After dreaming, memories are just an addiction.

Do you have the habit of cherishing old things? A book with his handwriting, a wooden comb, a faded old photo, a small note handed down from class, a school uniform, there are many things you can't bear to throw away. The names of these things are called memories. Some may be deformed and incomplete, but you still regard them as treasures. Because they have walked through your life, witnessed your growth, and are regarded as relics of time by you, shining in the long river of years.

? Do you have such dependence? It is a habit to say good night to someone before going to bed. When it rains, someone always reminds you to take an umbrella. Even if you go to dinner, you want someone to order according to your taste? If one day these people who accompany you disappear into the vast sea of people. You begin to be anxious and lonely, but you are determined to devote yourself to thousands of people and find someone you can rely on and trust. Because dependence has inertia. You may be able to let go of a person easily, but it's hard to let go of that dependence. Because dependence is like breathing oxygen, when you realize it, oxygen is already flowing in warm blood, and it is difficult to quit.

Do you have a passion for winning and put a lot of energy into it? The dream of youth, a big house near the sea, lovers who can grow old together, luxurious and charming cars. Or a diploma you want to get, a stable and comfortable job, a perfect life, an enviable life all your life. In the process of your struggle, these things gradually become the support point of your life and the obsession that you will not give up until you reach your goal.

Do you often dream? I dreamed that one day I went back to the past and I saw the warmth of the person I wanted to see. I dreamed that the man didn't leave, and the disappeared man came back with familiar gestures. Those who disappeared in your world, with the passage of time, changed from initial unwillingness and sadness to later acceptance and silent thoughts. Dreaming is missing in another way, and it is my long wait in the dark.

These are all manifestations of indulging in memories and dreaming. If you are like this, then I think you may be like me, all delicate, sensitive and nostalgic animals with souls who like to look up and look down. However, always staying in memories will make you miss many beautiful things in reality and make people only care about memories and dare not move forward.

? Looking back, there are always many things that you can't forget and grasp, and you learned to cherish in the long pain after losing them. Because your pure youth and dreams are buried in the graves of the old times, you can also meet your past self in memories. Also, because the reality always makes you exhausted, you need to find a paradise in the spiritual field to wake up your already riddled self.

? Sometimes you need to give up a hug, because that temperature may no longer belong to you, and that person no longer belongs to you. The world is as lingering as a cloud, as ethereal as a fog, as free as the wind, and changes rapidly. One second you promised me forever, and the next you said goodbye. If you lose something, throw it away. Some people are scattered, so let's disperse. Since we can't take Qi Mei as an example, let's wave our hands smartly and go our separate ways. I'm not a child anymore. Besides, some people, even if you roll around and cry out of breath, may not be able to recover. I'm glad you can come, but I'm not sorry for your leaving. After all, who is who forever? Whose land is it in the distance?

? You need to forget a feeling because similar times are always different. Just like a refrigerator can be used to store food, people's feelings can't find such a closed space to keep a unique constant temperature. Once some feelings are labeled with time, it is difficult to find the original feeling again. Just like an antique that is accidentally broken, even if it is highly skilled, it can't be intact.

You have to lose a memory, a memory that makes you lament and grieve, a dark time that you can't bear to look back, because there is always poison hidden in the memory.

Unconsciously, we are all past the age of dreaming. Don't always want to stay in the memory and indulge in it. Don't always covet the warmth of memories, and don't indulge in the frozen moments of the past.

Those of us who have faded away must always understand that there is no yesterday that we can't get past and no obsession that we can't let go. What remains in memory will gradually blur over time until it disappears. I hope we can all bravely say hello and goodbye to some of the past.