How should children adjust when they always lie?

One: Parents should not play the role of prosecutors.

Don't blindly ask your child to confess, sometimes you can have a muddle-along attitude, but you must remind your child that lying is not good in the future. Parents know the truth and just want to save his face. I hope he will tell the truth next time and his parents will help him solve it together. If something really happens, you should be responsible and have the courage to admit your mistake, instead of hiding and lying to avoid responsibility.

Two: parents are calm and don't turn.

When the teacher tells us that our children failed in the math exam, please don't say, "Did you pass the math exam?" ..... Are you sure, do you know the consequences of lying? Well, this lie can't help you! Your teacher has called me, and your exam was terrible! "

Such an answer will not only prevent the child from lying, but also create opportunities for the child to lie and inspire him to "lie defensively." So you have to tell your child honestly: "The math teacher told me that you failed in the exam, and we are very worried and don't know how to help you."

And parents should not be hysterical and full of preaching. Be practical and practical, and let the children know that there is no need to lie to us.

Three: Never ask "Why"

For children, "why" means parents' disapproval, disappointment and unhappiness, thus reminding them of their past blamed memories. A simple "why are you doing this?" It may make children feel, "Why are you doing this?