Everyone in the world says that "strict father gives birth to a dutiful son, but a loving mother loses many children". Do you feel this way?

Personally, I don't particularly agree with this view. A strict father does not necessarily mean that a child is filial. Similarly, it does not mean that a child whose mother is docile must be bad. The educational concept of many children who failed in filial piety in strict father is actually a bit old-fashioned, which may be applicable to previous people, but it is not suitable for contemporary young people.

Parents nowadays pay attention to the ways and means of educating their children. Just like in the past, it is wrong to beat and scold children to educate them well. Children who grow up in a mild environment can also form a sound personality and become better people. Take celebrity families as an example. I have always admired the educational methods of Du Jiang and Huo Siyan. Huo Siyan's attitude towards his son is really good, but Du is also educated, and there is no such problem as a loser. Some fathers have always been strict in educating their children. They think it will stop their children. In fact, their children are only superficial and may be rebellious behind them. Next, I will talk about the reasons why I don't agree with this educational concept.

First, fathers also need to be gentle with their children. Many fathers are more serious in their children's minds, which often leads children to be unwilling to approach their fathers because they are afraid of their fathers, but this does not mean that children will definitely grow up, and some children will become more extreme in such an environment. Therefore, fathers need to be gentle with their children. Don't always keep a straight face, they can laugh more with their children, which is not only conducive to their growth, but also conducive to narrowing the distance with them.

Second, a mother can't be spoiled without a lower limit. A mother should never spoil her children indefinitely. The reason why loving mothers often let their children fail is because some mothers are too proud of their children and will not educate them no matter what they do wrong, so their children will definitely be raised badly. So mothers can be gentle with their children, but they should be serious when they are serious.