Persistence is a kind of victory. Do you think this is correct? Analysis, everyone, share your thoughts and opinions

"Persistence is victory" - a slogan that the Chinese once loved most. After hearing it too many times, it sounds vulgar and unsophisticated. But today, a friend I don’t know, a friend who is confused about his dream, said that after reading my blog carefully, he was very touched by my experience and the process of persisting in my dream. The first thing I thought of in response was: "Persistence is victory" - sometimes, very vulgar and earthy words are actually the simple truth. Persistence includes persistence to dreams and persistence to oneself, and persistence to oneself means: firmly believe that you are excellent and special (even if your current life and work are in a mess), firmly believe that as long as you are prepared, you will always realize your dreams. To put it another way: confident and narcissistic. Sometimes narcissism and self-confidence are connected: no matter what the situation, I always like myself and believe in myself. This is the source of self-confidence. The realization of a dream is never a coincidence, it is always the result of persistence and persistence. Qinhai Manor is the result of my persistence in dreaming for many years. But now that I am realizing my dream, there are also huge difficulties and countless trivial things that require me to persevere. A more lively and vivid example should be the experience of a small landowner courting his mother-in-law: The first time he met his future mother-in-law, he asked three questions: "Is there a house or will the unit provide apartments?", "There are hundreds of thousands of people." "Do you have savings?" and "Do your parents have money to help you buy a house?" I, who have always been honest, gave a negative answer, and added a few points: "The savings are only a few thousand yuan, my parents are poor farmers, and they have to support my sister in college. ..." Before he could finish his words, he was politely "invited" out before he could even take a sip of water. What to do? Quit? No, I persisted in chasing... How many times have I been blocked on the street, scolded by my "mother-in-law" in front of people I knew and didn't know, although the scolding was not unpleasant, it was just like "Don't harm my daughter again." , don’t come here to trick my daughter into helping you buy a house..." Such words, but after all, he is a seven-foot man... Okay! If you think I'm poor, I'll make money! So after work, I borrowed money from classmates and opened a computer shop next to Xiamen University. Within a few months, Xiamen University was engaged in beautification and demolition of the walls to make the shop demolished, and I lost all my money. I had no money left, and I was in debt. My younger sister still owed the school for her tuition. The school threatened that she would not have a diploma when she graduated if she didn’t pay the money. Plus, the “mother-in-law” was getting more and more resistance... That was the time in my life. During the most difficult time, a friend who lent me money persuaded me: "Forget it, stop pursuing it, sell the broken computer in the store, and let your sister go to school with peace of mind. Forget about my money." Forget it? No! I shamelessly asked him to borrow money, and borrowed money from more classmates and friends: The first store collapsed, so it’s impossible for the second store to collapse again, right? ! The business of the second store was surprisingly good. I'm happily paying off my debts... The "mother-in-law" comes with an ultimatum: "How about it, it's been almost a year, have you earned the money to buy a house?" (Before, I patted my chest in front of her and said she would give me one year... ), she had to bite the bullet and said, "I've made enough money, I can buy a house." So she was "herded" by the "mother-in-law" to look at houses together. Finally, she chose a house with four bedrooms, two living rooms, and three balconies in a very good community. house, let me pay a deposit. At that time, I only had more than 2,000 yuan for living expenses and no deposit of 10,000 yuan. So I borrowed 8,000 from my classmates and 50,000 from my employer. I used the remaining 30,000 to lie to real estate developers and tell them that our bank’s year-end bonus would be tens of thousands, and I would have to pay late fees at the end of the year... That is the most terrifying thing in China so far. The house buying event is also the happiest house buying event: at that time, it was 2,338 yuan per square meter, and now it is more than 10,000 yuan per square meter. It’s easy to say now, but in those years, it was very difficult to insist on paying off debts: debts for opening a store, debts from work, real estate debts, debts from banks, debts from my sister’s school... What’s even more terrifying is that they came too early.” "Big Creditor" - a little landowner was born! In fact, hardship is a normal thing. When I go through hardships, I don’t feel bitter because I have dreams in my heart. On the contrary, if a person has no dreams in his heart and encounters difficulties, he will feel bitter in his heart, so the difficulties become hardships. The resistance to persisting in dreams is not necessarily hardship and adversity. Sometimes a comfortable and worry-free life is the biggest resistance to realizing dreams.

After I went through a few difficult years, I became the envy of many people: my job in the bank was easy and free, and my remuneration was getting better and better. My children were handsome and smart, and my wife was able to run the house and make money... For a while, I also thought, isn’t this nice and comfortable? Do I have to resign, put down everything and invest all my money to build some kind of dream hotel in Gulangyu Island? From 2006 to now, life seems to have returned to the difficult time before. Now, I am busy in the manor, dirty and messy, and I have no regrets at all... "Dreams are not just random thoughts; Just forget about it... stick to your dreams and keep making all kinds of preparations for your dreams." - I once said this to a junior student at Xiamen University.