My married mother-in-law bought a house and my family bought a car. Now my mother-in-law wants me to buy a house for my brother-in-law What should I do?

Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families, especially the woman. After marriage, she has much more contact with her husband's family than with her mother's family. Having an old family is like having a treasure. After marriage, if a reasonable mother-in-law treats herself as a daughter, she is really happy. Today is about Fang Shumin, Jia Wanshan and their families.

My name is Fang Shumin. I am 27 years old. I have been married for three years. I don't have children yet. My parents are still alive and I have a sister. There is only one mother-in-law and one brother-in-law left in my husband's family. It is said that there will be many disputes when I marry a family with two sons. I got married after all.

My husband and I met at work. We are colleagues, not a department, but there are many places between the two departments that need to be handed over. After a long time, the two became familiar. When my husband chased me, I didn't refuse, but agreed directly.

Because I work in the same place, I usually have more opportunities to meet each other. Parents said that we should observe him more at work, especially when we see his reaction to difficulties and setbacks. They say that a person's true character can only be truly revealed in a difficult environment. I did as my parents said, and I also found that Jia Wanshan is really a responsible, careful and responsible person. I got married after knowing each other for half a year.

Married life is not what I imagined. I thought my mother-in-law would give me a hard time. After all, he belongs to the kind of handsome and capable person in our company. My mother-in-law gave us money for the down payment. Because there is no son at home, my parents' money is our sister's dowry, so my parents gave me a car of more than 200 thousand.

My husband has a younger brother who is five years younger than him. To be honest, my mother-in-law treats her brother-in-law much better than her husband. Old people are biased for no reason. If they want to be partial, you have to put up with it. I didn't say anything, so I lived a good life with my husband. I just didn't expect my mother-in-law to hit me on the head with an abacus.

We have been married for three years, and my husband's career has not improved, but his position has been promoted again and again, and now he has earned a lot. I thought my salary was high and I couldn't forget my roots, so I bought something for my mother-in-law from time to time, and I also had a share at home. Later, my mother-in-law suspected that I bought something for her family, so I secretly gave it to her, and my husband also knew.

One day when I was resting, my mother-in-law came to my house. Under normal circumstances, we all work and have no children at home. My mother-in-law won't come over. Usually, we go to see her. At this moment, when I saw her coming, I felt something was wrong. Sure enough, my mother-in-law came into the house and sat for a while. Hardly had I made tea when my mother-in-law spoke, but what she said made me hate to hear it.

My mother-in-law said, "You have been married to Dashan for three years. You haven't given birth, and your family expenses are not very big. It seems that you earn a lot of money every month. Just recently, you talked about an object with your brother-in-law and took it home, but the woman said she wouldn't get married until she bought the house in full. Your brother-in-law likes that girl very much, but I thought of you because I couldn't afford that much money. You should have saved a lot in the past three years and bought it for you from your brother-in-law. "

I didn't react for a moment, so I didn't speak. My mother-in-law went on to say, "I know you don't want to, but think about it." When you got married, I gave you a down payment. There was a lot of money. Now you have a bright future, living in the house I paid for. You have the money to buy a house too much ... "

I was shocked to hear this reason. My mother-in-law wanted to say more, but I interrupted her. I didn't promise her. I'm just saying, I can't make my own decisions when my husband comes back. My mother-in-law didn't want to leave, calling me stingy and Dashan his son. How could I not know?

I can't evaluate my mother-in-law's behavior. Brother-in-law is not young. She is lazy every day and comes to search for her eldest brother and sister-in-law. I don't know how hard she works. No matter how much money we earn, we can't save enough money to buy a suite in three years. What's more, my mother-in-law just paid the down payment for this house, and my own family also gave her a car to accompany her. If she doesn't want to return the down payment to her, she will go her own way. No matter what her husband says, I will not agree to buy a house for my brother-in-law.