Why do old people often say, "Don't marry a woman who looks up to you, and don't marry a man who looks down on you"?

Due to different living backgrounds, there are obvious differences between rural and urban living customs. Hongyun was lucky enough to be born in a metropolis, and grandpa is also a local cultural celebrity. Hongyun is more fortunate to be born in the countryside and have a more practical understanding of rural life. If you have time, let's talk about the countryside and the city here. Today's topic is: in rural areas, it is often said by old people that if you marry a woman who looks up, you will not marry a woman who looks down. Is this sentence reasonable?

First, in the traditional concept of rural areas, the woman who looks up is the kind of woman with a bad temper and a strange temperament. It is often said that the rural population is a bitch. There is a saying that describes a shrew like this: crying two times and hanging three times. Of course, it is almost impossible to find such a situation in the new countryside now. There is almost no difference between rural girls and urban girls now. No matter from clothing, dressing, or knowledge and insight, it is increasingly difficult to see the gap.

Second, in the traditional concept of rural areas, the man who bows his head is the kind of man who walks with his head down and his heart is dark. This kind of man doesn't talk much in front of people; Behind people, don't talk; But always in the dark, doing wicked things. This kind of man is narrow-minded and narrow-minded. A careless word from others can make him bear a grudge. Such a man is naturally particularly easy to make enemies with others and easily cause trouble in life.

Third, this rural saying: Does it make sense to marry a wife without marrying a woman who looks up, and to marry a Han Chinese without marrying a Han Chinese? With the development of society and the popularization of Internet, there is not much difference between rural areas and cities. The temperament of men and women has also changed. Many old sayings are no longer valued by young people. Free love, free choice, free marriage, therefore, these words have lost their layers of meaning.

But in real life, this sentence still has some truth, that is: women should not be too provocative, be gentle and virtuous, and take care of their families; Men should not be too narrow-minded. They should be sunny, cheerful and far-sighted. We should do more important things that belong to men and bring more blessings to our families.