How many children are you going to have if you don't restrict childbearing? The answers of post-80s and post-90s are quite different.

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Post-80 s group

As far as I know: "I think we can consider having more children. Most families in our generation are brothers and sisters. Children will help each other and support their parents together when they grow up. The burden will be lighter in the future. Considering that the cost of childbirth is too high now, it is more conservative to have two children. "

@ 丫丫丫丫丫丫: "I am an only child. I wish my parents could have more children then. I grew up alone and had no good friends around me. It's quite lonely, and now the pressure of providing for the aged is in front of us. It's really difficult to be alone. "

Post-90 s group

@ Whose strength: "If you are open, you will not be born. Having children really affects the quality of life. Not only is it laborious, but you may also lose your job. Taking the baby out for three years now just can't keep up with anything. It is too difficult to find a decent job that meets your needs. I don't want to be bound by children all my life, so I don't plan to regenerate. "

@ 中中中: "Now the work pressure is so great, I have to consider buying a house, getting married, having another child, and I will go straight for the rest of my life. Can't you have children? Can't you consider finding a good school for him after raising him? Don't consider signing him up for a special class? Not only the surplus cost is high, but also the education cost is high. The more children there are, the greater the pressure. If you are unable to take charge of the future life of so many children, it is safer not to have children. "

It can be seen that the post-80 s tend to have more children. Considering that children can share the pressure, help each other and avoid loneliness in the future, the post-90 s tend to have fewer or no children. After all, the current economic pressure will not be solved for a while. Of course, these views are not absolute. There are also cases where the post-80s regret having more children and the post-90s want to have more children.

For families who want to have more children, parents should first think clearly about three questions!

1. Are you in good health?

The whole process of raising a child, from pregnancy to the birth of the child, to accompanying the child to grow up, requires the painstaking efforts of parents. If the parents' physical condition is not good enough to take care of two children, it is better not to consider having more children, because doing so will not only be irresponsible to the children, but also bring great pressure to the family.

2. Are economic conditions allowed?

Nowadays, the cost of raising a baby is still high. Regardless of economic conditions, raising a child almost consumes parents' energy. Having children in the future will bring great pressure to the family. The more children there are, the heavier the burden on parents. Before giving birth to a baby, parents should see how much savings they have and whether they can meet the basic needs of raising one or more children. If they can't, it is not recommended to have more children. Let's have one first.

3. Does the child agree?

Many parents ignore this problem and think that having a second child or a third child is their own business, which has nothing to do with the children. You know, children are also a member of this family. If children's thoughts are not considered, families will be full of contradictions, such as tension between parents and children, mutual exclusion between brothers and sisters and so on. Therefore, it is very important to get the consent of the children at home if you want to have more children.

As the main force of contemporary fertility, the post-90s generation did not choose to have children voluntarily, which was really influenced by certain realistic factors. However, as long as the country gives relevant policies to solve the fertility problem, I believe that the post-90 s are still happy to have children.

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