Step out of your circle and you will find that the world is very different.

Each of us has our own circle, including friends and relatives circle, study circle, work circle, life circle … more or less. Wandering in various circles every day.

The most common is the circle of friends in WeChat, where we can learn about our friends' lives, interests, work or things they care about from time to time. Happy or sad friends will share with you. You are together because of the same topic or hobby, influencing each other and accompanying each other.

You may also have a circle, the work circle, which is full of your colleagues. You do similar jobs or have some connections at work, so you are together for work reasons. The work circle may bring you the improvement of work skills and gossip at work. Of course, some parts of the work circle may overlap with the circle of friends, and some people are both friends and colleagues.

You may also have various study circles, game circles, travel circles ... in the study circle, everyone learns from each other; In the game circle, everyone plays games together and has fun; In the tourism circle, everyone travels together and shares experiences.

There are familiar people or things in these circles, which makes us feel very comfortable and carefree. Gradually, we are afraid of the outside world and get used to our own circles.

Why do you want to jump out of your circle?

In these circles, you can filter out a lot of information and get some information that is relevant or helpful to you. Just like Weibo, Zhihu, and today's headlines, you will be asked to choose your interest when you register, which is called personalized customization. In the subsequent use process, these things all appear in your mobile phone.

I have to say, good, because personalized customization filters out what you like. But on the other hand, it also limits you and your understanding of things outside your interest. This leads to what you see, what you know and what you learn will always be in the circle. The world is very big, why only look at your circle and learn from your circle? Staying in the circle for a long time will inevitably lead to boredom, so why not jump out of the circle and see the outside world? I don't know if you have noticed that staying in your own circle is like boiling a frog in warm water. Gradually, you will get stuck in it.

Most of the recommendations made by Weibo and Zhihu. Is your favorite, but they will also launch a hot list to help you find other hot concerns.

Outside the circle, you will find that the world is very different. It can give you a different vision, make you more calm in the face of change, and let you truly realize your self-worth.

How to get out of your own circle?

First, learn to think independently.

A person who can think independently is often sober and knows what he wants and what he doesn't want. I don't blindly accept things in the circle, and I'm not afraid of things outside the circle. Independent personality and thinking can help you realize your own shortcomings, so as to take action, make breakthroughs, change and improve yourself.

Second, try to do something new every day.

In this ever-changing world, there are new things all the time. Doing something new, that is, something you have never touched before, will help you keep a curiosity at all times. For example, you have never been exposed to classical music before, so you might as well listen to it today; You haven't tried to travel alone before. Why don't you start now and have a trip? Stick to it for a month, and you will find that your changes are far beyond your imagination.

Third, know or find someone who can guide you out of the circle.

There is a kind of person who has his own light. His body is full of energy and constantly attracts your attention, so you will change for him. He is your spiritual motivation, and his change will also drive your change.

Jumping out of the circle does not mean leaving the original circle, but observing and understanding the world outside your circle and circle from another more objective angle. Finally, I wish you can find a broader world.