Social skills: no patience! Be sure to stay away from those who consume you.

You must have had such an experience. Being with uncomfortable people is like consuming energy negatively. Although he may echo our dark side, after a long time, I feel more and more negative energy. Here are the social skills I collected for you. Let's have a look!

Please stay away from those who consume you!

When you go out into the world, you will always meet some people you like and some people you don't like. Stay with whoever you are comfortable with!

You must have had such an experience:

When chatting with some people, I always feel cheerful and wanting more. Even if there are more troubles in my heart, it seems that I have gone outside the cloud nine. Time always flies. I look forward to chatting with him next time.

Chatting with some people, I have been helplessly listening to their constant complaints, from work to life, from friends to family, from the past to the present, to the future, from myself to the social country. ...

It seems that everything in his life makes him dissatisfied.

Your good mood will be shrouded in him, and you may never want to see him again.

Being with uncomfortable people is like consuming energy negatively. Although he may echo our dark side, he feels more and more negative energy after a long time.

With comfortable people, you will feel very comfortable and casual, and your body and mind seem to be nourished.

We can choose who we are with.

The rest of your life is limited, so spend your time with people who can stretch your body and mind.

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The future does not belong to the rich, does not belong to the poor, belongs to positive energy!

Don't be with people who consume you!

Love someone who gives you positive energy. Everyone's life is the same. Looking at it from a distance is a long search for happiness, looking for everything that can make you happy: health, peace, material, honor and achievement.

Since you want to be happy, find someone who can make you feel happy.

Don't find a person who has no passion and curiosity to live. They will just sit at home with you and complain that life is really boring. They just turn on the TV and turn the channel over and over again, as if they can't think of any other entertainment except watching TV. People with positive energy are curious about many things. No matter what new things you meet, you want to try them. They will take you to a new restaurant, watch a movie with a good reputation, experience new entertainment programs and take you to the next strange city.

You will find that the world is very big, and it's worth trying all your life.

Don't find someone who is insecure to live with. They have been looking for possible misfortunes and worrying about future disasters. They have been thinking about what to do. People with positive energy will be optimistic about life and believe in themselves. They know that life is bittersweet, so they learn to face it calmly.

When trouble comes, solve it rationally. They believe that man can conquer nature, and when they really can't win, they accept it calmly. They can know themselves correctly, have self-knowledge, and will not belittle themselves or be self-inflated. Be independent when you should be independent, and ask for help when you should ask for help.

People with positive energy show the openness and tolerance of life.

People with positive energy have great wisdom. They can distinguish between black and white right and wrong in the world, and will not go astray on the road of life, nor will they go with the flow. Don't exaggerate the negative side of things.

They know how the world works and that everyone has sunny days and sunny days. They will give you the most pertinent advice when you need it. They are principled but innovative, opinionated but receptive.

Don't live with someone who gives up easily. They have no faith and no dreams. Their first and last reaction to setbacks is to escape, and they can give up the whole world.

People with positive energy have firm beliefs, have goals in life, know their own needs and work hard for them. They welcome change and progress. When difficulties come, they don't bother, and they don't want to be comfortable. They know that there will be more beautiful scenery behind the mountain.

Yes, love a person with positive energy.

They will surprise you and give you insight at the same time. They tell you to go straight and cut off all distorted values. If you are not a person with enough positive energy, please love a person with positive energy.

In this math problem, negative numbers can't get positive numbers. Another person with negative energy will drag down your life. Let a person with positive energy guide your soul and behavior, and you will become more cheerful and happy in a subtle way.

This must nourish your heart for a long time than any wealth!

Life is a process of choice, and the most important choice in life is to choose who to be with. Choose who to work with, who to make friends with, who to marry and who to study with. ......

Who you are with determines your future. It's up to you who you are with. Keep your eyes open and look for it.

With what kind of people, you will have what kind of life.

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Please stay away from people who consume you.

Someone said, "If you want to know a person, go and see his friends."

Generally speaking, half of a person's three views come from the society he knows and contacts, and the other half comes from family and friends. However, more often, the latter has a more direct guiding role.

Simply put, with what kind of people, there will be what kind of life.

Stay away from people who consume you.

It is important to be with people who can make you better; It is more important to be with someone who can make each other better.

You feel safe, relaxed and happy with him, which makes you feel the meaning and interest of life. You really want to spend more time with him.

However, people who are changeable in mood, easy to be pessimistic, afraid, like to gossip, complain and see everything are negative energy.

When you are with him, you will feel insecure, nervous and defensive. You feel absorbed, squeezed and inferior.

Your own energy is weak, you feel uncomfortable, you are picky, challenged and attacked, and you will want to end that conversation and escape from him as soon as possible.

If you spend a long time with people with negative energy, you can easily become negative energy yourself.

If you realize that your positive energy is not strong enough to resist negative energy, you must first learn to stay away from negative energy.

Just like if the psychologist's own psychological literacy is not strong enough, it is easy to be influenced by some psychological diseases of patients.

If you want to release positive energy continuously, you must be with people with positive energy, absorb positive energy and release positive energy at the same time. Between inhalation and release, life is always new.

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Make positive friends!

A person who is filial, kind, diligent, peaceful, positive and wise will be a blessed person.

1, be a filial friend.

A truly filial person must know responsibility, think, cherish and be grateful. Such a person is the most pleasing. Parents are people who give their lives. If even parents can't be filial and don't know how to respect, let alone others?

2. Make friends with kind people.

A truly kind person is generous, tolerant and peaceful at heart. I prefer making friends with kind people to being smart. Maybe one day you will understand that kindness is more difficult than cleverness. Cleverness is a gift, kindness is a choice.

3. Make friends with hardworking people.

A diligent person will be a blessed person to a great extent. Diligence can make up for it, and nothing is difficult in the world, only if you put your mind to it. It's hard for you to be lazy with diligent people.

4. Make friends with peace-loving people.

A peaceful person, he won't lose his temper easily, won't haggle over every ounce, won't be impatient and won't get angry. It is said that people can be divided into three categories, one is incompetent, grumpy and inferior; One kind is capable and tempered, and it is the middle class; There is also a class that is capable and has no temper. This is a gentleman, and the number is very small.

5. Make friends with positive people.

A positive person, no matter when, always keeps his true colors, and always tries to exercise his heart through the storms of life to make his heart stronger and softer.

If you want to make positive energy friends, please make yourself a positive energy person first!

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