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I don't know what caused it, and I'm not organized.

The first thing you don't know is that you don't want to understand and think. Second, speaking unclear is related to your Mandarin/dialect. Third, disorder is related to the framework logic of your speech.

To sum up the above three reasons, two words are communication problems.

How to remove it? It's very simple. I can't say it clearly, because I haven't thought about it. I have developed the habit of thinking for five seconds. I have read a book about leaders' smoking before, not simply smoking, but thinking and answering through smoking. Shut up for five seconds before expressing, and read what your brain is saying first.

I can't speak clearly because Mandarin is not standard and the dialect is too heavy. Practicing Putonghua is mainly about keeping your mouth shut. Always practice making apples open their mouths.

If there is no coherent framework, you can just use opinion stories. The viewpoint is your viewpoint and dry goods, the story is to prove your viewpoint, and the proposition is what action you want the other party to take. You can read the article I wrote before. When you develop the way of speaking advocated by opinion stories, your speech will be organized.

I feel the same way about this problem. Living in a big city, communication is the most basic. When I first entered the university, I was afraid to speak loudly, so I was a little nervous when I spoke, and my nervous speech was very fast. I often stammer when I say something. As a result, I often can't express my views clearly. I think all the good ones are in a mess, and others are puzzled. Seeing other people's feedback, I am more depressed and autistic. ......

So if you think about it, it may be these reasons.

1.# Putonghua #

Being from the countryside, Putonghua will have some problems more or less. As for myself, I have many pronunciation problems, such as the difference between nasal sounds, the difference between flat tongue and upturned tongue, the confusion between L and N, the nonstandard pronunciation of R and so on. I always feel that my Mandarin is too plastic, which is different from others in the crowd, so I dare not speak for fear of losing face.

2.# Lack of knowledge #

When we are in a topic field that we don't know at all or even understand, and we don't have a certain knowledge reserve, in this case, it is definitely disorganized to bring the topic to ourselves.

3.# Mentality #

The most common possibility is that there is something wrong with your mentality, you care too much about other people's ideas, and you are afraid of doing bad things yourself. Once you receive some negative feedback, you will start to doubt yourself, affect your mentality, and have no confidence to continue to express yourself. Finally, what you said changed.

If you have these questions, you must dare to face them and express them.

For Mandarin, speak slowly and don't worry. People are often more willing to listen slowly in life. If there is a voice problem, try to correct it. If it is difficult to correct, there is no need to force it. Don't care. Accent is sometimes a kind of humor, which may be your advantage.

When we meet a strange conversation, we choose to be a listener, play the edge ball in the chat, make a joke and be more graceful.

Mentality, let go of yourself and you'll be done. You were born to be human. This is not the first time. There is no need to accommodate anyone. It is ok to express your ideas slowly.

Therefore, his unclear expression may not be a problem of his disorganization. Relax, it's his own fault that others can't hear clearly. Talking is not an interview. We have a chance to practice every day. Be bold and speak slowly.

A man who can talk is half the battle. Come on!

In fact, the root of unclear speech is that our knowledge base is not deep enough. Words need to transmit signals through brain cells, and the source of these signals is all the knowledge we absorb in this world. If you want to speak well and speak well, you must have enough knowledge and cognition about the current topic. That's the point. The second is self-confidence and adaptability to the environment. People who are not confident are afraid of others' negation and that they can't speak well. The brain reaction has decided that they can't do it, and the signal sent will definitely not be conditioned and clear. Adaptability to the environment is also very important. When you were studying, did you communicate well in class? When you are called to the stage by the teacher, you will feel confused and panic. In different environments, your adaptability completely controls the signals sent by our brains. Therefore, it is necessary to put words well, sum up three points, constantly absorb knowledge, improve self-confidence and exercise adaptability to different environments.

Unclear speech, no conditioned reflex.

The reasons are: first, lack of self-confidence, dare not express, easy to be nervous.

The second is the lack of knowledge accumulation in related fields. I don't know or understand. I have expressed some of my words, but some are not sure whether what I said is correct or not, and I am not sure whether others questioned me.

Third, lack of language summary ability, excessive thinking, unsystematic and incomplete speech, great logical leap and poor language logic.

The reasons for poor expression ability are as follows:

1, the main reason is usually psychological. Everyone can't be born to talk casually. Without corresponding exercise, what you want to express can't be expressed at will. Therefore, psychological reasons are the first;

2. Lack of relevant training, such as reading aloud training and newspaper reading training, are actually training;

3. Understanding relevant knowledge is also an important basis for normal expression. If you are not familiar with the major itself, you can't talk nonsense.

4. It may also be related to family. Family atmosphere or family intimacy and communication style are also crucial reasons for expression;

5. The growth process may also have some influence on expression.

There are many reasons why I can't explain clearly, mainly the following:

1, the logical thinking is not good, there is no logic in considering problems, and it is necessary to strengthen the training of logic, which is generally called "cause, process and result";

2. Usually, the accumulation of study is insufficient, some details are not clearly described, the words are not satisfactory, and the language is not up to standard;

3, afraid of making mistakes, lack of self-confidence. It often appears on some newcomers and chicks.

4, their own personality characteristics, do not like to express their thoughts and wishes.

5. The social environment and family environment are poor, and there is no stage for display.

My brother-in-law is a typical incoherent person. My brother-in-law is an undergraduate, majoring in accounting. According to his position and ability, he can be the chief financial officer or chief financial officer in any company. But his death point is his poor language ability. One is that he can't speak Mandarin, and the other is that his speech is disorganized and disorganized. A simple question can't be described clearly for half an hour, which makes the listener want to catch his topic and help him express it. Listening to him is boring. At that time, he said he wanted to apply for a normal major, and our brother and sister all laughed at him. Fortunately, he didn't pass the exam, otherwise he would be mistaken. Actually, my brother-in-law is quite good in other aspects.

1, physiological factors

Abnormal physiological structure of organs often leads to individual speech problems, for example, abnormal vocal organs may lead to unclear articulation of individuals and affect the clarity of sounds; If the child's hearing is impaired, it is difficult to master spoken English because he can't receive the external voice information normally.

Old people often say that the child can't speak clearly, and it may be "Lickitung". This is a physiological reason.

2. Psychological factors

Various psychological factors are also important factors that affect children's language development, among which children's emotions and emotions are the most influential. Whether children's emotions and emotions develop healthily is closely related to whether language can be acquired and developed normally.

The child is in a bad mood, especially when crying. If they cry and talk at the same time, their words may be unclear and vague.

3. Environmental factors

Parents' educational level, parenting style, communication strategies, emotional state in the process of communication with children and family economic situation will all affect children's language development.

I can't say clearly for two reasons. One is that you can't open your mouth. Some people are always lazy and weak when they speak. When you talk, your mouth doesn't open, only one-third of it is open, your mouth is small, your voice can't be completely released, and your voice is stuffy.

Another reason is the tongue. People with short tongues or those who are hit by tongues are dumb and can't speak. We call Lickitung Lickitung. When speaking, the pronunciation of individual words is not standard. When serious people speak, it is impossible to pronounce every word correctly. If they don't listen carefully, they don't understand at all.

I feel the same way about this problem. Living in a big city, communication is the most basic. When I first entered the university, I was afraid to speak loudly, so I was a little nervous when I spoke, and my nervous speech was very fast. I often stammer when I say something. As a result, I often can't express my views clearly. I think all the good ones are in a mess, and others are puzzled. Seeing other people's feedback, I am more depressed and autistic. ......