How do I get along with my mother-in-law

Like most sisters. I also met a nosy person who likes to take advantage of small things and is always self-righteous. . . My mother-in-law and I are from the south and she is from the north. Different regions lead to various differences in life, which makes me even more unbearable. I won't say much about her here. Tell me about my coping methods! The first few months after marriage were fine (we lived separately, but not far away, and she always came to my house. For her, I have been married for less than half a year, and I am going to get a real divorce. To the civil affairs department, I'm leaving anyway. I can't help it (in fact, I know I can't live without it, but I'm really angry), so that when I toss around, she will be much more honest and won't take care of the east and the west. In life, because of separation. So it didn't cause much trouble. What she cooks is not delicious at all, and it is especially salty. (His son said that she fried pickles. I'll have two more if you like. Eat less if you don't like it. But not on the surface. Didn't cook and wash clothes for me when I was pregnant. Talking about wanting grandchildren all day. I listened and didn't argue with her. Do your job well. I can't stand it anymore, so I cry at home alone. My mother came to take care of me after giving birth. She thought about how I should bring up the children according to her old tradition. I'll just listen to her. I will do it in my own way. She said it several times, but if I don't do it, I won't say it. Take advantage of small things, I have something to eat at home. I think she is here. I'll get her some. (it's all his money anyway) and let her take some home for the old people to eat. Sometimes I stick to my principles, such as washing clothes. She always brings a pile of clothes to my side to wash. Once she washed so much, there was only one thing left to wash, so I helped her wash it. But the second time, I soaked so much there that I didn't wash myself. I didn't wash it when I came to my house several times (I was told to wash it). I just ignored it. I piled a pile of clothes there myself and didn't wash them. Two days later, she came to take a bath. Bring it to me later, and I'll leave as soon as I finish washing. Occasionally take the initiative to help with some manual work. Give her a sense of accomplishment. But you can't help me too much (and then she will make you work harder and harder). My mother-in-law is not a clean person. Every time I clean the house, she is embarrassed to make a mess. Clean yourself up quickly. Remember one thing, sisters: don't confront each other head-on. Listen and say what they say. Or just ignore it. Get used to it after a long time. Don't speak ill of her son in front of her. They only protect their son (this is my lesson), and only ourselves are injured. It is better to have fun with her son. Don't say the wrong thing in front of her son. A man is between his mother and his wife, and his mother always comes first. The most important point: you just have to think about how many years she can live! Can you survive me? Don't argue with her. Same woman, same wife. She won't care about her heart. They are conservative, traditional, ancient and ignorant. . . Do you want us to be like them? We can't! Finally. If you can't live together, you must not live together. Rent a small house outside. I hope my experience can help you.