Do bad things with good intentions

I think I did something bad with good intentions again.

My aunt's granddaughter Xiao Ning wants to find a job in the city. To tell the truth, she is my aunt's granddaughter, but Xiao Ning and I have never met. But this time, as soon as menstruation's younger brother called and talked about it, I felt I should help the children, so I warmly extended a helping hand.

In my opinion, if children want to work in cities, first, they must have a place to live; Second, looking for a job must have a foundation, that is, skills. So, I promised Xiao Ning that I could stay in my house for a while. As for work, because she said that although she graduated from college and has a teacher qualification certificate, she has never taken students before. I think that if you want to make money, you must first have the ability to make money. No one else knows him. It happened that neighbor Xiaolian had a remedial class. I want Xiao Ning to study there for a period of time, that is, to study while working there for free. After learning skills, go to other remedial classes or private schools to find a job, or take an examination of teachers in public schools.

My colleague Xiaolian is also very enthusiastic, and she came to my house specially last night. As soon as we introduced each other at the door, we began to say what we thought. On the way to the lecture, my husband interrupted me several times, saying that Xiao Ning would let others talk about his ideas. I don't know what it means. After Xiaolian left, my husband said to me, "If I don't let you talk, you won't talk. You keep saying, tell people you don't want a penny. Don't say that. What if people pay Xiao Ning first? " At this time, Xiao Ning also said: "Nothing, people look at our hard work and give us hard money, we will;" If people don't give it, they won't agree. "As soon as I heard it, I understood. It turns out that Xiao Ning still wants to find a job that can support himself. And I may just want her to learn technology first, and money is second. On second thought, our situation is different now. Xiao Ning came to this strange city without friends. Of course, she wants to earn her own living early. As for me, it doesn't matter whether I earn more or less now.

I kept thinking about this problem last night and couldn't sleep very late. Today, when I arrived at work, I talked about it with my colleagues. Colleagues also said, "You did a bad thing with kindness. Maybe people just want to make money in a hurry. No matter what you do in the future, you must think from the other side's point of view. " As soon as I heard it, I knew where I was wrong, that is, I only considered the problem from my own point of view, even if I helped others, I did a bad thing with good intentions.

So what to do in the future, even if it is good to help others, should be considered from the other side's point of view, so as to do good deeds with good intentions.