How can we manage a family well?

Both professional women and housewives play the role of housewives in front of their husbands and children.

For various reasons, many housewives often have a morbid psychology. Actually, a good housewife doesn't have to be perfect. As long as you practice by yourself and have a good attitude, everything can be leisurely.

Committed to psychological communication between husband and wife

You know, every second people put into communication, they can exchange 50- 100 pieces of information. Raised eyebrows, staring eyes, unexpected kisses and hugs, milk at the table, and coats worn after midnight all convey love messages. The purpose of transmitting information is communication, and the intimacy of husband and wife is determined by their psychological distance. Compared with lovers far away, passers-by in front of them are naturally closer. A good housewife, no matter what she does, never forgets psychological communication.

There is no need to be nervous about the conflict between husband and wife.

As two independent individuals, husband and wife have different physiological rhythms, different lifestyles and different hobbies. Therefore, it is impossible for husband and wife to have the same desires or needs at the same time forever. Conflicts will happen sooner or later, big or small, and disharmony is normal for a period of time. Housewives don't need to panic, don't hate their husbands, and have enough confidence in the durability of their marriage.

Don't expect too much from your husband and children.

Idealist women often regard imagination as hope and reality. Expecting too much from husbands and children usually leads to greater disappointment. Disappointed housewives are always dissatisfied and feel that everything goes wrong. A housewife with this mentality can only become a good family if she lowers her expectations and is contented.

Get rid of anxiety

Women get more from a happy marriage and lose more from a failed marriage. Women tend to be more worried, troubled and responsible than their husbands. Because of this, many housewives are always uneasy and instinctively produce a defense mechanism: repression, escape and so on. Housewives must face up to their negative psychology, get rid of the "uneasy" mood completely and live boldly and steadily.

Don't always think about each other.

Many wives think that as long as they are polite and considerate to their husbands, they can not hate them. However, the opposite is true. Over time, a housewife without self and vitality will definitely make her husband very tired. Always think of each other, restrain your own needs and desires, and sacrifice silently, in fact, you unconsciously recover the price from each other.

Women can't meet all men's needs.

Women always have a kind of psychology to satisfy their husbands' needs and please them, and even want to meet all their requirements unrealistically. This is a very naive and unrealistic idea. Because people's personality characteristics are varied, tastes and requirements are also varied, and different personalities have increased this difference, not to mention the changes with time and environment, so this is just a bitter day for themselves.

It is necessary to let her husband know some characteristics of women, not necessarily shortcomings, and there is no need to cover up and whitewash them. But to automatically tell her the whole story, so that she can fully understand and further understand them.

In a word, a good housewife should have a crystal clear, considerate and selfless heart, live a serious life and love her home and family seriously.

Some people say that behind a successful man, there must be a great woman. This person may be a mother or a wife. It can also be said that a man must have a very virtuous housewife in order to achieve a great career and a happy family. Therefore, the role of housewives in family and society is self-evident. How to be a good housewife?

1. Be responsible for housework: keep the house tidy and spotless, make it like a restaurant, like a paradise, and always be filled with a harmonious atmosphere. Of course, the husband is willing to go home for dinner, and the children will not linger outside.

2. Endure grievances: Although a housewife is busy and hard at work, she should bring happiness to her husband and children spiritually, endure grievances, take on more family responsibilities and make her family happy. This kind of achievement is often more practical and fulfilling than her career achievements.

Third, we must keep chastity: as a woman, the most precious thing is chastity. The ancients said that a good woman should have female virtue, female speech, female appearance and female merit. Female virtue refers to chastity, so being a woman, chastity is very important. Don't treat it as a joke, don't joke, don't wander, and keep the virtue of women's reserve and solemnity.

Fourth, it is important to teach children that between husband and wife, the customer should be respected at ordinary times, and the wife may wish to serve the king for her husband occasionally. A little more consideration and care in daily life will definitely win him the same or even more rewards; For children, we should lead by example, teach by example, set a good example for him and let him receive a good education.

5. Live in harmony with relatives and friends: A wife is called a good wife because she can help her husband in family and career. Therefore, for neighbors, relatives and friends, we should be close and help our husbands establish good interpersonal relationships. And filial piety in-laws, respect for elders, so that her husband has no worries.

So how to be a good housewife? Yes:

First, be responsible for housework.

Second, be patient.

Third, we must keep our virginity and honor.

Fourth, teaching children is very important.

Fifth, live in harmony with relatives and friends.