Should boys spoil their girlfriends indefinitely?

No, boys always think that I love her, so I should try my best to be nice to her. I didn't know that people who pay so blindly often end up as spare tires, but the so-called "love rat" and "prodigal son" in your mouth can always make girls love it.

The first thing to understand is that the dynamic balance in gender relations is very important. If the man pays unilaterally, it will only make girls feel that your love is very cheap and will not cherish it. Because you showed neither scarcity nor mystery in her.

It's like a person who is usually cold to you, and suddenly one day he buys you breakfast, and you will be surprised and moved. On the contrary, another person buys you breakfast every day, and you are used to it, but you don't care so much about the other person's large dose.

If a boy indulges his girlfriend infinitely in a relationship, the woman will not be grateful for it, but will become more arrogant and unruly in this environment. Over time, boys will feel very tired. Moreover, once people invest too much in their feelings, it will be difficult to extricate themselves. At this time, it is not because of how much you like her, but because of people's inertial thinking-they will have a strong possessive desire for giving a lot of things, and once they lose them, they will be particularly unwilling and even have revenge.

Therefore, in order to maintain a healthy and long-lasting relationship, boys must learn to control their emotions and inputs. You know, the sweetest and most delicious drink is not hard to add sugar. The right sugar can make the taster feel sweet.

You don't need to show meticulous care and love for your girlfriend, let alone make a meal ticket and an ATM. After all, they are not looking for a nanny and michel platini. What they need is a boyfriend! Boyfriend! A good boyfriend will create more emotional value in love, showing unique surprise and romance, rather than blindly paying.

If a boy indulges his girlfriend indefinitely, it is bound to greatly change his original life state, gradually fade out of the original life circle and revolve around his girlfriend. In the long run, it will inevitably have a negative impact.

First of all, because your life focuses on your girlfriend, you are easily influenced by her every move emotionally, and at the same time, the whole person becomes sensitive and suspicious. Secondly, you have lost your original life circle, spent less and less time with your friends, abandoned your original hobbies, and even stopped paying attention to your external image, and your personal charm began to be greatly reduced.

Even if you treat her wholeheartedly, your girlfriend will still think you are a little mean or even humble when comparing you with the boys around you. Because she is too easy to get your love, but it is difficult to get recognition and favor from others. Inadvertently, you were crushed to the bottom.