Husband takes children and doesn't help friends?

People here don't let their mother-in-law take care of their children, but their parents help. I think my husband's circle of friends who don't help with the children all say that they should take care of the children themselves and can't rely on him. Husband doesn't help, and the circle of friends who bring their children say that they must bring their own children. I think my husband's circle of friends who doesn't help with the children says that he must take care of the children himself. My husband's circle of friends who don't help with the children all say that they should learn to be independent. I think if the husband doesn't help with the children, he has to take care of the children himself. I think my husband's circle of friends who don't help with the children all say that her husband is irresponsible. I think. Husband doesn't help the circle of friends with children, saying that husband doesn't help with children, that is, he has to take children by himself and can't rely on him.