The mother-in-law protects her son. What about the daughter-in-law?

Most people have the same situation. The problem lies with the mother-in-law. She always thinks that her son was brought up by herself and knows him better than your daughter-in-law. So whenever something happens, such as the young couple bickering and sulking, they always feel that the daughter-in-law is making a mountain out of a molehill and deliberately playing tricks on her son. Once this misunderstanding occurs, the tone and attitude of speech will be affected to some extent. This is why I later studied hard that "their affairs should be adjusted by both sides", instead of suddenly intervening or pulling my daughter-in-law aside to preach.

As a mother-in-law, sometimes she may be self-righteous, or she may not be mature enough, which leads to misunderstanding between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Please forgive me and be willing to help us grow from another angle. As a daughter-in-law, you should learn to judge and guide according to the situation. I guess that's why your husband fell in love with you. It was under his mother's years of doting that he became weak and uncoordinated.

Now that you have seen this "blind spot", don't expect your mother-in-law to change her habits for many years at once, ask you to be caring and attentive at once, or say sorry to you. All you have to do is try to live your life well, cut your emotions clearly, and don't be easily influenced by your mother-in-law's emotions. In this way, you can gradually become a person who likes yourself and understands the overall situation with the support of your parents, the care of your friends, or the sense of accomplishment at work.