How to get along with parents?

1, active communication. Usually talk to parents about school affairs and learning confusion, talk to parents about psychological words, and let parents know their children's inner thoughts.

2. empathy. Don't talk back to your parents at every turn. Think from your parents' point of view and be considerate of your parents' feelings and difficulties.

3. Respect and understanding. If you have something to go out, you should take the initiative to contact your parents so that they don't worry. You should listen to your parents' opinions and put forward your own opinions. When there are differences in views, both sides should calmly think about the reasons and solutions for the differences. Achieve the communication effect of seeking common ground while reserving differences.

4. Be more tolerant. Don't haggle over every ounce, because parents love us the most and we love them the most.

5. Correct mistakes. Don't hide our mistakes, let our parents help us correct them. Parents are our best friends.

6. Offer to help. Help parents do their best to make them happy.

Method 2

Move 1: communicate actively. Find some time every day, such as before or after meals, talk to your parents about your school, teachers and friends, happy or unhappy things, and share your joys and sorrows with your family.

Move 2: Create opportunities to do at least one thing with parents every week, such as cooking, working in the fields, playing ball, shopping and watching TV. Communicate while doing things.

The third measure: listen carefully. When you are criticized or scolded by your parents, don't rush to refute. Try to listen to your parents' thoughts calmly first. Maybe you will understand the reason behind your parents' rage.

Move 4: Take the initiative to apologize. If you do something wrong, don't escape, don't be silent, and take the initiative to apologize, which will often get the understanding of your parents.

Move 5: considerate. It may not be your fault. You have a great grievance, but don't argue yet. Maybe parents are too tired, or they are in trouble at work and life. Changing the time and place and communicating with parents will have unexpected effects.

The sixth measure: control your emotions. When communication with parents is not smooth, don't lose your temper, talk back at will, and avoid accidentally saying or making things that hurt others. When you want to get angry, you can take a deep breath and leave for a while, or wash your face with cold water first.

Move 7: Take responsibility While doing your own thing, take the initiative to share some responsibilities of the family, such as washing dishes, taking out garbage, cleaning windows and doing some farm work. You can also chat with your parents.

The eighth measure: discuss the problem and reach an agreement. Learn to discuss with parents and reach an agreement on how to act. For example, parents will worry that their children will be addicted to computers and neglect their studies. If we can discuss and reach an agreement on the balance between playing computer and studying, problems and differences can be solved.