It’s really hard to be a stepmother

I almost became a stepmother, but when we lived together before marriage, I also deeply realized that it is difficult to be a stepmother. Now I am very glad that I broke up with him! Let me tell you my own experience. In the beginning, his child accepted me very much. The children are ten and five years old. The first time I went to his house, I prepared a lot of gifts for the children, including his parents. Later at his house, I took special care of his children, even better than my own, because I was afraid that others would say that I was a bad stepmother. , but I also like children from the bottom of my heart! I feel that the child is very pitiful and has no mother, so I also want to give the child more love from the bottom of my heart. But as time goes by, I find the problem is coming. The better I treat the child, the more the child finally thinks that I am easy to talk to and thinks that I am not good at talking. I won't beat him, but I won't scold him. If he doesn't get what he wants at first, he will tell me to get out at a young age! Faced with this behavior of my child, I still decisively educated him, saying that it was very wrong for you to do this. Auntie likes you and treats you well because she loves you. And you can't disrespect your aunt just because she's nice to you! But later every time I washed my child's face, even if I washed his face normally, he would cry and say that I was too strong and hurt him. At first, I really thought I had hurt him and tried to comfort him. But later I found that this was not the case at all. Whenever I touch him, or if he touches my body without touching him, he will cry in front of others, saying that I hurt him. I was also speechless. I undressed him to go to bed. Many people at home were playing cards at his house. The mahjong table happened to be in the bedroom. I was undressing him when he suddenly burst into tears and said that I had touched his hand. In fact, in my heart It was very clear that he did it on purpose, but his grandfather told me not to touch his hands, and his father also told me not to touch his hands. At that time, I felt very wronged. The children were hostile to me. I can understand it, but they actually believed that I was really It will hurt his hand, and this is the beginning of fear! I was also very angry. I didn’t touch him and didn’t want to pay attention to him. I just sat next to him and watched others playing cards. Within twenty or thirty seconds, the child didn’t cry and was jumping lively. I felt like hehe! I feel so stupid. I have sacrificed a lot for my children, but they take it for granted! Later, he and I broke up due to relationship issues, and now I feel lucky to think about it! Because if I really go on, I think I will be in vain! No matter money or spirit! I advise everyone not to become stepmothers!