Dad asked me to go to work.

1, you 17 years old, you should be responsible for yourself. A person should be responsible for himself first, and then say something else.

17 years old, study hard if your grades and economy allow. After this period of time, more efforts are needed. Don't feel sorry for dad. He can actually hire someone to help him instead of sacrificing his child's future.

There is no need to draw a clear line with each other. Maybe you will be bound when you are not independent, but you should know that no one can cut off the blood relationship. You will soon be an adult, and when you graduate, you will be able to stand on your own feet financially, not to mention being controlled by others. Of course, it doesn't mean that you should oppose your mother for this, but that you work hard to be filial to your parents. After a while, they will understand your feelings when they see your filial piety and hard work and that you have not neglected yourself because you love each other.

3. A long way to go.

Father asks you to help him. This is not the only moment when you are filial. If you don't help him at this time, he will ignore you. Even if he is angry and ignores you at this time, you can take care of him slowly, filial to him bit by bit, and slowly untie his heart, so that he can understand your difficulties, understand you and forgive you.

Mom turned the contradiction between husband and wife into you, so you don't have to object. You feel that choosing one party betrays the other, because the initiative of filial piety lies with you.

You are only 17 years old. It is a good time to study hard and work hard for your future. Don't be too stressed and think too much. Many things are your parents' responsibility, not yours. As long as you do what you want and can, you will have more say and help them more in the future.