50-year-old married man concluded: What's the difference between a remarried wife and an ex-wife?

A 50-year-old half-way husband and wife are unpredictable, and only the parties know.

0 1- background

Li Shu is 5 1 year-old, diligent and capable, and his home is a two-story building. His wife died of illness three years ago, and his son had the idea of remarriage when he graduated from college.

Through matchmaking, I met Aunt Ma from another village. She is 49 years old, outgoing, loud and familiar with everyone. Her husband died of illness when she was 3 1 year old, and she dragged her son to graduate from college alone.

The two met for the first time under the matchmaking of the matchmaker, and both sides were very satisfied.

Later, we met several times and went to town to buy clothes and some jewelry.

After five months of knowing each other, they got a marriage certificate without any objection from their son.

02- getting married

There is no big banquet, after all, it is remarriage;

There is no wedding ceremony, after all, it is remarriage;

Invite the closest relatives of both sides to have a banquet, and you will become a family.

03- Early Stage

Just married, the two are still more reserved, treating each other as husband and wife, more like guests.

Besides being a man, Li Shu is an interior decorator. He is skilled, practical and willing to work, and can earn eight or nine thousand yuan a month. In rural areas, this income is high.

In the hostess's house, Aunt Ma cooks and washes at home, and plays mahjong with women in her spare time.

Wouldn't it be a wonderful thing if life kept like this?

04-Maturity

Everything is not what people want.

After half a year, the problem came slowly, first of all, some trivial things in life.

At first, Aunt Ma often gave money to her son, but not much to Li Shu's son.

At first, Li Shu didn't care. After all, it is a family. There's no need to get angry about such small money.

What happened after that made Li Shu a little annoyed.

Aunt Ma's son talked about his girlfriend and was going to get married early. She needed to buy a house in the county, but she didn't have that much money, so she took Li Shu's 65,438+10,000 yuan and paid the down payment to her son before telling Li Shu.

Li Shu is not happy. Not only because I didn't discuss it with him, but also because I have a son who should buy a house in another year. Li Shu earned a total of 654.38+300,000 deposits at home. I gave most of it to Aunt Ma's son at once, and no one was happy.

05- End

Later, the two quarreled for half a month, and the result of the discussion was that if they saved enough 654.38+ million, they would give it to their son.

06- Summary

It is understandable that couples who give up halfway are kissing their children.

After all, providing for the aged is your own business.

However, this practice requires two people to discuss in advance, have a certain proper limit, and take into account the feelings of the opposite side, so as to avoid the tragedy that many couples become strangers again halfway.