"Caigen Tan" 89 is rich in virtue and good fortune.

I am blessed when the sky is thin, and I am virtuous when the people are thick.

Heaven toils and I take shape, and I escape from my heart to make up for it;

Heaven and earth meet me, and I will be enlightened in my way.

God, what can I do?

Fate has thinned my wealth, so I will strengthen my self-virtue to deal with it; Fate makes me tired, so I relax to make up for it; Fate is difficult for my fate, so I improve my moral cultivation to understand. So how can God beat me?

According to religion, we are born with many days, but it is ourselves who change our lives. These truths are recorded in the four commandments of Fan. The fate of bad days is passively accepted by ordinary people, and the repression of life, if it is a heart without feelings, is also an ignorance without troubles. It happened that we all have unwilling hearts, but we can't control our laziness and disappointment. This is the source of trouble and pain. Finally, I sighed, sighed, and I decided my fate. There is no doubt that this is a layman.

In fact, fate is just a factory setting brought by birth, and everything in the future is decided by yourself. What we have to do is to transform and do what we want on the basis of our factory settings. Fate is full of ups and downs. Our minds should not be bound by the status quo, thinking that we can't get what others have (good luck), work hard (manual labor) and have no chance to come (encounter adversity). All these difficulties add up to a hopeless mountain. In order to cope with every bad situation, we can do our best to improve our moral cultivation and cultivate our hearts to relax it. In this way, the number of days is not without solution. Therefore, we find that all these differences lie in that we should change passivity into initiative and actively deal with all kinds of bad situations. In that case, the number of days will certainly not inhibit our positive transformation.

Since there are these methods of changing names and transferring goods, why are most of us still trapped in fate and unable to turn around? First, we have long acquiesced in the wrong concept of established destiny in cognition and have long been preconceived in the subconscious. What we need to do is to correct this idea immediately. Since someone can change luck, the belief that "life is up to me and happiness is for myself" can be believed. Secondly, it is very difficult to change from factory setting to satisfactory state, which is how many levels it has crossed. Think about quitting smoking. It takes so much effort to quit, not to mention the change of your whole life. Therefore, we should not only make great efforts, but also make real efforts to practice, and this is not a short-term thing and needs long-term tempering. And many people fell on the road, but they couldn't hold on and didn't wait for the new sun to rise. But this cannot be used as evidence to deny the change of life. At most, it proves the difficulty of changing a person's life and fortune.

Changing a person's life is not just talk. The more you want to change, the harder it will be. Are you afraid to stop? Thinking about the beauty after the change and coveting the comfort of the present situation? This mentality is not only useless to change your life, but also adds a lot of trouble. I think the first thing we should do is to talk to ourselves. Know if you want to change and how much. Tell yourself how much pain this change will cause, even if it is temporary, but it will realize itself after the change. This question must be decided! Don't decide, just drag with age. Do you want to drag it and the tangled pain into your final grave? Please think clearly. It doesn't matter whether you change it or not. It's your own decision and choice. But indecision, indecision is a sin, a great sin of wasting life!

After some weighing, if you still think about the beauty after the change, then immediately make up your mind to change and do your best to bless yourself. Strategically and gradually change. Set your own stretching area every time and proceed slowly and steadily. There will even be a retreat in the process. Don't lose heart and stop, and continue your own changes. But we must remember that our inner beliefs are unshakable and we must firmly keep our inner light. Faith does not move.

Back to the starting point, the first thing we have to do is to make a decision to defend it to the death. At the fork in the road of life, please talk seriously and make a careful decision.