What is the meaning of marriage?

All along, I have been looking forward to love and marriage, and I have always felt that my marriage will be very happy.

A long time ago, I thought of a question: Why should I get married? So I asked a very good classmate, "Why do you think I got married?"

He asked me in turn, why do you want to get married?

At that time, I said:

Well, I want to find someone who knows my warmth and sadness.

There is someone who can warm my bed and hug me to sleep. I can wash my hands and make him soup. I'm looking forward to getting married and having a baby.

He wanted to mean to say:

In fact, most of us don't know why we want to get married. In the ancient patriarchal society, women did not have the ability to live independently, or were deprived of the possibility of living independently.

But today, most of us women can live independently, even better than men!

Moreover, most of us, including you and me, don't need to get anything special by getting married. We have parents, relatives, socialization, education and the ability to support ourselves in the future.

So what's the point of getting married?

If we want to do housework alone, then we can hire a nanny.

If we want a child, it seems that we can support it by ourselves, with the help of our parents. If we want a person to risk his life, then we can buy more insurance.

If we want love ... we can always find it. Without the bondage of marriage, it seems more convenient for us.

But in fact, most of us just follow the crowd and want to get married: it looks no different, and the people who want to know announce that I want to spend my life with someone.

Then, I asked him, why did you get married?

He said: Marriage should only be a result. Before you get married, you should find out whether you are qualified to be together for a lifetime. We need to be clear about: personality, house and car, parents, work, how to take care of children, and how parents should provide for the elderly. Instead of waiting for the wedding!

Well, I think it's quite right. If it is decided before marriage, then more of us don't have to worry about the meaning of marriage.

However, too many of us want to regard marriage as a kind of redemption and escape from our present life through marriage, but the result is that we are trapped.

If you live a good life alone, you haven't met the right person yet. Or the marriage you are about to face, which neither likes nor makes your life better, then don't get married yet!

Or get married, lose yourself in the family, have a broken relationship, and live a life of chicken feathers, then get out early and stop loss in time.

Again, whenever you meet the right person, you must have the capital to support yourself and the ability to make yourself and your family happy. We don't need to rely on anyone to live. If we meet the right person, we should have a good hug.

So what is the meaning of marriage? Probably for.

Someone can discuss something when you are busy, talk nonsense together when you are bored, and squeeze a table for dinner when you are tired. Life is too long, there must always be company.

Aboveboard company, down-to-earth lady.