The benefits of puppy love 10

The advantage of puppy love is 1, which meets the needs of the soul. You will get rid of some bad habits because you want to win each other's favor. 3. It can stimulate your learning motivation. 4. Because of the benefits of the opposite sex, you can make yourself more active in activities. When you are hurt again and don't want your parents or good friends to know, someone can rely on you. 6. Even if you think of each other in the cold winter, you will feel warm and provide yourself with motivation. 7. Because you like Ta, you will be willing to give something you like to Ta, which will make you generous. 8. Puppy love can keep you from being at a loss when you fall in love in the future. 9. It can help you learn how to care about a person and the people around you. 10. After you have loved, you know what true love is, and then you will not be easily confused by other people's rhetoric. 1 1. A truly rational person will not be stumped by love. Only people with real self-control can handle this relationship well, so proper puppy love can test your self-control. People have been emphasizing the disadvantages of puppy love, and the most common one is that it affects learning. I used to be scolded by my parents for puppy love, talked to by my teacher and persuaded by my school. Not only does it affect learning, but it is simply giving up learning. Now, after 00, freshmen become little mothers and little fathers prematurely because of unprotected sex, which aggravates the disadvantages of puppy love. Is the harm of puppy love really that big? Everything has two sides, so does puppy love. From a psychological point of view, the biggest advantage of puppy love is that it can make up for many emotional deficiencies and reduce infidelity and extramarital affairs in the adult world. Let me talk about why people cheat and why they have extramarital affairs. First, because human nature likes to pursue excitement and freshness, when the marriage dust settles, it means being dull and getting old; Second, human nature pursues freedom, and marriage itself is a kind of bondage; Third, people themselves have many emotional deficiencies that cannot be made up and satisfied in marriage. The above three points are basically the main reasons for cheating and extramarital affairs. If people begin to fall in love in their teens, experience emotional changes and setbacks, fully enjoy freedom, excitement and freshness, and seek emotional compensation from the opposite sex to make up for the lack of excellent parents, then when we get married, we will enter a relatively high stage of self-discipline, that is to say, the threshold of freedom and fresh excitement will be higher, and marriage will be more stable and firm. Because you experienced what you should have experienced, you got what you deserved. Even, you can have foresight. You know how all the feelings will end. No matter who you are with, you will face the same thing in the end. The difference is that choosing different partners will make you have different mentality and feelings in the face, and experiencing more opposite sex will make you more and more sure of what kind of partner you want. From this perspective, it is a good thing to consciously marry late. Looking back at the disadvantages of puppy love mentioned at the beginning, it will really make people feel trance, confused and distracted in the early stage of love. But after the initial period of ambiguous passion, beautiful love will also produce strong cohesion, which will make two people in love actively work towards the same goal. Such examples are not uncommon, because most of the early love dropouts are not because the parties want to drop out, but because of the pressure of school parents and public opinion; Suppose, after being ambiguous and madly in love, feelings quickly cool down and break up, and both parties or one party suffer. However, suicide caused by lovelorn love is not normal, and teenagers also have unimaginable endurance. From this perspective, lovelorn can also make people grow up. Now sex education in schools should at least start from junior high school. It is better to openly discuss sex and the consequences it will bring than to hide and prevaricate. Because when people know that something will lead to certain consequences, on the level of consciousness, they will carefully think and measure when making decisions; On the subconscious level, they will protect themselves, defend themselves, avoid bad results and hurt themselves. The benefits of puppy love 10 2 What harm does puppy love do to children? One of the hazards: affecting academic performance, whether it is the current exam or the future achievements, it is inseparable from your hard work and knowledge reserve. 16, 17-year-old teenagers are full of energy, active thinking, strong memory and strong ability to accept new things, which is the best time to learn knowledge and improve their ability. Therefore, the most important social role of every adolescent child is the student, and the most important task is learning. Therefore, parents are paying close attention to their children's achievements, but anything that can cause children to fluctuate is wolves, tigers and leopards, which should be severely suppressed. In fact, on the issue of puppy love, as long as parents and teachers guide them well, children can completely turn their psychological needs of puppy love into learning motivation, which will not only affect their academic performance, but also enhance their friendship and let them learn better through mutual encouragement. Hazard 2: hinder psychological development. We all know that parents are most afraid of their puppy love and most opposed to their puppy love. But when the feeling of ignorance arises, teenagers can only touch, hide and lie quietly. On the one hand, they enjoy the affection with friends, on the other hand, they are worried about the blame and discussion of their families, so there will be a lot of burdens in their hearts, which will also hinder the relationship with their classmates and family. In the long run, it will affect the normal psychological development of teenagers and even change their personality, which is very unfavorable for healthy growth. At the same time, teenagers' psychology is still immature, and they are prone to conflicts in love and emotional injuries, which is likely to cast a shadow over their later emotional life and affect their later life. Therefore, if parents find their children puppy love, they should give them good guidance and establish a correct and comprehensive view of love. Hazard 3: The psychological pressure increases precisely because the untimely relationship is not recognized by society, family and school, so teenagers have great psychological pressure and many contradictions. It is these pressures and contradictions that make young people who are in puppy love unable to concentrate, and their interests and personality will change obviously. In the long run, it will have a negative impact on the healthy development of individuals. It can be seen that it is not puppy love that brings harm, but various external pressures brought by puppy love. Therefore, how parents and teachers treat puppy love is an important reason for whether puppy love will have adverse effects. Understanding and recognizing children from their perspective, persuasion can always bring better results than prevention. Especially for children who have just entered adolescence, parents should explain their attitude towards puppy love to their children clearly, and don't let them have too much psychological pressure and burden. The above is the introduction of the harm of puppy love to children. If you have any questions about how to correctly handle the problem of puppy love among students and other knowledge about students' mental health, please continue to pay attention to the safety knowledge column of puppy love among students in Safety Net.