Will being beaten and scolded by your parents in childhood leave a psychological shadow when you grow up?

Tell you a story. A man works very hard and wants to make money so that he and his mother can live a happy life. He is in the insurance business, and he works hard every day to find and communicate with customers, and learns professional insurance knowledge to become an expert in this field. However, his life has not changed because of his efforts. It's getting worse. Because he often makes a stupid mistake, that is, every time he is about to sign a contract with a customer, something unexpected happens. Either the contract is lost, or he gets up late, or something happens to the customer, or the car breaks down. ...

This kind of thing happened too many times. He was really a little desperate and didn't know the meaning of his efforts. Later, he became depressed and entered the psychologist's consulting room. Through hypnosis, the psychological counselor saw that he still deeply remembered in his subconscious that he made a mistake again when he was a child and was tied to a tree by his mother in front of the whole village. The last scene of a violent beating.

So in his subconscious, he hates his mother for being beaten this time, so he doesn't really want to make so much money and doesn't want his mother to live a good life. This is the power of the subconscious mind, which completely defeats the energy given to us by the conscious level. In fact, this is not a story, but a real consulting case. Therefore, being beaten and scolded by your parents in childhood will definitely leave a psychological shadow when you grow up.

Although I am a girl, I have been beaten and scolded often since I was a child. What often comes to mind now is that my father slapped me and my nose bled a lot. In fact, the reason for being beaten is very simple. , just because my dad didn’t understand what I said in English. In the past, I thought they were my parents and they had the right to hit people. But after I had a child, I found that the same state my parents treated me would reappear in me, and I was afraid. I am afraid that my children will have the same psychological shadow as me and lack of self-confidence like me. Therefore, each of us cannot choose our original family, because those are what we have to bear, but we can choose to step out from the shadow of our original family and give our children the best possible original family. This is the greatest contribution to this family and this society.

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