Daughter-in-law and mother-in-law celebrate the New Year. What is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Twenty-five years ago today, you and I entered the marriage hall hand in hand. Since then, I have had you in my life. You became my husband, I became your wife, and our hearts and hands matched each other and never separated.

The old man said: husband and wife are predestined. I don't know if this is true or not, but I believe that you and I must have been predestined friends in previous lives and must have practiced together for thousands of years. Otherwise, we wouldn't hit it off at first sight, so similar in personality, so tacit in action, leaving so many memories for each other. Even love at first sight!

The first time I met you was the day after I entered the university. When you came to my dormitory, you were a little thin, wearing a gray suit, a little old-fashioned and not very energetic, but your eyes were firm. You introduce yourself as a sophomore and ask if you need help. You speak slowly but articulate clearly. I don't see the timidity and shyness of strangers at first sight. I am willing to talk to you. Later, I heard that you are an editor of the school literature club and a class cadre, which impressed me deeply. I would like to talk to you about life, literature and family. After dinner, walk with you on the road by the river, talk about mountains, ideals and stories; On Sunday, about 35 villagers visited scenic spots, climbed mountains and enjoyed great rivers and mountains, or rode bicycles to visit the city scenery. In college, it is the most unforgettable and pleasant time in life to stay away from parents' fetters and complaints, live yourself, and stop racking your brains for study and being at a loss for the future.

Youth is short, full of poetry and happiness. You will graduate in a blink of an eye, and I have an unspeakable nostalgia and anxiety. You saw it, advised me not to worry, and said you would come back to see me. I don't believe it, how can I have time and money when I just started working? But a month later, you really appeared at the door of my dormitory and brought me snacks and a big box of fruit from my hometown, saying that my mother asked you to send them. At that moment, I was really moved, and even my eyes were full of tears. Is it happiness or missing? I don't know. Although travel-stained, I only stayed for two hours and went back overnight, but I was secretly glad that this is a man of his word! In the next year, you always go to school four times, almost once every two months. I was moved again and again. After marriage, you said that you only eat one meal a day, save enough money, squeeze out time, and basically don't rest on Sundays. Hearing this, I cried with distress.

The hardest thing to forget is your last holiday. We made an appointment to go back to school together. But that day, I deliberately didn't go because I had something on my mind, thinking that you would go alone without me. Unexpectedly, the next day, when I stepped into the ticket hall, I saw you sitting on a stool in the corner, your face was pale and your eyes were blurred. You were hanging in the corner, lonely, helpless and miserable. I was shocked at first and immediately realized that I had made a big mistake: I can't make fun of such a trustworthy and persistent person! I regretted it very much and ran to apologize. You don't have much expression, but you just said something faintly. Let's leave now. Later, you forgave me, and I was no longer willful, self-centered, considerate and gentle, and began to learn to care about and think for others. It can be said that this incident has greatly educated me, shocked me and determined my life trajectory: God doomed your stubbornness, not to mention having such a person to accompany you all your life and love you as yourself. Are there any other requirements? What else are you dissatisfied with? From then on, I began to associate with you wholeheartedly and be your girlfriend willingly.

Married, no gorgeous wedding dress, no elegant auditorium, no room full of relatives and friends, no songs and blessings, not even a decent new dress, only a few relatives and friends got together and had a simple meal, which could not be simpler. Although our parents secretly shed tears because they were too shabby, we still smiled foolishly and were full of joy, showing our happiness. Because we believe that as long as we love each other, everything will be fine and there will always be bread!

A low-rise old house allocated by the unit, a wooden bed becomes a home. We can't live without oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, but the salary is very low. Two people add up to less than 150, and they have to honor their parents. We can only live on meager food, and sometimes we don't even have enough money to buy food, let alone fruit and nutrition. When pregnant, experienced elders reminded that children who eat more apples have white skin and children who eat more walnuts have black hair. I just said I understand, thank you, and laugh it off. During that time, although we were poor, we still lived happily. We cook and laugh together after work. We often share an apple and grab a bowl of noodle soup. Sometimes I spoil a banana for each other, look at the inedible banana, point to each other's nose, and unfortunately scold "blame you, blame you, blame you", but happiness can't be hidden in my face. I think: Perhaps, the ancients must have done this when they coined the words "Take Qi Mei as an example and regard customers as the highest priority"!

People say: home is a restaurant that brews love and happiness, and it is a wine glass full of warmth and moving waiting to be tasted. I said: home is your refuge when you encounter setbacks outside; Happy time is a comfortable house; When you are worried, you are a punching bag; If you are hungry, thirsty and sleepy, this is a place to sleep. Since I have this home, I have a support: when I am tired and sleepy, you hold me in your arms until I fall asleep; Be wronged and suffer indignities, enlighten me and comfort me until you laugh; When you gain progress and are happy, you encourage me to push me and laugh with me. If you are angry and bored, I will scold you as a dog. You are like a pupil who made a mistake, shrinking back without saying a word. In this family, I am the most glorious and versatile little princess, and you are an old nurse with low eyes. Home makes me feel that it is the warmest place for people in this world after the noise.

Later, we had 100 square meters of buildings, comfortable cowhide sofas and high-grade furnishings. Both parents moved into the city and had everything owned by others. Fortunately, my son is smart, sensible, progressive, kind and self-reliant. He has been a class cadre from primary school to university. Through our efforts, we have also made great progress. Both of them have become the backbone of the unit business, and both of them have been promoted to leadership positions, comparable to Qi Fei. It can be said that there is sweetness in bitterness and sweetness in sweetness. Attract others to cast envious, jealous and puzzled eyes. But we know that love brings happiness and love gives sweetness.

Now, we have all passed the age of no doubt, no longer have so much hope for life, and no longer have any extravagant demands for a better future. We just want to live a plain, healthy and happy life. I just hope I can sit under the sunny window, make a pot of good tea, talk to you about the ancients, and express my pleasure when I am interested. I only hope to have time to accompany you to visit more mountains and rivers, see more magnificent mountains and rivers, and live a fairy life of traveling. I only hope that my parents will be healthy, have one more meal with them, chat with them once more and make them happy once more. I just want my son to be happy and do what he wants, and we can also help him do some work within our power. When I get old, when my temples are gray and I stumble, I will sit around the fire with you, count the traces left by time in our wrinkles and white hair and laugh at the ruthlessness of time.

You came here all your life just to walk with me. Thank you for having you in my life!