Many people's lives are in a mess, but why do they like to teach others a lesson?

In daily life, it is not difficult to find that there are always some people who like to publicize other people's lives, even though their lives are still in a mess. The existence of these people sometimes annoys others, so why on earth do these people like to tell others about their lives?

1, looking for self-comfort. There are always people in life who are not convinced. They always hope to realize their inner vanity by promoting others. "You see, I can still publicize your life, which shows that my life is better than yours." They base their "happiness" on the pain of others, always thinking that their pointing will lead to others' * * *, but in fact, they often show their chickens to others only because they are bored by others.

2. Find a sense of existence. People who live in a mess often don't love life so much, and many people are fascinated by their sense of existence. They always feel that no one cares what they say. At this time, they often get a weak response by pointing at others, so as to achieve the purpose of reflecting their sense of existence. But what they don't know is that this sense of existence will only exist when others are disgusted, and it will be ignored in many cases. If it goes on for a long time, it will only make more people hate such people.

3. I think that "the authorities are confused, but the bystanders are clear." Someone once said, "You are not me. Don't think that you know my own life better than I do. " . This sentence not only sounds cool, but also very simple and meaningful. Don't always think of yourself as a "bystander" in other people's lives. Many times, you are often a "bystander". Pointing at other people's lives without authorization will not only attract disgust, but also leave a bad impression on you. The sense of existence you find is not the sense of existence after all, but the psychological comfort you give yourself.

I hope everyone will live a good life and don't point fingers at other people's private lives.