How is it that a 2-year-old girl loves to bite and hit people?

Why do children of this age love to hit people? There are many reasons:

* Self-awareness began to sprout, and everything was dominated by the word "I". I don't want anything that doesn't agree with me, so I began to "reject" what I didn't want and what I didn't like. This is a battle.

* Poor communication skills with children. He wants something, and if people don't give it to him, he won't "want", so he hits people.

* Poor language skills. If you don't know your own ideas and requirements, others won't do it, and you are in a bad mood, you will hit people.

* Like to watch other children cry after being beaten, lacking sympathy.

* It's fun to watch movies and have adult scenes on TV, so I imitate them.

It is skillful to teach two or three-year-old children to control their temper and not to hit others. Parents can try:

A, soliloquize method:

For children after two and a half years old, "talking to yourself" is quite helpful to understand the information content. You can show your child-say with your mouth, "I'm angry with Weiwei, but I won't yell at him." I don't bite, kick or hit people. " It hurts to hit people. I had better not do it. Guide children to learn to express anger healthily.

Second, don't do dangerous actions:

Tell your child clearly what are dangerous actions, such as pinching your neck, hitting hard, poking people with sharp objects, hitting people, etc. These dangerous actions must not be done, or you will be severely punished, such as: no cartoons and no toys for several days.

Third, encourage children to admit their mistakes:

I know I can't hit anyone, but I did. When a child grabs a toy and hits someone in a public place, but asks who hit who, the child refuses to admit that he hit someone and says, "It wasn't me! At this time, it is recommended that the child "apologize first" and then take the child away from the scene; And solemnly warned the child that hitting people will make him unable to play with other children in public places unless he can control his temper and behavior.

In addition, encourage children to admit their mistakes. Only by admitting mistakes can we correct them. Tell the child that even if he makes a mistake, as long as he corrects it, he will always be a good boy of his parents and his parents will always love him.

Fourth, I'm sorry, it doesn't matter:

No matter who you play games with, as long as you find yourself bumping into someone else's body, you must say "I'm sorry" immediately; Others accidentally bumped into themselves and said, "It doesn't matter." . Remember: don't "raise your fist." At the same time, tell your children that if mom and dad lose their temper and hit people, you should also remind them: "Don't hit people with your fists", "Being angry is easy to get old! 」

Five, when a smiling parents:

Being with children is the happiest thing in the world. Before entering the house, please tidy up your emotions, leave your work chores outside the door, give your heart to your children and be your "smiling parents" wholeheartedly!

Sixth, convey concern with hugs:

Give your child more hugs, whether he is one or ten years old. Embrace and pass on care, and always benefit!

Seven, parent-child * * * reading chat:

Read a warm story before going to bed; Close the book and talk about the happiness and unhappiness of the day. This is the quietest moment of the day. Think about it, have you lost your temper a few times less today than yesterday? Is the number of beatings decreasing? Let the children examine their parents' temper all day, and then let them talk about why they lost their temper that day. Why not get angry and hit someone next time?

Always remind yourself to encourage your children: don't hit people at will. Remind me again, maybe three weeks, less than once, five times in three months. Although the change is slow, the child has really improved. Even after three years, he simply forgot to hit people. This is an invisible ruler for parents and children on the road to education, but it always restricts words and deeds!