High EQ chat between husband and wife

When couples with high emotional intelligence chat, their feelings need two people, Qi Xin, to manage together, so there are many ways for two people to experience their feelings, but have you ever understood them? Next, let's take a look at the high emotional intelligence chat between husband and wife.

High EQ chat between husband and wife 1 Both of them think it is very simple to get along before marriage, but reality tells us that life is very complicated and chaotic, because everyone has a lot of things to deal with together and needs to understand each other. At different times, there may be arguments or opposing views, but in the end, it is necessary to rely on skills to maintain feelings.

Living together will inevitably lead to some unnecessary quarrels. No matter how complicated and difficult the problem is, there is always one person between husband and wife who wants to take a step back. The fiercer the quarrel, the more likely it is that you don't want to communicate and want to escape.

This will only deepen misunderstanding and make things more difficult to solve. Being a husband and wife is a lifetime thing. Everyone should calm down and let each other know what their views are. Therefore, husband and wife must communicate and not escape, which is one of the manifestations of harmonious relationship between husband and wife.

Go out to dinner with friends, if your partner makes the wrong topic and remarks in front of everyone during the conversation. Then as yourself, you should whisper in his ear.

Never shout that he is wrong in the crowd. Because he is proud, so don't expose him loudly in front of everyone. When you are alone, you should slowly tell the other person what you missed. This will let the other party know that the other party supports him.

I have seen many couples become husband and wife and then meet strangers. There are not many examples, but the good thing is that they are incompatible and should be separated. The bad thing may be that there is a third party between each other.

But to my regret. Because I often complain, I choose to separate. It's not that I don't love each other, but because of all kinds of frictions in my life, I often complain about the hardships of life and finally choose to separate.

In fact, it is inevitable that there will be no complaints in husband and wife's life, and no one will like to listen to unpleasant words. It's just that sometimes, when emotions get to the extreme, it's inevitable to say something that hurts each other. Of course, everyone is sad to hear this, which is also a factor that destroys the feelings between each other.

In fact, husband and wife live together, if you encounter hardships, difficulties or some complaints in life. Actually, everyone can choose to sit down. Have an exchange, talk about your own views, and then think about how to actively improve the changes in life.

If you choose this processing method. I think couples can definitely understand each other. With mutual understanding, it is possible to improve everyone's life in the future. The affection between husband and wife will also deepen mutual understanding.

In fact, there is no need to beat around the bush between husband and wife. Sometimes in life, I always hear some nagging from the other side. I always miss a reply from my other half. To be precise, I hope my other half will give me a reply I like.

Because in this way, we will always see a lot of endless quarrels in our husband and wife's life. In fact, this will affect the feelings between husband and wife. Everyone wants to relax, even couples. So when communicating, some words should be made clear, and don't beat around the bush. In fact, clear communication is the wisest way without nagging.

In life, the contribution of husband and wife is actually relative. Because everyone has a different role in the family. Everyone has his own scope of responsibility. So don't always haggle over every ounce in life, care who pays more and who pays less. If this continues, the relationship between husband and wife will end one day.

Therefore, husband and wife should understand tolerance. Everyone should think: what everyone does is for the good of the family. If the family is good, the relationship between husband and wife will be better.

The couple want to organize a beautiful family. Everything at home should be communicated, and of course the responsibility should be shared. If you have a problem, please don't hesitate to say so that we can communicate and solve the problem together.

There is no right or wrong between husband and wife. If you want to grow old together, you must cherish the fate between us, communicate well and be tolerant.

A woman with high emotional intelligence will give her man enough respect and understanding, which will also urge her man to make progress in his career, so that with your respect and understanding, he will become more excellent. So as to pay more sincere feelings for you.

Women with high emotional intelligence often know when and what to do and will not impose their ideas on each other. Behind every successful man, there is a woman with high emotional intelligence.

A woman with high emotional intelligence is often the cornerstone of a man's career success and can even help him expand his contacts. Such a woman is also more likely to make a man willing to give her sincerity.

High emotional intelligence is not only reflected in the success of love, but also a person with high emotional intelligence can get the favor of the boss and the' recognition and respect' of colleagues in the workplace. People with high emotional intelligence have strong communication skills, go more steadily and further in the workplace, and have wider interpersonal relationships.

Chatting between couples with high emotional intelligence 2 First, men with high emotional intelligence will joke.

You know, especially when men just meet women, once they have a boring and blunt question-and-answer dialogue, it is easy for women to lose patience and interest. When we meet for the first time, men must leave a deep impression on women and leave your shadow in their minds. Therefore, men who can make women happy will fascinate women.

So some people will joke, not say some low-level jokes or some explicit words, but really joke. They will express a sentence in another form, perhaps in a different word or in a different tone, but the final effect is absolutely beyond doubt.

Second, men with high emotional intelligence can play routines.

As we all know, since ancient times, the true feelings can't be kept, and routines can often win people's hearts.

Sometimes, people must not be too rigid. They must learn to keep women's appetite, arouse women's curiosity, attract women to approach you actively, and have the desire to chat with you actively, instead of always boring questions and answers, chatting and falling asleep.

Men with real high EQ know how to use women's curiosity, grasp women's different emotions and sell the right things at the right time.

For example, when you are going to say something to a woman, you can throw a fresh part first, and then prepare some small routines, bets, relationships and so on when you arouse women's curiosity! Finally, even if women are not interested in this matter, more topics are touched because of this topic.

Third, men with high emotional intelligence will be very interested.

Many men know that the pursuit of a woman is by stalking and beating.

But you know what? This kind of behavior, in the eyes of women, is the most fall in price. When a woman doesn't care about you, the more you pester her, the worse her impression of you will be, even disgust, boredom and extreme disgust, and it is more likely to directly blacken you.

Therefore, men should know that it is right to pester and beat, but they should also know how to seize opportunities and learn to be interesting.

What is the inside story? When a woman doesn't want to talk to you or has something important to do, you should learn to shut up and give her some time and space. Especially when chatting, two people obviously have no topic, so don't try to find a topic. You know, once the topic is not found correctly, it will not only fail to achieve the original effect, but will only make the relationship between you very bad.

Fourth, men with high emotional intelligence will be very wise.

There is a saying in China, that is, to see the needle, know yourself and know yourself, and fight every battle.

If a man wants to pursue a woman, he must first understand what kind of man this woman likes. She likes to be mature, so you should try to be mature. She likes gentleness, and you should be as gentle as possible. She likes to be direct, so don't be a bitch.

In the early days of understanding, it is quite difficult to maintain the relationship between two people. Maybe it's just a bad word, and the other party will directly hack you.

For example, a woman is very simple, and she asks you to go out. Then some men directly treat her as a child and tell her about the weather, temperature and all kinds of chatter. Then in the end, not only will it not have the initial effect, but it will only make women feel that you are really a mother-in-law, unlike a man. The best reply and a simple and sincere greeting will be enough.