How to keep children away from the harm of mobile phones?

I advocate the theory of technical innocence.

Proper use of electronic devices such as mobile phones will not cause harm to children. We often say, don't let mobile phones ruin the next generation, but what we don't know is that in the last era, we said, don't let TV ruin the next generation. The emergence of new technologies will always bring entertainment applications, and entertainment itself is a part of the life process.

Let's talk about the dangers of using mobile phones. Pay attention to the harm of "using mobile phones", not the harm of mobile phones.

Physical injury: the injury of the mobile phone screen to the eyes. Mobile phone screen light contains a lot of blue light, which is harmful to eyes. At this time, sticking a good quality mobile phone film can block most of the blue light. Don't use the mobile phone for a long time (just like not reading a book for a long time) to reduce the damage of the screen light on the mobile phone to your eyes.

Mental injury: Using mobile phones can also cause mental injury. In this process, the mobile phone acts as a tool rather than a source of harm, and some information and games provided by the Internet are the source of harm. Violence, blood, vulgarity and pornography are the main sources of injury. It is very unfavorable for children to indulge in such information or games for a long time, polluting the spirit and causing long-term harm. At this time, the control of information or game publishers, the audit of information or games by relevant government departments, the understanding of teachers and parents on the purpose of children's use of mobile phones, and the education of children are the main methods to prevent the use of mobile phones from endangering children.

Remember, it's not the cell phone that harms children. You can imagine a mobile phone as Universal Library, and the information inside is naturally good and bad. If used well, mobile phones can help children.

I chatted with my son the other day. I said why don't you read extracurricular books recently. I think your mobile phone is a little too much. My son said that I just can't control myself, and I want to take my mobile phone when I have time.

At first, I gave my son a mobile phone without a card, so I could only watch something about Tik Tok. Later, I couldn't stand his son's weakness and gave me a mobile phone card, so QQ, WeChat and games were available. So my son changed from playing games once a week to playing games twice. From time to time, he picks up his mobile phone and watches it for a while, saying that he always has a reason, either to watch the class news or to check things. I don't think we can let the children leave like this.

I have been hiding my mobile phone since Monday, and I will show it to my son when he does his homework. After a while, the son said, mom, don't hide your mobile phone. Wherever you hide it, I can find it. It's fun to find a mobile phone. Hey, there are so many places at home, where can I hide?

These days, I thought of another way, and got my son's consent, that is, I bought a small box with a lock and locked my mobile phone. My son couldn't control himself, so I asked this lock for help. You can't unlock your mobile phone until you finish your homework on weekends. My son thought it was fresh and agreed. The small box with lock will be here soon, hoping to help me lock my mobile phone.

Adults can't put down their mobile phones, let alone children, so we still have to find ways to help children control themselves. It's just that sometimes teachers are often in the group, issuing test questions or correcting mistakes, so that children can't do homework without mobile phones. This makes it more difficult for parents to supervise their children. I don't know if the children are doing their homework or watching something else on their mobile phones.

The function of the small box with lock is to prevent the son from picking up the mobile phone at any time, so that the time after school at noon and afternoon can be separated from the mobile phone, and homework needs to be given to him at night, but more supervision from parents is needed. How effective this method is, we will wait and see.

Hello. For some children, the whole summer vacation is spent with "electronic nannies" such as tablets and smart phones, and school is about to start. How to get rid of children's dependence on electronic products and let their minds return to intense study?

Children today are also called aborigines in the digital age. When the tentacles of electronic products have reached most corners of life, it is impossible to prevent children from touching electronic products. However, parents must be aware of the dangers of electronic products, guide their children to use electronic products correctly, and never let their children play electronic products more than the time they spend with their children every day.

Parental companionship is particularly important for children, and parents play an irreplaceable role in children's growth. Children's views on right and wrong and values are formed with the help of their parents, and they are the life mentors of their psychological maturity. Although most children like to play electronic products, parents' love for their children can not be simply measured by satisfying their preferences, but should communicate with their children more, nourish their spirit and arouse their thinking about life and society.

Electronic products are harmful.

Children's excessive use of electronic products will weaken their ability to communicate face to face with others, thus reducing their social skills. Because we communicate with people face to face, in addition to the content of the conversation, there are also auxiliary communication means such as tone, expression and posture. These "mind-reading" trainings, such as mind-reading, are not available on QQ, SMS, Weibo and WeChat.

Internet communication means make communication between people easier, and people are social animals with complex sociality. The ever-simplified way of communication actually goes against people's social attributes. People who are used to network communication for a long time will have significantly lower information capacity than those who engage in social interaction. Electronic products are usually reflective illuminators. Compared with paper reading, the reading efficiency and the ability to collect information by using electronic products will be greatly reduced. In particular, reading with TV, computers and other products uses the upper part of the resources, which makes people feel isolated. This is why many people feel uncomfortable reading e-books.

In addition to the psychological impact, the most intuitive harm of electronic products to children is the decline of children's physique, and the incidence of obesity and myopia has greatly increased. Because children are addicted to the fun brought by electronic products, the time for outdoor activities is sharply reduced, while the accumulation of nutrients is increasing, so obesity is inevitable. The light source of electronic products is flickering, which is easy for children to have visual fatigue. For growing children, it is extremely harmful and it is easy to evolve into real myopia.

Gradually reduce "withdrawal reaction"

It's not far from school now. At this time, parents should gradually reduce the time and frequency of their children using electronic products, but they can't completely eliminate them at once. Especially those children who have obvious dependence habits, interrupting their dependence on electronic products too rudely may cause "withdrawal reaction", and children will have symptoms such as impulsiveness, mania, insomnia, dizziness, trembling and anorexia. Once they get in touch again, it will get out of hand. Because, in the digital age, the compulsory prohibition of children's contact with electronic products can only make children unable to keep up with the pace of social development, resulting in children unable to integrate into other children's communication circles. Moreover, for children, no contact does not mean that they are unclear and don't understand. It is inevitable that he will always maintain a desire to contact electronic products, and it is easy to lose interest in other things, and it is also easy for children to meet their own needs through improper means. Parents had better tell their children that they can play when school starts, and don't let them feel that they need compensation. The closer we get to school, the more we play.

Parents should also have "empathy", stand in the same position with their children and face difficulties. Don't criticize children's lack of self-control and sense of responsibility, which will hinder future communication with children. Parents should tell their children to reduce the use of electronic products in a relaxed tone, because parents don't take it seriously and children don't take it seriously. When playing, parents need to make an appointment with their children, and remind them to finish when it's time, so it's easy for them to leave. But don't trust your child's self-control too much. Keep electronic products at home, but don't let children play. This is very unusual, because children often can't resist the temptation to play, but in the end they have to accept criticism. Fishing law enforcement's behavior after setting a trap will hurt the trust between parents and children.

Parents should also know something about what their children play. The best way is for parents to play with their children and share their experiences, so that they can not only know what their children are playing, but also improve their communication and control their playing time.

The first thing to say is that normal and moderate use of mobile phones will not cause harm to children. It is harmful to children to play mobile phones without restraint, such as playing games, catching idolized dramas on the Internet, and being obsessed with reading and watching movies. As long as children's attachment to mobile phones affects normal classroom and after-school learning, affects their eyesight and normal rest, and affects the basic communication between people, then mobile phones have already caused harm to children.

How to keep children away from the harm of mobile phones? Personally, as parents, it is enough to do these aspects well: First, we should respect children's choices. Nowadays, parents are too strict with their children, always talking about this and that. Sometimes it is often imposed on children by their own judgment, and there is no minimum respect for children. They always think that children are young and should listen to their parents. In fact, every child has learned a lot from kindergarten and has his own judgment of right and wrong. After primary school, middle school and university, with the growth of age, they have more knowledge and know more truths, some of which may not be known to our parents. And our parents often treat them as children, and when they encounter unsatisfactory behavior, they just blame them unanimously and lack communication.

The second is to become a child's "intimate friend". We should communicate with children in all aspects of life and study. When children are young, we should entertain and play games with them, so that children will feel dependent and friendly to you when they are young. In this case, if the child is infatuated with the mobile phone, you only need to point out the harm of long-term use, and the child will listen. Leaving the phone is no longer a problem.

How to get children out of the world of mobile games?

First of all, there is a very painful and effective way for adults, which is to quit cell phone addiction first. My child is over one year old. When she sees me playing with my mobile phone, she will make a sound to express her dissatisfaction. If it takes a long time, she must think there are many "treasures" in her mobile phone, so adults have been holding them. Children have a strong imitation ability, follow the trend, grab mobile phones with adults, and slowly find that there are really many interesting things on mobile phones. What's more, some parents teach their children to play games, and when they find that their children can sit still and get rid of themselves, they stop teaching. What should I do if I find that my child can't live without his mobile phone one day?

Adults also have some strange habits. No matter how small a child cries, adults can't help it. I found that they only had mobile phones in their hands, so I handed them over to coax the children to say, don't cry, uncle will give you a mobile phone to play with. This is also a bad habit of cultivating children to play mobile phones from an early age.

Don't always play with your mobile phone in front of your child, and don't always use it as a toy when your child is crying. Usually take children to discover some interesting things and interesting people around them, play more non-mobile puzzle games, and accompany children to discover the beauty of nature. If children are addicted to mobile phones, parents should first take the initiative to accompany their children to explore the world outside the mobile phone. Parents need patient and vivid explanations to arouse their interest. After a long time, children will gradually discover that the world outside the mobile phone is so wonderful!

How to keep children away from the harm of mobile phones? Do you stay away from mobile phones? Do you spend enough time with your children effectively?

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