was wearing were not the ones she was wearing in the morning. Judging from her expression, I guess that's enough.

When no one was around, she motioned me to squat down, put my hands together, leaned over my ear and said, mom, I'm sorry, the schoolbag is too heavy because it contains my wet pants. Mom, don't lose your temper.

Well, I am a gentle and amiable mother. I can't lose my temper with her at this time. I tried to be considerate of her. I said okay, mom doesn't blame you.

It's a long way home. Turn left outside the campus and enter the side door of the community. The twilight in the community is heavy, but it can't stop the birds and flowers. Carrying her heavy schoolbag, I can't understand why she peed her pants again. She was educated a few weeks ago. I started talking to her: honey, mom doesn't criticize you, but mom wants to know why you wet your pants again. Mom, actually, I want to go to the bathroom when I sleep, but the teacher says I can't go to the bathroom when I take a nap. Oh, are you going to pee on the bed or in your pants? She didn't speak, and I was obviously no longer gentle.

Seeing my cold expression, she began to find a topic with me: Mom, don't you think the Sophora japonica over there is beautiful? There are flowers and plants in the community all year round, but she knows everything I know. I have seen through her plan for a long time. I said, don't change the subject with me. You peed your pants again. My mother is very uncomfortable now. You feel bad, I feel worse than you! Seeing that I didn't smile, she also looked angry. She took a step forward, looked back at me as she walked, and said, You will understand when you go home!

I carefully thought about what Lan said when she fell to the floor: I feel worse than you! Little people, can you care about others?

I peed my pants. Am I the most embarrassed and uncomfortable person? No, it's her! She had to face the kindergarten teacher's eyes. The life teacher washed her pants and put them in her schoolbag, and she still had to carry them home. Maybe her little friends know, too. Will she mind the eyes of her little friends? And mom and dad, what would mom and dad do to her if they knew she peed her pants again? My little guy, what kind of psychological burden does she have to bear before going to school?

I began to blame myself. I should have a better way to know her.

Pushing open the door, Lan went straight to the chair where she wrote. Unfortunately, the room is too small. We have never prepared a study desk for her, and we have always used a wooden dining chair as a writing desk. Lan skillfully took out paper and pen and began to write and draw. She uses a four-grid symbol to represent the first sentence and a series of wavy lines to represent what she wants to say.

I think she should be venting her inner feelings in this way. Let her explain what she wrote. She began to list the crimes of her father and me.

First, mom is a bad mother. Second, dad is a bad dad. Third, mom will lie. Fourth, dad

Dad can lie. Fifth, my mother cares too little about me. Sixth, my mother doesn't care much about me. Seventh, mom doesn't like to laugh. Eighth, dad doesn't like to laugh. To sum up, add one more thing: mom and dad didn't take good care of the baby.

She speaks eloquently, has strong logical thinking and fluent language organization. She should have borrowed from the way we had a family meeting before and recorded her mood at the moment.

I asked: When did mom ever lie to you? She said: You clearly said you would forgive me after school, but you were angry just now. This is a lie.

I said, you don't know how to write it yet. Why doesn't your mother help you write these down? Mom will correct them later. No, I remember everything! When she finished writing, she folded the list and put it in her schoolbag. When I went to the kitchen to cook, I took out my notebook and began to write her homework: pinyin letter Zh.

I chose to forgive her because I was more sad than you. Because of a list of conversations she wrote, I began to look at her with new eyes and reflect on myself.

Being an excellent mother is too ambitious. The six years she grew up were also the six years when I first became a mother. She grew up on a minor road, and I am trying to make myself mature and rich on the road for my mother. I stole a look at her while I was thinking. I saw that her posture of holding a pen was wrong again, so I couldn't help but go out and correct it with a spoon for cooking. She looked at me and I looked at her. I patted her on the back and asked, when can it be changed? She said: I am like this now anyway. I have grown up. I'm not afraid of you hitting me. I'll change the way you want me to correct it. Don't embarrass the children I want to do my homework. Go to the kitchen and do something!

I have no time to argue with her, because I clearly see that a growing child is becoming more and more agile. She seems to understand my confusion better than I do, because I can't think of any way to stop her from being careless and forgetful. I can only follow her growth law and let her grow naturally. When she asked me to find a way, wasn't she also educating and warning me?

Don't insist, don't be sad. When you are alive, look at the problem from the perspective of others and naturally see the growth of a child. Maybe many problems will be solved!

Sad talk: some words, said or not, are all hurt.

1. If the heart doesn't move, what does wind energy do? If you don't get hurt, the years will be fine.

Don't put it down if you can't put it down. If you can't forget it, remember it first. One day, you will find that you have forgotten it in your mind.

I didn't meet you at the best time, but I had the best time because of you.

No matter what the weather is like, remember to bring your own sunshine at any time. No matter what happens, remember to fill your heart with happy fairy tales.

What I am most afraid of is strangeness after deep friendship, pain after seriousness, use after trust, and indifference after gentleness.

6. Forgive my greed and always want to keep everyone around me who is kind to me. Finally, I found that some people can't stay anyway.

7. Some words, said or not, are harmful. Some people, whether they stay or not, will leave!

8. After all, an unfinished book is like an unfinished business.

9. If life is bad to a certain extent, it will get better, because it can't be bad any more. A lot of things, if you stick to it, you will survive.

Some sadness, sadness that not everyone will understand.

I am always afraid that one day you will find that I am not as great as you think. ~ ~ ~ I am always afraid that one day you will find that I am not as good as you think.

Being together for a long time can't avoid quarreling. Some couples quarrel every day, but they are still together year after year. Although we quarrel every day, we are inseparable. Some lovers never quarrel, outsiders envy their sweetness, but break up like lightning. Quarrel is crazy communication, and those who are willing to stay and quarrel love you. On the contrary, patience will slowly become a time bomb, and one day it will suddenly explode, and all feelings will be destroyed instantly.

I don't want to deceive my life, leaving a picture of illusion, reflecting the double eyelids of memory, and making my calm mood sad again. Cold face or smiling face are just broken lies. You and I will change with time. There is no need to envy those dense pictures or touching speeches. Life will not stand still. We should always give her a new tomorrow.

A person's dusk is still beautiful, but it is very short; A person's sunshine is still bright, but not warm; A person's work is still very busy, but he is lonely; A person's road still has a direction, but it is very long; A person's life is still regular, but there are no surprises. However, the road for the two is no longer long; The feeling of two people is no longer lonely; The night for two is beautiful and warm. Cherish the other shoulder you meet, and don't be lonely anymore.

Some destinies are doomed to be lost, and some destinies are doomed to have no good results. If you love someone, you don't have to have him, but if you have someone, you must love him well and don't give up easily, otherwise you will be sorry for yourself.

There is no right or wrong in love, nor does it come first. Only love or no love. Don't wait until you miss it. Love doesn't win or lose, only love and not love. If you don't love it, just forget it. What you cry is not love, but sympathy. Love mixed with sympathy is impure. Love, love, give and experience, even if the result is hurt and pain, don't regret your contribution.

Youth is always beautiful, but true youth only belongs to those who always strive for the top, those who always forget their work and those who are always modest.

The beauty of love lies in mutual appreciation, desire and pursuit. Those romantic stories, those vows of eternal love, those whispers of shallow singing, like dreams covered with light sand, touched my passionate soul and romantic feelings.

1. People who are ambitious will accomplish nothing. Don't be as fragile as glass, but as transparent as crystal. 3. Good popularity is the paving stone for success. You chose not your job, but your job chose you. Opportunities don't fall from the sky. 6. Be prepared for bad luck when you are lucky. 7. Enduring loneliness is a compulsory course. 8. Time will not wait for you. 9. Shut up. 10. Sleepiness and unpunctuality are the biggest stumbling blocks.

Living in a city, or loving someone, or doing something for a long time, you will feel bored and have an impulse to escape. Maybe I'm not tired of what the people I love in this city insist on, but I can't give myself the courage to insist.

Which of the following sentences warms you the most? I miss you, really. Nothing, I just want to hear your voice. Go on, I'll stand here and wait for you. Be good in class. Send me a message after class and I'll pick you up. I will try my best to earn money to support you. Your left hand is a little numb. I'll change my other hand. ⑦ Cover the quilt and don't catch cold. Let's elope, now.

No matter how big the disaster is, there are always parents as the last refuge; No matter how badly you fall, there are always friends who pull you out of the bottom; No matter how headstrong you are, there is always someone who loves you deeply and silently guards you. When people have it, they often don't realize how precious it is in their hands. Everyone will be blessed by the god of luck, but many people always forget to treat it well inadvertently.

Get a bosom friend and die without regret. He felt that her shadow would always lean on him and comfort him. Although she hated him, her feelings for him were so strong in the end that it didn't matter what feelings she had, only feelings. They are the primitive relationship between hunters and prey, the relationship between tigers and monks, and the ultimate possession. She was born his man, and death is his ghost.

If I leave and disappear into your world forever, will you miss me and think of my heartache in a sober afternoon? If one day, I see my hand being held tightly in the street, will you tell me impulsively that you still love me? If one day I want to die and just want to see you before I die, will you come back to me regardless?

People are simple when they are young and complex when they grow up; Poverty is simple, and breadth is complex; When you are down and out, it is simple, but when you are in power, it is complicated; Gentleman is simple, villain is complex; Simply look at yourself and look at others in a complicated way. The world is actually very simple, but people's hearts are very complicated. In fact, people's hearts are simple, but the distribution of benefits is very complicated. People are happy when they are simple, but few people are happy. Let go of what should be put down and let your heart relax.

When a person loves someone deeply, no matter what mistakes she has made or how many stupid things she has done, he can forgive her, accept her and tolerate her, but what he can't tolerate is that when he forgets her past and wants to work hard for her happiness all his life, you once again hurt his calm heart. Such a woman can't love with her heart, let alone love with her life!

We have some stories that we don't have to tell everyone; Some sadness, not everyone will understand; Some wounds will heal after a long time; Some grievances are relieved when they are figured out; Some pains become a habit if you endure them for a long time; If you don't want to say what is hidden in your heart, there is no need to say it. In fact, not all pain can be shouted out; Not all love can be expressed.