The older the son, the more difficult it is to manage. I want to give up, but I'm afraid it will ruin his life. If I want to control him, I won't listen at all. I'm so annoyed.

How can I put it? Every time I see such a problem, I feel sad, because being a parent is really not easy. 2 1 century, a 20-year-old child is really just a child. But in the parents' subconscious, you think he should grow up and be sensible, but he is not. Are they ever hungry? Have they ever worked for their families? Do they know that parenting is not easy?

The answers are all negative. So now most children simply don't understand the hardships of life. If they are spoiled, they won't know how to think of others. As a teacher in a vocational college, all my students are in their twenties, and I know the difficulties of being a parent. I can only say that the reason why children are like this is because most parents choose to give up education when their children are not stereotyped, and they can't persist in the end.

By the time they were 20, they already had their own ideas. You can't reason with him any more, it will only make him more annoyed. My suggestion is that parents should try their best to set a good example for their children, which is self-evident. He can feel that, in fact, words and deeds are more useful than any educational method! Don't try to "control" him again, as long as he doesn't go into the forbidden area of the law and give him proper guidance. Today's children know a lot and they have their own values. It is no longer possible for parents to decide everything for their children as in ancient times. Letting go properly is also a way. A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise! Related issues can focus on family education. I will take pains to answer educational questions for my parents, not out of sympathy for them. It can be said that it is my goal to get the children around me on the right track.