Children's crying is synonymous with disobedience and ignorance. How to face up to children's bad emotions?

Children's crying is synonymous with disobedience and ignorance. How to face up to children's bad emotions?

Every precious mother will be influenced by various emotions, and her own emotions will directly affect her attitude towards her children. She pays attention to daily emotional adjustment and resolution, so that she can keep a happy mood for more and longer. There is no need to wait for the child to apologize for disobedience, but she should admit that she is wrong. She can make an agreement with her children to comfort her when she finds her mother in a bad mood.

It is not only the trivial matters of life and the troubles brought by children, but also the willingness from no one to listen to it that makes Bao Ma in a bad mood. Because I don't understand, I don't want to say, I dare not say, so that bad emotions always accumulate in Ma Bao's heart. Instead of worrying all the time, talk about it, find a place where no one knows you, and get together with people with children. There will always be one or two people willing to listen to you talk about your unhappiness. Or write down what bothers you, tear it up, burn it and save it as you wish. As long as you spit out your emotions, you will find yourself a lot happier.

Make an imaginary struggle When you are dissatisfied with someone but don't want to hurt him out of love and concern, make an imaginary struggle. Find a big doll, or a pillow, post a photo of your child or husband, and tell this enemy your dissatisfaction, your fatigue and your inner anxiety without scruple. You can scold him and hit him, whatever, until you feel exhausted, calm and comfortable.

Give your mind a vacation and make a spiritual journey. When you are ready to have a rest, let go of your children and your troubles. Give yourself a "daydream", which can be afternoon tea in the afternoon sun; It can be a tourist attraction with mountains and water, without noisy crowds, and then you can enjoy the comfort brought by breeze and sunshine quietly. Or imagine boldly that if you win the lottery, all you usually do is give it to the nanny. All you need to do is choose a big house you like, and all the layouts are according to your ideas.