I have to talk about disconnection.

A friend once told me that in this world, there is only reconciliation, not the same.

If it is the first encounter in life, this expectation is full of beauty, and only when we meet can we feel it most profoundly. In the days that followed, it was downhill, a kind of nostalgia belonging to the past.

When two people are together, I believe that they are all holding a heart of looking forward to the future at the beginning and think that they can definitely go to the end.

In fact, when we were in love, no one doubted this love, and naively thought that living with * * * for a lifetime was not a myth. Only later, when everything can't go back, the pain is real, the disappointment is real, and the departure is real.

Most people's feelings can't be smooth sailing.

There are very few people who are really suitable from the beginning, but they just can't meet them.

Most of us stumbled all the way, each with stubbornness and pride, and refused to compromise, but in the end we were defeated by acacia, began to grow and reflect, and then had two suitable people.

In this process, some people survive, and then they can be together for many years; Some people, however, parted ways halfway; Others are on and off all the way, hurting each other but healing themselves. They can't get in, but they can't worry. Two people always compete like this until one of them is completely tired and chooses to let go.

When a relationship ends, what I fear most is not that I can't see you, but that you stand in front of me. Two people are obviously very close, but their hearts seem to be separated by a sea.

It turns out that some injuries are incurable.

No matter how hard you try, you are just repeating a predictable ending, and you know it, but you may just not admit defeat.

Later, we were no longer us.

I want to talk about the love experience of a friend of mine.

I also learned a truth from her love experience: in this matter of feelings, we should do as little as possible to hurt each other. When you love someone, you may not be rational enough, so you obviously love each other, but you still hurt each other. In any case, you need to think twice before you act. Some things are said and some things are done, just like spilled water, which can't be collected.

Once the heart is cold, for someone, it is forever.

She used to love her predecessor very much. In the process of their love, on the whole, she paid more, no, it should be much more.

The first time she fell in love, she loved each other passionately and purely, hoping to be together forever. She never thought of parting, because she always thought that as long as she did well enough, the other party would definitely not leave her.

It backfired.

The boy left him without warning. They had dinner together last night and had a good chat. The next day, my boyfriend broke up. She asked why, and the other person said, "I think it's really boring to continue together like this."

Only after the separation did she understand that her boyfriend's neglect some time ago and his impatience in front of her occasionally were only because he had a good impression on another person.

Originally, she wanted to stay, but after learning the real reason for his change, she completely moved her mind to leave. Since then, the two have been separated for almost half a year.

She didn't expect the boy to come back for her later.

Probably because he found her better after being with someone else, so he came back and started chasing her again. He chased her seriously and persistently, that is, she said she was hungry in the middle of the night, and he could get up in the winter night to buy her delicious food and send it there for more than two hours.

When she told her that you really didn't have to do this, he replied firmly, "If it's for you, I will."

When we were together before, she was always planning the future, while boys were always silent. Later, their roles were completely reversed, and the boys began to tell her the blueprint for the future, where to buy a house, what car to buy, having two children, raising a dog, and even how to divide housework. Boys can make it clear.

Of course, she knows something she said before, and the boys are just repeating it.

She had mixed feelings at that time, and later said to us, "Really, if he had said these words to me before we broke up, I would have been so happy that he wouldn't marry."

She once said that she would never look back, because the other party broke up when she was deeply in love, and she had a very difficult time alone. It can be said that Lacrimosa often cried at the thought of him, and finally calmed down, but he came back to provoke.

But she still relented.

She is not only soft-hearted, but also unwilling to see him love himself as he once did. Of course, the most important thing is that she still can't forget him.

That's the person he once really loved. How could he let go so easily?

So, after almost half a year, they were together again.

The boy is very happy. He promised again and again that he would love her wholeheartedly, never make her sad or disappointed again, and never do anything wrong to her again.

She smiled on her face, but in fact she always felt something was wrong.

Soon she found that he had hurt his memory, which had become a perpetual estrangement in her heart. This kind of estrangement makes her unable to trust him from the bottom of her heart, and at the same time, she is leaving a way out for herself, so that she dare not love him as unreservedly as she did at the beginning.

She found that after being reunited with him, she was not as happy as she thought, but her heart was full of worries, so she couldn't get over it.

At this time, she finally understood that losing is sometimes more practical than having it.

If lost, time can heal some pain, but later you can generously miss some of his beauty and complete an expectation in your heart. Although, to a great extent, what you miss is no longer someone, but the person who did not hesitate at the beginning, the love you imagined.

Having it again shattered all my dreams.

At this time, she found that they can't go back to the past, and each other's eyes are sweet, at least she can't and never will.

Trust is really one-off. If it is broken, it is often useless to make up for it, because it will definitely leave a scar.

Loving someone is not everything. Love can't offset all emotions and scars. Some people, who still love in the end, find that they are tired and can't go back, so they can only move on and meet their future.

Later, we, the best ending is: there is no later.