I am a top student. What about puppy love? How to quit? cannot stand

Puppy love is not terrible or shameful, but a psychological and emotional phenomenon that will inevitably appear when children grow up to a certain stage. But this cannot be allowed to develop. Seriously communicate with him (her) once, so that he (she) can understand what truly mature love is: being responsible for the other party, aiming at marriage, and needing certain economic ability and certain foundation.

Cultivate a hobby, play ball, do sports, etc. And transfer emotions.

The top students with bright future brew the sour fruit of puppy love.

Shen Xiaojun and Jiang Yuanyuan are recognized as a pair of "condor heroes" in the class. They are neighbors who grew up together, childhood friends, and later they were admitted to the same class in key high schools. Shen Xiaojun is the monitor, and Jiang Yuanyuan is the representative and study committee member of Chinese class. Walking in school, they can always attract countless envious eyes.

Shen Xiaojun and Jiang Yuanyuan also vaguely felt their affection for each other in the flower season of 16 in Seeds of Love. At this age when I don't really know what love is, I blindly think that this is love. In the eyes of classmates, it is also a match made in heaven, and it feels good. Although the teachers have heard about it, they don't ask much because they are both top students in the class.

Shen Xiaojun and Jiang Yuanyuan didn't feel it. The vows of eternal love in their eyes simply couldn't stand any wind and rain. Later, two children under 18 accidentally tasted the forbidden fruit. At that time, they thought it was only a matter of time since they were in love. Isn't it the same for adults on TV? Besides, Shen Xiaojun also promised that he would be responsible for Jiang Yuanyuan, and they planned to get married after graduating from college.

However, one day two months later, Jiang Yuanyuan anxiously told Shen Xiaojun that she might be pregnant. The news came as a bolt from the blue for Shen Xiaojun, who would never associate high school students with pregnancy.

"If the school and the family know about this, we will be finished." Shen Xiaojun had this idea at that time. Like Shen Xiaojun, Jiang Yuanyuan was afraid. After describing a series of abnormal physiological reactions, Shen Xiaojun quickly took out a few hundred yuan of lucky money he had saved and took Jiang Yuanyuan to the hospital for examination, hoping it was just a false alarm. On the contrary, the hospital confirmed that Jiang Yuanyuan had been pregnant for more than a month.

Shen Xiaojun began to regret it. He hated himself for hurting Jiang Yuanyuan and himself on impulse. The doctor told Shen Xiaojun that if they don't want children, they must take measures at once, otherwise they will miss the best opportunity and have to be hospitalized. Now, Shen Xiaojun has to bear the responsibility that does not correspond to his age.

The doctor said that the cost of medical abortion plus nutrition cost is more than 1000 yuan. Where did Shen Xiaojun and Jiang Yuanyuan get so much money? This inspection alone spent all Shen Xiaojun's savings. Ask your parents? This is unimaginable, let alone let others know. Shen Xiaojun was at a loss.

The "top student" extended a thief's hand to his deskmate.

In the following month, Shen Xiaojun and others desperately raised money: they made up excuses to ask their parents and borrow from their classmates ... but this was a drop in the bucket, so the two or three hundred yuan raised was of no help at all. Shen Xiaojun almost collapsed, thinking about how to make money every day, and his academic performance plummeted. Faced with the pressure of entering a higher school and the blame of his parents, he was at a loss. He used to be happy with Jiang Yuanyuan, but now when he sees Jiang Yuanyuan, he always feels that Jiang Yuanyuan's stomach is getting bigger every day. Jiang Yuanyuan always stared at Shen Xiaojun nervously, as if afraid that he would leave her irresponsibly, which made Shen Xiaojun a headache. The two often quarrel about this, and the sweet time before has disappeared.

Seeing that the doctor's deadline is coming, Shen Xiaojun still hasn't raised enough money for the drug flow. On this day, Shen Xiaojun was in a daze in the classroom, and the deskmate radar showed off his new mobile phone to other students: "This is the latest mobile phone, with a color screen and a camera. My dad bought it for more than 3,000 yuan! "

Shen Xiaojun knows that Radar has a good family. His father is the manager of the company and often buys him good things. Somehow, Shen Xiaojun's eyes are always inseparable from that mobile phone, and a bold idea that startled himself flashed through his mind. He needs money. With money, he can get rid of all this now, and he can be as happy as before with Jiang Yuanyuan. Both of them can be admitted to the university and set foot on the red carpet together after graduation. Without this money, the future of him and Jiang Yuanyuan will be ruined. ...

Shen Xiaojun, who was covered in money, sneaked his mobile phone into his pocket when he went to the toilet by radar. After all this, he felt his heart beating violently, but he was relieved that he and Jiang Yuanyuan would soon be able to resume their old lives.

At noon, in order to avoid people's eyes and ears, he transferred his mobile phone to Jiang Yuanyuan. Jiang Yuanyuan was surprised at first, but soon calmed down. She is no longer willing to put up with the present situation. So she helped Shen Xiaojun hide his mobile phone and made an appointment to sell it that night. In the afternoon, when the radar found that the mobile phone was stolen, they pretended to help find it as if nothing had happened. That night, they sold their mobile phones to a second-hand electrical appliance store at a price of 1 1,000 yuan.

The next day, when Shen Xiaojun and Jiang Yuanyuan came to the hospital, the police were already waiting. Shen Xiaojun was detained on suspicion of theft, and Jiang Yuanyuan was released on bail pending trial for pregnancy. After the case was handed over to Zhabei District Procuratorate, the prosecutor examined the case. In view of the minor circumstances of the case, Shen Xiaojun and Jiang Yuanyuan had a good attitude of pleading guilty and offered to make restitution. Finally, the prosecutor made a decision not to sue. (The characters in the text are all pseudonyms)

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The bitter fruit of puppy love

It is lucky that Shen Xiaojun and Jiang Yuanyuan were not prosecuted, but such experience and the education of prosecutors are enough to make them learn to think twice before you act.

A string of green fruits of puppy love is a wake-up call for children, and puppy love is not desirable. Prosecutors in Zhabei District Procuratorate found that the success rate of puppy love in many schools is very low. On the contrary, puppy love is the biggest stumbling block to their success, leaving them with pain and regret.

A string of green fruits of puppy love leaves regret and pain to adults again and again, which also urges people to think deeply about the causes of this phenomenon. It should be said that the occurrence of puppy love is neither strange nor terrible. It is not only the reflection of children's physiological changes, but also the result of social culture, especially some bad cultural influences.

In the face of puppy love, parents and teachers should never blindly blame, let alone abuse and beat. It is necessary to tell children who are curious about the opposite sex with their physical development that love is an indispensable and beautiful thing in human life, but love needs to mature and take time to cultivate.

When talking about puppy love, an educator said with great certainty that "once children fall in love, their studies will be distracted, their grades will drop 100%, and some even go on the illegal road." He believes that puppy love is like an unseasonable fruit, green, bitter and even toxic, which will have a bad influence on growing children. This has been confirmed by countless facts. The bitter fruit of these puppy love can tell those teenagers who are wandering on the edge of puppy love to stop at once and never fall into the quagmire of puppy love.