Have you found that some people's faces become "mean" with age?

As time goes by, the more one experiences, the more clearly one sees some things, and how to better protect oneself or adapt to this society. For example, before entering the society for the first time, everyone is the embodiment of truth, goodness and beauty, maybe warm, maybe gentle. After entering this environment, it took a long time to discover that it was not life that deceived us, but that we saw this society clearly. In order not to be bullied, or to survive more effectively, people perform a clear distinction between right and wrong in front of acquaintances, but are indifferent in front of strangers. In fact, the older you get, the more you learn to let go, the richer your life, and the more you live as a person who loves life.

This statement makes sense to some people, but it can't be said in general terms: "People are mean when they are old."

What are the experiences of those who become mean faces?

We need to look at it from both physical and psychological levels.

From a physical point of view,

With the increase of age, there will be cases where fat is easy to accumulate and muscles are atrophied.

This muscular atrophy can be said to be the root cause of facial changes.

There are not many muscles on our faces, only the muscles around our eyes and on our cheeks will grow a little.

Muscle deformation around the eyes will make the eyeball look prominent, or the skin will be slack and the eyelids will droop, or the bags under the eyes will be big.

This will make the whole person's aura look a bit "wily" or "muddy"

Others have prominent eyebrows, sunken eyes and flashing spirits.

For people who have just come into contact, this positioning will give people a bad first impression.

Muscle atrophy in the cheeks will lengthen the whole face.

As we all know, people with round faces look friendly, while people with long faces have a solemn and cold visual sense.

At the same time, the muscles of the cheek atrophy, which will make the cheek sag, make the cheekbones towering and the corners of the mouth sag.

This gives people a visual effect of "always looking unhappy".

Of course, all the above situations are based on the premise that there is not much facial fat.

Originally, the older people get, the more fat they accumulate, but for people with bad stomachs or people who are mainly vegetarian, the fat may not accumulate too much.

So, if you want to look friendly, you might as well eat yourself fatter.

Let's take a look at Su Daqiang, who is very popular recently.

This is what he looks like now, a dick thief.

Ancient costume with long hair and beard ... I admit it's even more terrible.

This is when he was young. Is it a beautiful man, but there is no Yin Zhi's spirit at all?

This is a case of facial changes caused by physical decline.

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Let's talk about the psychological level first.

It is often said that a person's appearance before the age of 30 is given by his parents, and his appearance after the age of 30 is repaired by himself.

This sentence is not unreasonable.

After entering adulthood, everyone will have different experiences, thus forming a world view different from that of youth.

The formation of this world outlook will affect the mind from an internal perspective.

There will be more external influences, such as eyes.

On the premise of nonverbal communication, the most effective way for human beings to gain insight into each other's thinking is to look into each other's eyes.

And a half-life bumpy, or ill-fated person, often in the eyes inside the transmission of constant energy.

This will also make others think that this person is stingy and inaccessible.

In recent years, domestic public figures have been talking about returning to their original heart, saying that they are still teenagers after leaving for half their lives.

Whether they have done it themselves or not, this call is to appeal to the public to keep a pure heart, which will be helpful to interpersonal communication or business.

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We can improve our appearance and even temperament through the formation of some habits.

For example, you can often do some simple sports without any purpose. This will make your dopamine and endorphins secrete vigorously, bring you a happy mood, and you will laugh more.

For example, read more books and broaden your knowledge. Believe me, the more transparent you look at the world, the more peaceful your mind will be, which will be directly reflected in your face.

For example, socialize more, don't care if it's ineffective, as long as you can make yourself happy. The cultivation of people's mentality is to correct each other in mutual communication.

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I hope it helps you.

When I was a student, I went to the dentist to have my teeth filled. When the doctor was young, his attitude could be described by Laozi's words: the warehouse was empty, the fields were poor, and it was only stealing when he had literary talent and a sword.

The dentist later learned that I was at odds with the unit leader when I was young. When you are in a bad mood, there is not much money in your wallet. The equipment in the clinic is almost like a sword. I'm just a robber.

Now the dentist is old, his face is kind, water is good for everything, and there is no dispute, so he rarely gets in the way. When a dentist is old, the realm of Tao is to demoralize him, resolve his disputes and share the light with him. I want an old dentist to fill my teeth. The old dentist handed over the clinic to his son and liked to take a walk in Haikou Park.

Be mean when you are old, and be merciful when you are old.

Everyone knows that good is good and bad is bad. Everyone in the world knows that beauty is beauty and evil is evil. So long and short are in the same phase, and high and low are inclined. Therefore, saints do nothing, teach no words, success leads to glory, and husbands lead to glory, so they can't go.

After success, you don't feel proud, and goodness and beauty appear on your face. Dissatisfied people also appear mean.

Comte's capacity, only from the Tao, Tao is the thing, only trance, trance, including phase, trance, things, subtle, refined, true, and believe, how can we know the image of the public?

When I saw Tao's face in a trance, there was always something left. Too far-reaching, the essence of face is real, and there is honesty in it.

What do I know about meanness and compassion? They come from the heart.

When I was a child, my parents gave me my face, which is an innate capital. After that, it was changed according to everyone's life experience and their own personality.

According to what I have seen and heard around me, the reasons for "unkindness" are summarized as follows:

1, determined by economic conditions.

2. I am selfish, competitive and greedy.

Family education and school education have failed, and there is no good academic record.

4, the salary is low, not enough.

5, the marriage is not smooth, leading to disharmony between family and children.

6, poor psychological endurance, feeling that no one can understand. I think most "mean" people face life negatively, and when problems arise, they only complain, not choose how to solve them. Over the years, even the best face will go bad. Of course, these do not include some natural faces.

A person with poor economic conditions means working hard and having no time to dress up beautifully. I always thought so. Later, I found that life is my own, and how to face it is my own. That can go to a good place. Why should I make things worse?

Anger is punishing yourself for other people's mistakes. Women should learn to let go and stay away from unhappy people and things. The appearance before the age of 30 is brought out of the womb, and the appearance after the age of 30 is born from the heart. When I was a child, my family conditions were not bad in the local area, and I worked well after graduation. Plus, I was dressed in fashion and avant-garde, so I had to be tough. Others say that they have a face that keeps people away. Then for the sake of love, she married her long-distance husband and stayed at home full-time from the beginning of pregnancy. The mother-in-law added two sisters and a sister-in-law, who added a rebellious daughter. Every day, the chicken is broken and the chicken feathers are scattered all over the floor. Husband: What if you win the whole world? Then I will accompany my daughter to grow up safely, treat her as my best friend and sister, go crazy with her and play with her. When she arrives at kindergarten, she will start to engage in primary school trusteeship, synchronous counseling and various trainings, and she is very busy every day. Ten years later, I brought my daughter back to my hometown for development. My relatives, friends and neighbors all say that I have become soft and beautiful. My daughter looked at my childhood photos: now my mother is more beautiful than before, beautiful before, and beautiful now [laughs] [laughs].

Oh, really?

I think, one of them is a bit inhuman, because of the erosion of years, it has lost its edges and corners with the glass masonry on the beach and turned into a slippery egg. That disgusting face has become kind. This is the main road, the avenue. Is the basic trajectory of life.

But there are indeed a few people who change in turn. This is the essence of life, and a few people are embellishments. Prove the diversity and complexity of life.

The more you live, the simpler your heart is. The more you live, the more confused you are. The more you live, the meaner you get. It is bad numerology.

In short, the heart is not big enough and the wisdom is not enough. Many people always have fools! Mean people are just asking for trouble. Just an idiot, just not good!

Look at everything indifferently and don't haggle over every ounce. At this age, I have experienced marriage, having children, raising and educating children, taking care of the family, the relationship between husband and wife, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Whether it is good or bad, happy or painful, it has been experienced. At this age, I am no longer frivolous and romantic. Only health and safety are the foundation of life. Let go, let go of my indifferent life. Everyone has his own way of life, as long as he feels happy.

See more people, all kinds.

In fact, most people are fighting for power and profit when they are young, but when they are old, it is illusory to see through everything and see through fame and fortune. On the contrary, I will let go of some obsessions and become kind and optimistic from my previous ugly face.

People come and go naked all their lives, do their duty well, give up mutual affection, support their parents for a good old age, die well, raise their children to grow up and be useful, and get rid of the lead with those who accompany them all their lives. When they get old, they won't be as mean as you say.

Let go, let go, really let go from the heart, let nature take its course.

But typical examples are Ni Ping, Song Chunli, Ju Ping, Song Dandan and Li Guyi. They can be young, but when they are old, they look vulgar and mean! It is disgusting, the key is the mentality, the mentality is not correct, and the words are inevitably bitter, which is reflected in the outside! Therefore, when a woman reaches middle age, she must improve her virtue, cultivate both inside and outside, be old in love and elegance, and don't let herself become a vulgar woman with a mean face!

There are too many women like China, especially those who stay at home. Almost all of them are cheap, sold in the market and stripped from the dead.

Clothes, female vendors selling dead fish, rotten shrimp and rotten pork, retired female teachers in the education building, etc. , almost became their symbol. That's what women do. It is difficult to learn well, and it is also difficult to learn badly, so "Chinese aunt" has become a derogatory term to describe those middle-aged and elderly women who are greedy, corrupt and bitter!

Ten aunts are nine bad, ten women are nine bitches. This is caused by the environment, but also the characteristics of China!

I don't remember which celebrity said that a person's looks were given by his parents before he was 30 years old, and only after he was 30 years old was he his own! In fact, if you think about it carefully, it does make sense. You see, people who think too much will basically have needles hanging on their foreheads, people with deep decrees, and people who live a hard life are usually more serious and severe. When they smile, they frown and look miserable ... These are all traces of life and life experiences on their faces!